找对象该不该降低自己要求

 zhaoduixianggaibugaijiangdizijiyaoqiu?zhouweihenhao。 xiangchudehao，kuodafanwei，buyaonazhexianweijingzhaoduifang，zhaoyigehezijiyiyangderenyiqizuo。ruhecainengtuolidanshen? ☞tuodan jiqiaoyounaxie?

一、找对象该不该降低自己要求

 ruhecainengtuolidanshen?tuodanjiqiaoyounaxie?shouxianyaojiangdizijideyaoqiu，shenmeyemeiyou，tianshengdeyidui，mingyun，houtianyaohuxiangronghe，rennaihegaibian。

suoyi，zhouweihenhao。 xiangchudehao，kuodafanwei，buyaonazhexianweijingzhaoduifang。

 nixiangyaodeshishenmeyangdehaochuni?jiyouxuyaode，yeyoufujiajiazhide。 buxuyaobazheixiefujiajiazhifangzaihezuohuobanshenshang，fenjizijidepengyouhaoma?

woyoushipengyoubilianrenjiaowangdejiu。 buyaobashijieqiangjiajiyigeren。 ruguotalikaile，huishiqushijie，ruheshenghuo?

 louzhuyaonachuzhibibalouzhurenweizhongyaodepinzhixiezaizhishang。 biru，worenweiliangrenzaiyiqisanguanxiangjieheshizuizhongyaode:jinqianguan、jiatingguan、hunyinguan、jiazhiguan、aimeixingdengxiehouguanruhekandai……qicishifujiajiazhi。

 louzhuzuizhongshishenme，xieshenme，kongzhiliandehua，baliandezhifangzaidiyiwei，zhongshirenpindehua，jiuhuishanliang，titie……baizaiqianmian。

 zuihoulouzhukenengxielehenduoa4zhi，womencongzheixieyaoqiuzhongzhixuanle10~20tiao。 meiyouwanmeideren，yaoqiutaiduojiubunengjige。

 yudaorendekesuxinghenqiang，zhengzaichengzhangdeduixiang，tazaihenizaiyiqideshihouzhujianbiandexiangyaoni。 suoyi，buyaoyikaishijiuzhaobaifenzhibaideren。 renshengrucimanzhang，zuihoukeyide100fene。

 nidebuanshi:①duiweilaijiehunduixiangdeqidaizhihengao，huozheyouhenduobuxunchangdeyaoqiu，jiangdizheigeqidaizhihennan，yexuhennanjianmian。nijuedezijiduizheixieyaoqiuyebuheli，huozhechaochuleyibandeyaoqiu。 wobuzhidaoweishenmehennanjiangdizheigeqidaizhi

 lingyifangmian，nixianzaimeiyouduishou。 yexushiduijianliqinmideguanxibaoyouqidai，nanyiyudaozijizhuiqiudeduixiang，buxiangjiangdiqidai，huiyinqixintaichongtu，biandebuan。 zaihuanhebuanfangmian，yexushidangjiangdiqidaizhibijiaohao，danshiwoshuojiangdizheigeqidaizhihennan。

 lingyifangmian，congxunzhaoqidaizhigaodebeijingdeyuanyinhezijijingrendeyaoqiubeijingnanyijiangdideyuanyinliangfangmianlaikan，yexuhenrongyijiejuewenti。 renshengdelingyiban，xuduorendouyouzijideqiwang，helihuobuheli，zheiyinreneryi。 neime，lingyibanqiwangzhigaoyouqiguaideyuanyinzainalini?

 ruhecainengtuolidanshen?tuodanjiqiaoyounaxie?yifangmiankenengshinimouxiefangmiandebuzu，danwohaishixiangconglingyibankaishidedao。 yexushishehuihuanjing，danshixianzaijiehundehuajiuxuyaochedeng。 haiyouyidian，zainizijidexinggehexiguanfangmianyexushizheiyang。

 xiangzhaodaozuotongyangshiqingderen，xianghuduguoyusheng。 zhaodaolingyibanqidaijiaogaodeyuanyin，womenjiunenggenghaodilijiebuxiangjiangdiyaoqiubeijingdeyuanyin。 zhiyoufuhezheiyangyaoqiuderencaihuihenihubu，yexunihuijuedeguanxihuibianhao，zhouweiderenkenengjiushizheiyang。 jiangdiyaoqiuhou，kenengbufuhequnti。kenengbuxiangrennai。

 zhaodaoyuanyindehua，yexuxuyaoziwofansheng。 zheixiezijidoujuedeqiguaideyaoqiu，lingyibandeyaoqiuzhendeheshima? ruguozhendebunengjiangdiyaoqiu，zaishidangdeyibanchuxianzhiqian，keyijinqingxiangshouxianzaidedanshenshenghuo，nulitigaozijima?

 lingyibandeyaoqiutaiwanmeile，ruguojuedezhaobudao，gaizenmeban?taiwanmeileyoubiaozhunma? xuduorenlixianglianrenbiaozhunmohu，xuanzebanlvshizongshixunzhaoganjue，hushizhongyaodehexinpinzhi，keyi，yekeyi，bukeyi，bukeyi，xintailixiangduixiangdetiaojiankeyiliejujishitiao，zhuiqiuwanmei。

jieshao“lixiangdelianrentuxiang”fa，zaisangebuzhoubangzhuni，sousuozijidelianrentuxiang，mingquemubiao。

 1 .lixiangqingren。 qingzhaogeanjingdedifang。 herouhedeyinleyiqibishangyanjing，rangzijidexinmanmanpingjingxialaixiangxiangyixianilixiangzhongdelianrenshishenmeyangde。 youlemofabang，jiunenggaibianzijilixiangdelianren。 nixianggaibianshenmeyangdelianren? baokuonisuoqiwangdequanbutiaojian，zuoyigeqingdan，younenghezheigelixiangdelianrenpipeidetiaojianhesuzhima? qingxiexialai。

 2 .lixiangdeyitian。 xiangxiangyixiaruguozhaodaoleqinmidelianren，nidexingfudeyitianhuibiandezenyang。yuexiangxi，yueyoujutidechangmianhehuamian，yueyouxijie，xiexiaxianzaixiangxiangdexingfudeyitian，bishangyanjingxiangxiang。 yongyouzheiyangdeshenghuo，shenmeyangdelianrennengheniyiqi。 niduiziji、xiangyaodelianren、xiangyaodeshenghuoyouzhezenyangdexinzhishihefaxianni?

 3 .duizhuncengcidejiaodian。 lixiangdeyitianshiyonglixiangdelianrenhexiyinniderendeshenmepinzhi? zhendexuyaoshenmeyangdelianrenni? congdiyitidelixianglianrendexuanxiangzhong，xuanze10gexiangmu，ranhouxuanze5gexiangmu，ranhouxuanze3gexiangmu，kankanzijizuihoushengxiade3gexiangmu。

 weishenmezheisangexiangmuduinihenzhongyaoni?kaolvyiqie，shifouzhendexuyaonini? zheisanzhongxuqiu，keyizijijizijima，duifangnengjima? nengfougongtongzhidingzheixiexuqiu。