分手后应该怎样做他才会投入

　　nanpengyoushuoleileyaofenshouzenmeban，dangnanyoumingquetichufenshoushiyinweipibei，dajiayaomianduiyuchulizheizhongqingkuang。zuixian，womenyaobaochilixing，xunwentashibushizhendexiangfenshou，yinweikenengshiyishidepibeizaochengxinqingdiluo。xiamian，womenkeyishizhegoutongjiaoliu，bicilingtingbierendeganshouyuxuqiu，tanxunjiejuewentidefangfa，biruyiqizhengtiguihuaxiuxirihuofentanbicizhijianyali。yucitongshi，yebuyaohushizijidexiangfayijixuyao，chuangjianyouxiaodegoutonghexianghufuchideqianti，yigongtongfendouhezhanshengkunnan。

　　应对男友明确提出分手，怎样处理疲倦导致的烦恼

　　冷静分析，了解真真正正动机

　　nanpengyoushuoleileyaofenshouzenmeban，dangwomennanyouzaipibeizhuangtaixiamingquetichufenshoushi，shouxianyaobaochilixing。ranhou，womenkeyijijihetakaizhanshenrujiaoliu，yilijietadezhenzhenzhengzhengdongyin。yexu，pijuanranertazanshixingdeqingxubianhua，bixulingtingbingzhangwotadexinlizhaohuan。tongguoxizhidegoutongjiaoliu，womenkeyifajuechutaxinlizhenzhengdexuqiu。

　　为他提供温馨关怀的适用

　　zaileideshihou，womenyinggaichengweizijidejiezhuhezuiwennuandeshiyong。genjulingtingtadezhizehepijuan，womenkeyijiejinquanliweitatigongfuweihezhidao。zhuyaobaokuopeizhetashifangyali，yiqihuanjiegongzuoyali，huoshizhaodaogaijinxinliqiaocuidebanfa。womendewennuanheguanaikeyirangtaganshoudaodajiaduiyutadezhichihelijie，congerjianqingtadepibeixintai。

　　合理安排休息日

　　pijuanrendeneixin，helianpaixiuxirikeyijiejuewentidehexin。dajiayingdangyunanyouyitongzhidingxiangyingdexiexifangan，weiduifangzaojiushenxinfangsonghuifudejiyu。zheikeyibaokuofenpeigongtongdejiaqi，yundonghuolvyou，huoshitanxungenggaoxiaodeshijianguanlifangfa，yiquebaogexianggongzuoyuxiexizhijiandeguanlian。genjuhelianpai，dajiakeyijianqingnanyouyinpilaoguodusuodailaideyingxiang，tigaolianggerendeguanxi。

　　密切沟通，探寻共同解决方式

　　dangmianduifenshoudeweixieshi，miqiegoutongkeyijiejuewentidehexin。womenyinggaitanchengdibiaodaguandianhetihui，haiyaoqingnanyoufenxiangtadejianjie。genjushenrutantaoyulijieduifangdexuqiu，womenkeyizhaodaoyiqiyingnanershangdejiejuefangan。zheiyangkeyihaiyouduigongzuozhongheshenghuoxiguankaizhanshidudiaozheng，bicifuchihexiezuo，suzaogengqiangdexinlikangyanengli。tongguojijierduiwaikaifangdejiaoliu，womennenggouzaijiannanzhonghuxiangzhaogu，yiqichengzhang。

　　重塑关联，创建更健康的前提

　　yingduinanyoudepijuanfenshouxintai，dajiaxuyaosikaoshifouyaozhongsuliangrendeguanxi。huoxu，fenshouyoukenengshijianqingbicipibeidefangfazhiyi。zhongsuguanlianbudandanshijiejuedangqianwenti，qishishiweilechuangjiangengjiankanghewendingdejiben。zaizhongxinsikaobicizhijianxuqiuyuqidaideyucitongshi，womenyekeyitanxungenghaodefangshigongchu，tanxunkeyigoujianxingfuyuchengjiugandegongtongdemubiao。genjuzhongsuguanlian，dajianenggoujianliqigengjiawenguermeihaodemingtian。

　　汇总：

　　nanpengyoushuoleileyaofenshouzenmeban，nanyouyinpibeiertichufenshou，womenyinggailengjingfenxibinglijietadezhenzhenzhengzhengdongyin。weitatigongwenxinguanhuaideshiyong，binghelianpaixiuxiri。genjumiqiegoutonghexunzhaogongtongjiejuefangshi，womenkeyizhongsuguanlian，chuangjiangengjiankangdeqianti。yingduipijuansuodailaidekunrao，womenyaoyibaoronghelejiedetaiduqumiandui，xiwangtongguobicizhijiandeqinfen，womenkeyizhanshengkunnan，maixianggengmeihaodeweilai。