闪婚后发现老公刚和前女友分手 感觉自己被欺骗

　　fenshoulezenmexiangchushiyizhongyishu，xuyaoshuangfangpingdengjiaoliugengjiachengshudetaidu。nengtongguochendianshijian、jiejueqingxu、weichizhongshidengxingshi，jianliqiyigexindexiangchumoshi。bicijiyuyidingdeshineikongjian，buhuizaiganyuduifangshenghuo，dantongshibaozhengyoushandelianluo，gongxiangshenghuozhongyixiedashijianyukuaile。zhujiandanhuawangrideshangtong，fazhanqushizhengchangdedeyouqing，jiunenggouzaifenshouhoubaochiyizhongshenxinjiankangermeihaodegongchuguanxi。

　　共处的前提条件：接纳分手，调整情绪

　　fenshoulezenmexiangchu，fenshoushiyizhongwufataobidejushi，dangliangrenbuzaishiheyiqishi，mianduixianshishidiyibu。biciyidingyaodongdediaozhengqingxu，wangjiguoqudeqingxufudan，bubichenjinyukunanzhong。jinyoupingxinjingqicainengdadaoyouliangxiangchu。

　　建立室内空间界限：维持适当间距，防止干预

　　weilefangzhijinzhangfenqiqingxu，chedigaibianguanxijiexianshibukehuoquede。bicibixujiyubicizhijianshidangdekongjianhezijuexing，buhuizaiganyuduifangshenghuo，erqiezunzhongduifangdegerenjuece。weichishidangjianjuyouzhuyuxiaochugongzuoyalishenghuozhongdemaodun，weihemuxiangchuzaojiujiben。

　　建立一个新的相处模式：彻底改变关系

　　fenshouhou，yuanxiandexiaoqinglvguanxiyijinggaibian，bixuchedigaibianyigexindexiangchumoshi。biru，nenggoushibicidepengyouhuozhehezuofang。genjugongtonghuatihuoquanyi，jianliqiyigexindeqiaoliang。zheiyangdegaibianyouliyuzhonggouguanxi，jiangdicongqiandeaihenjiuge，congershigongchugengjiashunchanghehemu。

　　合作是重要：平等交流，解决不悦

　　fenshouhou，bicixuyaoxuehuikaizhanzhenchengerwanshandegoutongjiaoliu。weichiduiwaikaifangdeduitanfangshi，jiangchuneixinqiangliebumanhebuyue，yifangzhijiyadexintaizaochengguanxiebian。yucitongshi，yeyaodongdelingtingduifangjianjiehetihui，zunzhongduifangdejianyi，tanxunchuliwentideyouxiaofangshi。

　　维持尊重与文明礼貌：不会再损害彼此之间

　　fenshoubingbudengyukeyirenyishanghaitarendeqingxu，fandaoyingdanggengjiazhongshiweichizunzhongyuwenminglimao。fangzhizhengchaoheeyuxiangxiang，bubiguyishanghaizuilingyifang。suiranguanxiyijinggaibian，danyiranbaochiyizhongrendebenxingzijidedixian，jiyubicizhijianzuiqimadezunzhong。

　　消除往日追忆：学会放下痛苦，向前走

　　fenshouhou，xiaochuguoqudezhuiyizhenduijianlixinxiangchuguanxishishifenzhongyaode。buyaolaoshihuailianguoqudemeimiaohuotongku，fanershizhanwangweilai。jizhongjingliyujingli，zaixinshenghuozhongzhuixunyigerendechengzhangyuxingfu。yiwangdeshangtongjianghuizhujianxiaochu，weixindegongchuguanxizhujiujianshijichu。

　　分享快乐与关注：维持友善的联络

　　jinguanbuhuizaishiqinglv，danyirannengbaochiyoushandelianluo。ruguoduifangzaishenghuoguochengzhongyudaoguanjiandekuaileshi，nenggoubiaoshizhufuheguanai。baochilianghaoshejiaoxing，gongxiangshenghuozhongdeyixiedashijian。zheizhongtaiduyouliyujianliyizhongzhengchangdeeryouyiyubicixiangchuguanxi。

　　自立自强：建立自已的生活

　　fenshouhou，shuangfangxuyaoxuehuiziliziqiang，jianliziyideshenghuo。buyilailingyifangguoduyilai，ershiyongzhuiqiuzijidemubiaohelixiang，xunzhaoshuyuzijidexingfu。xianghuxinrenyuzhufubicizhijian，nengrangduifangkanjianzijidejinbuyuchengzhang。

　　友谊分手：维持和谐相处

　　zuizhuyaodeshi，fenshouhouyingbaochiyouyi。bunengrangzhengchaohegandaoyanehexingongchuguanxi，weichihexiexiangchudexintai。genjuwanshandetaiduhejianshexingxingwei，cujinshuangfangdediaojiehekuanrong，ranggongchugenghexie。

　　fenshoulezenmexiangchu，gongchuguanxidezhongdianshiyouyihemu，jibianfenshoule，yirankeyitongguoyizhongwanshan、baorongheyouhaodexintaigongchu。genjudiaozhengqingxu、jianlishineikongjianjiexian、pingdengjiaoliubingweichizhongshi，nenggouchedigaibianguanxi，xiaochuwangrideshangtong。ertongguogongxiangkuaileyuguanzhu、ziliziqiangjiqiweichiyouyifenshoudejibenyuanze，shuangfangkeyichuangzaochuyizhongshenxinjiankangermeihaodexiangchumoshi。