我和男友分分合合 分手后却发现自己怀孕

　　henanpengyoufenshouletashuonanguainiqiannanyoumani，danghenanyoufenshoushi，tadehuarangwobujinsisuo。tashuodao，“guaibudeniqiannanyoumani。”zheijuhuayaowohuiyiqicengjingdeguowang，yaowozhiyizijiyiqiandetiaoxuangerenxingwei。tatixianlewozaiguoqulianqingzhongjingliguodebuyukuai，bingxianchulewoneishidegerenxingweiduibierendeweihai。rujin，womenxuyaofansheng，yongxinmianduiguoqucuowu，bianyucongzheidangzhongxiqujiaoxun，xiangzhegengjiachengshuheyoujiazhideqinglvguanximairu。

　　一次分手，多重谩骂

　　henanpengyoufenshouletashuonanguainiqiannanyoumani，zaiyiduanlingrenxinsuideaiqingjieshuhou，nanpengyoudandandishuo：“guaibudeniqiannanyoumani。”zheijuhuazainikouzhongsuikoushuochu，rujiandaohuapolewoxinlingshenchudezuizhongyisixiwang。xinzhongshengkunhuo，mihuobujiezijizhiqiandetiaoxuangerenxingweishifouyouwenti，nandaowozhendeshiyigebuzhidebeiaiderenni？

　　怀恋与经验教训

　　zheijuhuajiqiwoduiyuguoqudezhuiyi，shiwoxianruchensi。congqiandelianqingzhong，yebushimeiyoutongkuyubuyukuai。yexu，woxianruyiduanlingrenkunaodeguanlian，erwodexingweijiqiannanyouchongzudetuociqumanmawo。zheiyijijufengcixingdebiaodian，yinqilewoxinlizangyudeyoulv。

　　面对过去错误

　　rujin，womenxuyaoyonggandequmianduicongqiandebuzhengque，zhuishuotamendexingwei，fanshengbingqiejieshou。woshenzhongkaolv，huiyiqineishihoudetiaoxuangerenxingwei，shibushiyoukenengyinfatarendetongkuhezenghen。zheijuhuahuoxushiyigeqiaojingzhong，tishiwoguanxinzijideyanxingduibierensuozaochengdeyingxiang。

　　思考与收获

　　zheiyangdezhuangkuangcushiwoshendusikao，wobudebushenshizijideyiwang，zhaodaozaiqizhongwentihecunzaidebuzu。wojuexincongzheidangzhongxiqujiaoxun，yaochengzhangweiyigegengchengshuheshanjierenyideren。zhihuizaiyingduizishendequedianbinggengzhengtamendeqiantixia，wocaikenengxunzhaozhenzhengdekuaileyulijie。

　　迎来更好的感情

　　zheijuhuadezhenhanducuwozhongxinlejiezishen，fajuezijideyoudianheyouhuafangxiang。wojiangjixunulibianchengyigegenghaoderen，yifangyicuozaicuo。wulunguoqulianxidefensuihebuyukuai，wohaiqingxiangxin，wanmeideaiqingrengranzaidengdaizhewo，zhiyaotanenggouxuedaojingyanjiaoxun，bingqieduizuochudexuanzegengweicongming。

　　从错误到发展

　　zheijuhuachongmanzhekaoyanjili。tabudanshiwohuiguguoqu，yeshidewoxiangqianzou。wofenshouqinshenjinglichengweiwomenxinlituibiandejinshucuihuaji，yaowozhangwozishendebuzu，chongjingweilaigengjiashenxinjiankanghewendingdehunlianguanxi。

　　不会再被定义

　　suiranzheijuhuajiwodailailetongchuhehuaiyi，kewoxinxinbuzaishouqisuojieding。tazhishiyijuhua，bunengquedingwozishenjiazhiheaidepinzhi。wonengbiaoxianzijidechengzhangyugaibian，biaoxianzijizhidewomentengxiyuzunzhong。

　　改变自我，追寻真爱

　　henanpengyoufenshouletashuonanguainiqiannanyoumani，wojiangyongcicifenshoudezaoyuzhongxinsuzaozishen，chaoguocongqiandecuowujiongjing。buhuizaichenmiyuyiwang，wonengbuduanjinbuyuxuexi，jizijidazaochuxingfukuailehejiankangdeganqingguanxi。zaixunmizhenaidedaolushang，wojiangbuhuizaijupa，yinweiwojuede，zaimeiyicishibaihou，zongshihuiyougenghaodejihuidenghouzheta。