挽回爱情的时候，你要认识正负心态的影响

　　benwenjiangweirao“henanpengyoufenshouliyoudaquan”jinxing，zhuyitaolungezhonggeyangpubianhekenengdefenshouyuangu，bangzhuduzhegenghaodilejieheyingduilianaizhongdekaoyan。bulunshijiaoliuwenti、huxiangchengzhangdechabie、qipianbeipan、zhangjuliguanxihuozhesanguanbuhedeng，womenjiangyaoshenrufenximeiyigechangjing，tongshitigonghaoyongtiyiquchulifenshou，bangnitaruxindezhengcheng。

　　共处分歧：沟通困难

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　　价值观冲突：发展趋向不一样

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　　背叛和欺骗：信赖受到破坏

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　　有问题发展趋势：长距离关系

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　　三观不合：没法和谐相处

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　　汇总

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