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　　相互尊重：

　　fenshoulezenmexiangchu，fenshoujinguandaibiaozhejieshuqinglvguanxi，quebingbudengyuwanquanduanjuequanbulianluo。xianghuzunzhongshifenshouhougongchudejiben。wulunshitongguomianduimiandejiaoliuhuoshitongguoshejiaomeiti，bicixuyaobaochibicizunzhongbierendeganshouhejianyi。fangzhieyanxiangxiang，bubiguyishanghaizuilingyifang。zhiyouzaibicizhijiannengyizhongshidexintaigongchu，fenshouhoudeneizailianxicainengbuduangaijin。

　　适当间距：

　　fenshouhou，biciyoushihouxuyaojiduifangyixieshijianyukongjianlaiziwoyouhuayuzhishang。taipinfandilianluohuoguoduyilailingyifang，henyoukenenghuiyanzhangshangtongdequanyuquanguocheng。yiner，shidudilakaijulishifeichangbiyaode。bingbuyiweizhechedizhanduanlianluo，fanershixuyaopinghenghaozijideqingxuxuqiuyuduibicidezhongshi。yiduanshijianhouzaiqukaolvzaiciqudelianxi，jiyubicizhijianchengzhangdejihui。

　　重新建立界限：

　　fenshouhou，yuanxiandejiexianheguizezaoyibuzaishiyong。bicibixuzhidinggongchudezhiduhejiexian。zhuyaobaokuobujinruduifangsirenshenghuo，buganyutarendeshenghuoguanlijuece，zunzhongduifangdegerenyinsi。yucitongshi，yeyaoquedingkandaibicizhijiandexintai，jibuguoyureqing，yebieduilingyibanyouyilengmo。zhongxinjianlijiexianyouzhuyubaochixiangduixingdulidekongjian，jianshaoaihenjiuge。

　　一同兴趣：

　　fenshouhou，bicikenengmianlinyigerenmianduinideshijianhexingquxihao。danshi，genjutanxungongtongdexingquheaihao，nenggouweishuangfangchuangzaogengduolianjiedian。zheiyouzhuyugaishanjiandejinzhangnankan，tongshiyezengjialebicizhijiandejiaoliuhehudongneirong。yitongxingqunengshiyibudianying、yibenshuji、yicilvxing，shenzhishiyigeyoushandetiyujingsai。zheizhongyitongxingqubudankeyizengjinbicidelijiehejiaoliu，yenenggourangfenshouhouxiangchubiandeyuelaiyuekaixin。

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