看完绿皮书，才知道理解一个人并不是明白他的感受！

 zuoweiyimingxintaizhiliaoshi，womeiriyaozuodeshier，wufeijiushishuojiejue“renherenzhijiandeguanlian”。dajiapengdaodegezhonggeyangqingganwenti，yewufeishibumingbaiyurengoutong，renmenzaijiaowangshipengdaotingdadejiannan。

 zaishehuixintaixueyanli，renherenzhijianhaodeguanlian，shi“canjiadaolingyifangdexingmingli”。zheijiushiwotingjiandeshidehuiying。danrichangshenghuoyaoruhelijiezheihua，erqiezenmecainengbaozheng？zheibingbuyi。zhenghao，jinqigongyingdeaosikajiangdejiangyingpian《lvpishu》，nengjidaoniyigejizhidecankaodaan，lijieyigerenyuanxianbingbushijinjinmingbaitadetihui，daliangdeshitihuidaolingyifangdetihuiyihoudelijieyuxiangrong。

1、白种人老小混混和受到高等职业教育的黑人音乐家

 《lvpishu》yingpianxiangxijieshaodeyigebiaoshishi“gonglupian”，tashiyizhongyingpiandezhonglei，hanyishi，xiaogushiguanjianshijinjinweiraozheyicilvchengjinxing。xiaogushizhongyouyitiaowubiyizhixiangqianzoudelu，buguandaoshangdedajiahuohuanyue、huowuqu、huomaiyuan、huozhengzhi，cherengranbixuxiangqianzou。zhengqianfanghuiyougeshigeyangbumingdeshier，zheiyiqie，doushirangzailvtuderen，gengweishendiqulejieziji、yelejietaren。

 xiaogushichanshengzai20xinshiji60shidaideyingguo，neishihounanbiandiyudezhongzuwentizhuangkuangbijiaoyanzhong。shuobaile“lvpishu”，shiyibenheirenlvyouchuxingshouce，shangbianliezheheirennenggouyongcanrushuidediqu，erneishihoujuedaduoshubinguanhefandianquanshijinxiangbaizhongrenfuwuxiangmude。

 yigeyanfanheirendebaizhongrenlaoxiaohunhun，yigeshoudaogaodengzhiyejiaoyudeheirenyinlejia，liangrenyouyubujingyidejiyu，bianchengleguyongguanxi。baizhongrentuonishouheirentangdeshouquanweituo，bixuzaihaoduogeyuedeshijianlichurentangdejiashiyuan，zaizhetangyiluxiangnanbaomingcanjiahaojigegequbiaoyan。

 zaiyingpianzhong，baizhongrentuoniheheirentangxiangfengshi，jiuhenxingxianghuadizhanxianchuliangrenzhongjianhonggoubandidechabie。zaineishihoudeshehuifazhanzhong，baizhongrendeyingxianglishixianzhugaoguoheirende，ertuoni，zeshiyigebaizhongrendangzhongnageyouqianghuadiaodeshehuifazhanlaopaoer。heirentangyouyuzhangshiqishougudianlequdetaoye，jienayouliangdewenhuajiaoyu，zekanqilaigengweiyouya。liangrendaizaiyiqishi，jiuhuijirenyizhongmingxiandechajugan，danglianggerenjueceyaoyiqijiachequzhongguonanfangshi，fensimenjiunenggouxiangdao——yichangdaxiyaogangkaishile。

2、两个人交往时，总有相互之间不看不惯的地区

 jiaruliangrenxianghuxiangzoujin，neimaniwubiyaoqukankan“nibuyuankandeshi”。zheizhongshi，yibanshilingyifangshoushangjinijuedefangandexiguanxinghewenti。dang2geniantouchabiejidadezoupobudeyizuozhetongyiliangchechushi，zhuangjijiugangkaishizaochengle。yizhongdianxingxingdeqingkuang，jiushishuo“huxiangkanjianbukanbuguan”。

 tangyanlidetuoni，buxiubianfu、cubao、tanbianyi、bushoujilv。ertuoniyanlidetang，zhizhe、bumingbaixuehuibiantong。pengdaozheizhongshi，xuduorenguanbiwangzhan。dangmeifaliqushi，neimajiuwubijienalingyifangdeweihaile。ertarulvchengdelianggeren，tamenbuguyiqie，wubijienalingyifangdeweihai。

