男人为什么总是忘不掉前女友

　　nanpengyoushuomeiganjuelefenshouletahuihouhuima，dangnanyouyijingquedingmeiganjuehoujuedingfenshoushi，zonghuiyinqiyigewenti：tahuizaifenshouhoujuedehouhuima？zheigewentichangzaishilianderenxinlinanyishihuai。fenshouzhihoudejianglai，jiujinghuirangtamenshenshizijiquedingma？huo，tajinjinzhishishuoleyijubulizhidehua，houhuidegailvcunbucunzai？jieshizheigewentibixushencengcilejienanpengyouhefenshoudezhuyaoyuanyin，yijiduitamencengjingguanliandefenxiyufenxi。zaiqingganshangdebodongzhongshizhongqidaitahuihouhui，danshizhiyoushijiancainengjielushiqing。

　　nanyoubiaomingmeiganjuehoujuedingfenshoushiyizhongchangjiandeqingxubianhua，jirendailaigulvshizhi，fenshouhoushifouhuiyinqitadehouhuiyufansi？zheigewentiyingxiangzhehenduoren，zhiyaowomenzongxiwanglingyifanghouhuilikaiwomen。danshi，yaohuidazheigewentibingburongyi，youyutashejidaogerendeqingxuhejuece。zaixiamiandewenzhangzhong，womenjiangyaocongbutongjiaodufenxigaiwenti。

　　它的真实体验难以预测

　　nanpengyoushuomeiganjuelefenshouletahuihouhuima，qingganshangdeduoyuanxinglingrennanyizhunqueyuceqitarenzhenshitiyan。dangnanpengyoushuo“meiganjuele，fenshouba”shi，zheikenengshiwoqueshiyijingquedingxuehuifangxia。yexuzaitadexinlingshenchu，zheigexuanzeshijingguoshenzhongkaolvde，erqiezaitakanlaifenshoushimingzhidexuanze。zaizheiyangdeqingkuangxia，houhuidegailvhenyoukenengbijiaodi。

　　分手之后的自我提升

　　zhenduinanyoueryan，fenshouyezhuyaoshiweilexunzhaogerenchengzhangyuchengzhang。takenenghuijuedehenideguanlianxianzhiletazaigongzuo、keyehuoqitayixiefangmianfazhan。yiner，jibianfenshoudailaileyidingdetongku，tahenyoukenengjuedezheishitagerentishengdebijingzhilu。zaizheiyangdeqingkuangxia，tayexubuhuihouhuitadejueding。

　　空间和时间的功效

　　fenshouyihou，yiduanchongyukongjianheshijiannenggourangnanyounenggougenghaodishenshizijiqueding。youshi，liquyiduanguanxihuilingrenyishidaozijicengjingduomedeyikaolingyifang，yinerdaozhihouhuihexiangyaozhongxinzhujian。danyekenengjingguoyiduanshijianhou，tahuiyishidaoliqushimingzhidexuanze，bingqiemeiyouhouhuidezhongyao。

　　对历史联系的重新审视

　　fenshouhou，nanyouyehuikaishizhongxinshenshicongqiandeguanlian。tahuisisuoliangrenzhijiandeenyuan、maodunhebuhemudedifang。jiarutajuedegezhongwentinanyijiejuetongshiduiguanlianbingmeiyougengduodeqiwangyuxiwang，neiyanghouhuidegailvhenyoukenengbuda。

　　是不是有改变的好机会

　　zaizheigewentizhong，dajiahaiyaokaolvdaoshibushijibicihaiyoujihuigenggai。youshi，dangwomenairenyishidaotashiqulewomendeshihou，tahuihouhuitongshiyexiwangcongtoukaishi。danzheibingbudaibiaowomenyinggaidengdaiheyilaitadegenggai。womenyaozaizijichengzhangyuxingfushangjixuqianjin。

　　结果

　　nanpengyoushuomeiganjuelefenshouletahuihouhuima，fenshouhou，nanyouhuibuhuihouhuibingbuqujueyuwomenzijideqiwangheqidai。meigerenyoumeigerendeqingxuhejuece，bunengwanquanyucefenxitadefanying。zuizhongyaodeshi，dangmianduifenshouzhihoudezhengzhahetengtongshi，dajiayinggaiguanzhuzijichengzhangyuxingfu。wulunduifangshibushihuihouhui，womendouyaoxiangqianzou，tanxunshuyuwomenzijidexingfuyumanzu。