分手后你忍不住找前任复合的心态分析

　　gaosanfenshoulenanshouzenmeban？gaosanshirenshengzhongdezhongyaoshiqi，fenshouduiyumeiyigegaosanshengdoushiyizhongjudadedaji。zaizheigeguanjiandexueyehexuexiyalixia，ruhediaozhengzijiqingxu，zhongxinzhenzuo，jixuqianjinshishifenzhongyaode。suiranbushufu，danwomentongguoqingsuyuhaoyouqingtan，canyukeyuhuodonglaizhuanyizhuyili，zhaodaoxindegerenaihaolaimibushiwang，bingqieyeyaoxuehuifangxiayiwang，jienahetiaozhanjieshouxianshi，xiangxinshijianhuizhiliaoyiqietongku，weijinhoudegaokaoherenshengzhengtiguihuachongfenzhunbei。

　　失恋的痛苦

　　gaosanfenshoulenanshouzenmeban，shilianduiyurenherenlaishuodoushiyizhongtongchudeqinshenjingli，tebieshizaigaosanzheigezhongyaodelianjiedian。fenshoubudandanshiliangxindefenli，gengshiyizhongjingshencengmiandegeduanheshenxinjiankanglidechongjixing。zaizheigeshihou，dajiabengaizhiliyuxueyeheshengxuegongzuoyali，danshilianquehuishiwomenmeifajizhongjingli，shenzhiyingxiangdaodajiaweilaifazhan。neiyang，zaigaosanfenshoule，dajiayinggairuheyingduizheileibushufuni？

　　1. 面对现实，宣泄情绪

　　jienafenshoudeshiji，bunengtaobihuofoudingzijidexiangfa。dajiakeyizhaoyigeanjingdejiaoluo，haotaodakuhuoqingsuxinlidekuchu。genjuxuanxieqingxu，dajiakeyihuanjiexinlideyalihejinpogan，shizijigengqianglumianduijiexialaidegaokaokaoshiyushenghuo。

　　2. 搜寻适用与陪伴

　　zaizheigeshike，womenyinggaiqingsuhejiaoliu。xunzhaonenggouqingsudepengyoumen、jiaoshihuozhejiaren，rangtamenpeiwomenduguozheiyiduanjianxindemeihaoshiguang。tamendelijiehezhichinengbangzhuwomenshifangchulaixinzhongdekuchu，yucitongshiyenengtigongjijizhudongdetiyiyuguli，zhudajiazhenzuoqilai。

　　3. 找回自信与坚强

　　shiliankenenghuishidajiaqueshizixinxin，danwomenbunengrangzheiyiqiezulandajiaqianxing。qinglaojigerenyoudianheguoqudezaojiu，yaobaochilianghaodexintai。canyukeyuhuodong，suzaoyigexindegerenaihao，zhongshiyigerendechengzhangyufazhan。tongguozheigebianhuayushijian，dajianenggouzhongxinzhongshizixinhewanqiang，rangzijibiandegengjiaqiangjing。

　　4. 密切关注课业

　　suiranshiliankenenghuishidajiaxinqingdiluo，danwomenbunengyinerhushilegaokaodezhongyaoxing。fanguolai，womenbashilianzuoweiyigetupokou，gengjiazhuanzhudiguanxinkeye。zhidingyigekexuehelidexuexijihua，jizhongzhuyiliyujianchi，zhengdezaigaokaozhongqudeyouyidechengji。buxushilianyingxiangdaolezijideqiantuyuweilai，ershiyiyouyidechengjizhengmingzijishiyongjiazhi。

　　5. 健康生活方式，积极调整

　　shilianhou，yaozhuyibaochijiankangdeshenghuoxiguan。kexueanpaizuoxishijianbiao，baozhengchongzushuimian，junhengshanshi，anshijiaqiangduanlian。chucizhiwai，womenhaikeyitongguonianshu、lvyou、canjiashetuandengxingshi，jijizhudongdiaozhenghaozijidexintai，tuokuanzijideshixian，rangzijigengjiafengfuyukuaile。

　　6. 时间治疗一切

　　zuizhuyaode，qingxiangxinshijiandeliliang。fenshoudekuchuburongyiyizhichixu，suizheshijiandetuiyi，dajiahuizhujianhuifu，zhujianhuifuzishendeshengmingli。yaoxiangxinmingtianhuigenghao，jijimianduishenghuodejiyuyutiaozhan。xiangxinshijiandezhiliaonengliang，yonggandemianduijianglai，nijiuhuifaxianzuihaodeziji。

　　gaosanfenshoulenanshouzenmeban，wulunmianduishenmeyangdecuozheyushibai，gaosanjiushiwomenrenshengzhongdezhongyaoshike。fenshousuiranshiwomenshangxin，danzheiyeshiyizhongchengzhangdejihui。leguanmiandui、dongdediaojie，womenkeyizhanshengkunnan，jiqineixindeliliang，qudeyouyidechengji，weizijiderenshengdaxiajianshidegenji。jilao，shilianjinjinrenshenglideyigepianduan，zhenzhenzhengzhengshuyuzijidexingfucaiganggangkaishijingjingdedengdai。