3、不可或缺，就接纳另一方的危害

tuonihetanglianggerenzhongjianyouxuduoquweidezhuangji：

 tangshigeaizhengjie，xiguanxingyazhidenansheng，zaituonide“bipo”xia，gangkaishishizhecheshangyongdangangqindeshouzhuazhechiyounigandehanshizhaji。tanbianyidetuoni，zaitang“jiazhangshi”dewenhuajiaoyuxia，fahuodibazishentoulaidexiaoshiziguihaidianpu。shenjingdatiaodetuoni，zaitangdejutizhidaoxia，dongdezaijilaopodexinshang，xieshanglangmandeqinghua……zheizhonghuodahuoxiaodeshier，doujiazhonglelianggerenzhongjiandehuxiangyingxiang，yeshitamenzoudegengjin。

4、理解一个人，并不是明白，只是体会到

 tangruo，shangbianshuodezhuangjidoujinjinxiaodaxiaonao，neima，zhenshirangliangrengangkaishihuxianglijiede，moguotuoniqinyanmudutangyilushangzaodaodaodebiyiyujiduile。suiranzaigangkaishideneishihou，tuonizuoweiyigeouzhouren，nanmianhuilejieheirenshenghuodebuyi，danzhongjiumeiqinshenjingliguo，zhenduizheizhongshishimeiyoudingyide。

 jingchangrenmenyaoshuo，yaonongmingbaitarendetihui，shubuzhi“mingbailingyifangdetihui”he“tihuidaolingyifangdetihui”，tashibuyiyangde2jianshi。

juyigehenzhijiedeshili：

jiaruxunwenniyigenanti——niganjuepinkundiqudenongcunliushouertongshenghuoderuhe。

 juedaduoshurenyaohuiying：guodetingjianxinde。dan，jiujingyouduojianxinni?dounanzaineilini?juedaduoshurenshimeiyoutihuide，wubizouruzheixiexiaopengyoumendeshenghuo，qinzitihuiguoneibandeshenghuo，caimingbai。

 zaiyingpianzhong，yeshiyiyangdedadaoli。yikaishi，zaituoniyanli，heirenjiushishuodangkugongderen，direnyidengde。yexutuonilejieheirenmeiyouxuduozhipeiquan，dantadoubuzhidao，sangshizheizhongzhipeiquan，beixuduorenqishi、jidui，jiujingshiyizhongruhedejuede。zhizhilianggerenzhenshitarulelvcheng，quqinshenjingligeshigeyangderenshengbaitai，tuonicaizhenshimingbaitangzuoweiyigeheiren，xinlidetongchujiujingyouduoshao。

 zaiqianquezheiyiduanqinshenjingliyiqian，shijishanghetuonijiangyiqieyouguan“renzhonggongping、dizhiqishi”dehexintainian，zhenduitaeryan，tongtongquanshikongtanyouyurenherenzhijiandelijie，bingbushigenju“jiangli”jiunenggoubaochide，tongchangshibansuiqinshendetihui，caikeyilingrenzhenshimingbaibierendetongchu。rutongyingpianlianggerenzheitanglvyouchulai，bingbuyidingsuoyourenquwenhuajiaoyutuoni，tajiuhuizhudongquweihutadeheirenpenyou。youyutatihuilaidaotangdetongchu，fazifeifudiqidaixiezhuta。

 yingpian《lvpishu》rangpobudeyizhangqijiaowangzaiyiqideliangren，yanyileliangrenzouruxianghuxingmingzhongdequanguocheng：congqianqidexianghuzhijiankanbushunyan，daozhonghouqidejienalingyifangdeweihai，zaidaozuizhongdekandaolingyifangdexinlihetihui，zuihouzaochenglijie。

理解让相互结合。

 zheiyiguochengshibixushijianhehenxiaohaoxianghuhuolide，yixiefufu、lianren、penyoujianghuizoubushangzuihoudelijiejiugebendongxi。eryixiezeyiludiediezhuangzhuang，quezaimouyishijianhuomoushiqingshang，lijiexianghu，zuihouxiangbanyisheng。