我和男友姐弟恋 双方父母都不同意我们在一起

　　henvrenfenshouyihounvrenduojiuhuizhudongzhaoni，fenshouhou，bushaorendouhaoqixin：henvrenfenshouyihou，daodixuyaoguoduojiucainengjijizhaoni？zheizhongqingkuangmeiyouyigemingquedehuida，bijingdajiahemeiyiduanaiqingdoushiduyiwuerde。youyixienvrenyoukenengzaifenshouhoudejirizhineizhujianxiangnianni，zhudonglianxini；erlingyixienvrenkenenghaixuyaohenzhangdeshijianlaizhishangyuchengzhang。yinci，bukeyishewangyigegudingshijianduan，ershiyinggaisuiyueran，jiyubicizhijianzugoudeshijianyushijian，rangganqingdeyifazhanziyouerdangran。

在失去之后思念之情

　　henvrenfenshouyihounvrenduojiuhuizhudongzhaoni，ruguoniyunvrenfenshoudeshihou，xinlizongshihuiyingraozheyigewenti：fenshouhou，yaoguoduojiucaiyouhenyoukenengzhudongzhaodaoni？huidabingburongyi，yinweimeigerenqingxutiyanyuchulifangfadougebuxiangtong。youyixienvrenyoukenengzaiyishunjianlikaihou，gandaoyizhongshenshendishiwang，neixinchongmanlesilianqipan，tamenkenengshifenxunsudizhudonglianxini，qidainenggouzhongxinqudelianxi，mibuneiyifengangsangshidekongbai。

自然恢复的时间也

　　danshi，yeyouyixienvrenbixuhenzhangdeshijianlaijianqingtongchu，beishangheshiwangzaitamenxinlijiaocuo。tamenhenyoukenengxuyaoyiduanshijianlaiziranhuifu，zhongxinshenshizijidejingshenxuqiuherenshengdingwei。zheiyiduanshijiankenengyoujiri，jigexingqinaizhihaoduogeyue。zaizheigeshihou，tamenjijizhaonidegailvhenyoukenengbijiaoxiao，qishitamenzhengzhiliyufujianzishendeneixinshijie，tanxunzijidexingfuhechengjiugan。

再次均衡的重要

　　keshi，suizheshijiantuiyi，dangtamenmanmanjunhengxintaihezhongxinjianliziwozixinxinshi，tamenhenyoukenengkaishikaolvcongqiandeguanlian，shifouzaiciqudelianxidegailv。zheishihou，tamenhuikaishikaolvjijizhaonideshi。zheigeshijitongchangshizaifenshouhoujigeyuenei，danbingbushijueduidejibendinglv，yinweimeigerenxiufuyusikaosulvdouhuiyousuobutong。

触发体制的必要性

　　zaizheiguochengzhong，chufazhudongquzhaonidezhiduyeshifeichangzhongyaode。youshihou，tamenyoukenengzaikandaoyixiechufadianzhihou，jifazaicijinidadianhuadechongdong。zheizhongchufadianhenyoukenengjiushinimenyiqianyitongxihuandedifang、gongtongdepengyoushejiaoquan，huozheyixieyiqijinglidemeihaohuiyi。zheizhongchufadianhuigouqiqitamenduiyuguoqudeqingganjiyi，shitamengengkenengjijimaikaigoutongjiaoliudeyibu。

聆听和理解的必要性

　　zuizhong，dangtamenmaichuzheiyibu，jiyutamenzugoudelingtingyulijieshishifenzhongyaode。fenshouhouzhijiandeguanxifujianxuyaoshuangfangdenulihelejie，jinliangbuyaodihuijuetamendejiji，yebuyaojizhemingquetichutaiduoyaoqiuhexiwang。tigongbicizhijianchongzukongjianheshijian，yutazaiciqudelianxi，ziranhuifubicizhijianderentongheqinmigan。

　　henvrenfenshouyihounvrenduojiuhuizhudongzhaoni，zaifenshouhou，yaodengdainvrenjijizhaoni，bingmeiyouyigegudingshijianbiao，meigerenyoumeigerendefangfajiezou。guanjianzaiyujiyutamenchongzudelijiehezhichi，erfeikongjuhezhejididenghou。zhihuizaishuangfangchongfenzhunbei，bingzhenzhengxiangyaomianduiguoqudezhuduo，zaixindeqidianshangzhongxingoujianqiqingxujiben，cainengzhenzhengdexiwangyigegengmeihaodemingtian。