缺乏安全感 我该如何向男友表达我想有个家

　　henanpengyoushuofenshoutameiyouwanliu，dangzhonghenanpengyoushuofenshoushi，wodexinlishaoweiyouxiexiwang，xiwangtawanliuwo。danshi，taquejingjingdizhanzaineili，meiyouyijuwanliudehua。wokanzhetadeyanjing，xunzhaoqidaidezhengzhao，quezhikanjianningjingdeningjing。jiushiwoqiwangzhitaigao，huoshizheifenganqingzaojiushiquhuanjingwendu？zheigeshunjian，woshenshendiganshoudaoletaduifenshoudejuecedezhizheyucongrong。

　　短暂的确定，悠长的探索

　　henanpengyoushuofenshoutameiyouwanliu，neiyikewoxianrulesisuo。dajiacengjingxiangaiguo，bicizhijianjieshaoguokuaileyutongku。danshi，suizheshijiandetuiyi，liangrendeguanxibiandegengjiamingan。woyiduhuaiyiwomenshibushihaikeyiyizhizouxiaqu。zheigexuanzebingfeiyishichongdong，fanershiyiduanzhangshijiansikaoyuchiyi。meigerenyoumeigerendedaodedixian，wobudebushuo，woyijingdaodalezuihoudedixian。

　　倾吐和期待，挽留心跳声

　　zaiwodasuangennanpengyoufenshouyiqian，cengjingdewochangshihetaqingtuwogulvhedanxin。woxiwangwomennenggougongtongfendouchuliwenti，zhongshineiyifencongqiandexingfukuaile。woxiwangtanenglijiewoneixin，jilewoxinrenyuzhichi。danshi，tadefanyingrangwofeichangshiwanghetongku。tameibiaoshuyiqiewanliudeyiyuan，bingmeiyouchangshibaituokunjing。zheijianshirangwoyiduhuaiyidajiajiandeganqingshibushihaiyouxiwang。

　　一个人的坚定不移，言语的沉默无言

　　dangzhonghenanpengyoushuofenshoudeneigeshunjian，wohenqidaitadewanliu，xiwangtanengzhaodaogenghaodeyujurangrenxindong。danshi，taquejingjingdizhanzaineili，bingmeiyoushuoyijuhua。tadeyanjingbingmeiyouqifu，wanquanmeibiaomingyiqiexiangbaituokunjingdeyiyuan。tadechenmowuyanyaowoxianrulefenqidesixu，wobuzhidaoruhejiangjietadeqingxu。jiushitabuzaiaiwola，haishizaoyijieshoulewofenshouzheiyishishi？

　　接受的从容，自我保护的信心

　　suirantameiyouliuluyiqiewanliudeyiyuan，danwobingbujuedemimanghemimang。fanguolai，woshenganleyizhongguaiyidecongrong。yexu，zheibuzhishitajieshoufenshoudexintai，yegengduodishiwojieshouzijidejueding。mianduiyigebingbushijiyuwanliuderen，wojuexinbaohuhaoziji，bunengjixuxianruwuxiuzhidezhengchaoxingshanghaidangzhong。fenshou，bingbushiyizhongbuchenggong，fanershiweilejizijiyigegenghaodemingtian。

　　重新寻找，终获自身

　　jinguannanyoubingmeiyouwanliuwo，danshiwozhidao，bingbuyiweizhewoderenshengjieshule。fanguolai，zheishiyigezaicizhenshiziwodehaojihui。womenxuyaozhongxinshenshizijideyaoqiuheqidai，jizijixunzhaogengjiaheshidebanlv。wojianxin，meiyigewanbidoushiweixindeqidian。woxiangyonggandequmianduijianglai，jianxinzijiyirannengzhaodaozhenzhengshuyuzijidexingfu。fenshoubushizhongdian，gengshiweilezhongxindedaozishen，congtoukaishidekaiduan。

　　汇总：犹豫纠结的摆脱

　　henanpengyoushuofenshoutameiyouwanliu，zaiwogaozhinanpengyouwoxiangfenshou，tameiwanliu。yingduitadechenmowuyan，wodexinlishenshouzhengzhahechiyi。danshi，wojiulejie，wanliubingfeiyiqiededuice。fenshoujilezaicizhenshiziwodehaojihui，yerangwomingbaile，meigerenyoumeigerendedixianhezhuixun。zheigexuanzeyexubingfeiyishi，danshiqueshiyeweizijizhaodaoheshidexingfukuailesuojinxingdebaituo。