要求太高导致找不到对象怎么办

 lingyibanyaoqiuguoyuwanmei，suiranwojuedejiangdizheigeqidaizhihennan，danshixiangjianyexufeichangkunnan。meiyouduixiang，lianaijingyanbufengfu，duiweilaidejiehunduixiangdeqidaizhihengao，hennanjiangdizheigeqidaizhi，danyexuhennanjianmian。ruhecainengtuolidanshen? ☞tuodan jiqiaoyounaxie?

一、要求太高导致找不到对象怎么办

lingyibanyaoqiuguoyuwanmei，suiranwojuedejiangdizheigeqidaizhihennan，danshixiangjianyexufeichangkunnan。

 ruhecainengtuolidanshen?tuodanjiqiaoyounaxie?duiganqinggandaoyanfanshilisuodangrande。 duidadangyaoqiuhengaoyebushiwenti。 meigerendouxiwangzijishengxiadeyibanshikanzhenideren。 danshi，shuangfangbixuzaigefangmianqudepinghenghezhenghe，cainenggengjiajiangu、gengjiazhangjiu。 yaobaozhengzijidetiaojianfuhenidegaoyaoqiu。

 zhutishizijidelianaijingyanyebufengfu，ruguoyouguozhengchangdelianai，yinggaizhidaorenheqinmideguanxidoushishuangfanggongtonggouzhude。 bushiniyigerensuande。 jishiyudaozhenzhengmanzuniqidaizhideren，duifangyehuijuedenibushitaxihuandecai，zenmeban?

 duiyuxunzhaoduifang，zhutisihuzhiguanzhuduifangshifoumanzuzijidegaoyaoqiu。 ruguonidetiaojianqueshifuhenidegaoyaoqiu，neijiuyaoyiganqingweijichu。 renshilixingde，renshiganxingde。

 ruguoyourenxuanzepeiou，zhikanyaoqiu，bukanganqing，neimanzhangdehunyinshenghuo，jueduishizainan。 wulunshizenyangzhengchangdelianai，zenyangzhengchangdehunyin，doubunengwanquankandaoyaoqiubingyizhi。

 worenweihunyinshibanlvzhijianxinlingxiangtongdekaoyan。 wojuedetamenshixianghuzunzhong、lijie、gongtongjinbude。 duiqingrendezhichiheyuanzhuyixianghuwanmeiweimubiao。 hezuohuobanxianghuyongyoulequ，yiqiyukuaididuguo，henkuaijiunengjiejuebuyukuaideshiqing，yiqiduguomanzhangderenshengshikuailede。

 ailianderenzhidao，wulunduifangxianzaizaizijiyanzhongshiduomeyouxiu，zuihoujiaowangdeshihouyenengfaxianquedian。 jishishibeijingjigongsiwanquanbaozhuangdemingxing，duoshaoyeyoutamendechoumaobingheheisecailiao。

 jishiyouwanmeideren，louzhuyeshiwanmeidema? ninengshiheduifangma? nimeiyoushoudaobierendezenanma?huiyouhenduoyixingyongxiangniwanmeidebanlvba? nishizenmequexintazhiainide?

 renxingjingbuqikaoyan。 jiehun，xuduorenbuchuguideyuanyinshimeiyouchongfendeyouhuo。 youwanmeideyiban，bierenjiukanbujianma? ruguobinihaodeyixingmeitiandouzhanzainidelianrenshenshanggaizenmeban?

xiangxiangmingxingdenvpengyouhuonanpengyou。 beifensimashizhihouxunzhaowanmeibanlvdejieguo。

jishishiwanmeideren，yaozhidaoduifangdeyiqiehaoshidouyaohaohaoxiangchu，sheiyebunengyiyanjiuxuanchuzuishihezijideren。

 xuduoxinggedepinzhizhiyouzaiyiqicainenglijie，zhayikanhaoxiangyouzheixieyoudian。 zheizhonglijieshidanfangmiande，gudaidiwangcengjingbeizijizhangwoguoshiquanlidejiumingenrenduoqulequanli，renxinwufaguliang，keyiyongyiliangjianxiaoshidaibiaorenpin。

ruhecainengtuolidanshen?tuodanjiqiaoyounaxie?xiamianzheizhongganjuejiuxiangshizhuiqiuyijianzhongqing，wojuedeneizhenshibukekao。

 congxintaixuelaikan，louzhuzijidejiatingshixingfude，zhiyaofumumeiyouaiqing，fumuhehaizideguanxijiuhuirongqia，benrenshianquanxingyilianleixing，louzhuyijianzhongqingdeshichixuzhexingfudeshenghuo，yexutongyigejiatingshixingfude，xihuanzijianxinganqiangderen。

fouze，zhuiqiuyijianzhongqingjiushipinmingxunzhaoyuanshengjiatingdeshuxi，henweixian。