脱离单身该怎么落实到生活中

 tuolidanshengaizenmeluoshidaoshenghuozhong?zhuizhunvhaifenweisigebuzhou，mingquemubiao——fenxixuqiu——shishiziwozhunbei——xingdong。womentantanruhezhuizhunvhai。ruhecainengtuolidanshen? ☞tuodan jiqiaoyounaxie?

一、脱离单身该怎么落实到生活中

 zhuizhunvhaifenweisigebuzhou，mingquemubiao——fenxixuqiu——shishiziwozhunbei——xingdong。 zuihexindesixiangshi“jianchi，bulumian，bulumian”

zhayikan，womenzheijibubushizhuizhunvhaidezhanlvefenxia。 jiexialai，rangwomenmanmanxikanzheijibu。

ruhecainengtuolidanshen?tuodanjiqiaoyounaxie?

 zheishichufadian，yeshijichu，buxiaoxinshule。 nibuzaile，conghenjiuyiqianchinanjiuhennvren，ruguobushijiehundemingyun，duifangchulewentizhiwaihaihuizainaiheqiaokuqi。

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 heqidenvren，junzishihaode。 wonengfuzedeshi，daduoshurenzaixunzhaoduixiangdeshihoudoushikanwaibiao，kandeduoshaoyinreneryi。ziyouxuanzedehua，zhuiqiumeinvbiranhuimianduiconghenduotonglingnanxingdaogaolingnanxingdejingzheng，“aimeinvdexin，youren”。

 suoyi，zaizhuixunnineixindeduixiangzhiqian，bixukaolvzijidetiaojianheduifangdexuqiu。 yinci，womenyinggaizuodediyijianshijiushipipei。

yishixuanzeshihezijide，zhuiganziji，ershitigaonengli，duanlianxingge，weiweilaicaifudechengzhangzuohaozhunbei。

 danshi，nengbunengjieshouzhinengshishi，suoyiwomentichudejianyishi，ruguoniyouxihuandemeimei，jiudadandiquzhuiqiu。 danshihenideqingkuangyiyang，zuihoudejieguoshi“jiaopengyouba! ’yexu，nibunengtaishiwang。 zhishaoniyouhenduopengyou，duiba?

 danshi，xingdonghaishiyaozhongshifangfahezhanshuzhanlve。 buyaoyinweiganghebierenjiechuergaobai。 zheiyangzuoshibajiucidouhuishibai，zheijirenyizhongqingsongdeganjue。 xianzairangwomenlaikankan。 kankanwomendefangfa

fenxixuqiu——touruqihaochu

 meigenvhaixinzhongdouyouyigebaimawangzi，buguannengfoushixian。 nvhaixihuanshenmeyangdedongxi“gaofushuai! ’yexuyourenhuizheiyangshuoshide，queshi，gaofushuaishidazhongdexihao。 danshi，worenweixihuangaofushuaishibushicuole! shijieshangdaduoshunvxingxihuangaogezi。

 shouxian，congnannvxuanzelilundejiaodulaikan，nvxingaiqiangnanxing，bushiyinweizijinenggoudadao，ershiyinweiqiangnanxingnenggoubaohutamenhehaizibushouqitananxingdeyingxiang。

 ruhecainengtuolidanshen?tuodanjiqiaoyounaxie?tebieshizaiyuanshishehui，nanxingshishouliedezhuti，shengaotuizhangzaieliedeshenghuohuanjingzhongjuyouziranyoushi，nvxinghezheiyangdenanxingduozaiyiqi，rongyishengcun，duizijihehoudaiyeyouanquangan。 jishidaolexiandaishehui，zheizhongqingxiangyeshicunzaide!

 qici，wulunshinanxinghaishinvxing，wulunshirenhaishiren，douyoubijiaoxintai，nvxinghehaopengyouwanshuadeshihou，anzhongbijiao，qizhongyaodeduixiangzhiyishizijidenanxing。

 laoshishuo，queshiruci。 zaichuantongshehuizhong，nanxinggengzuonvxingdeshidai，duiyunvxinglaishuo“zhuanqiandeshini，kanqilaixianghuayiyangmeilideshiwo”，dangranyexu“zhuanqiandeshini，qinjianchijiadeshiwo”。 buguanzenyang，nanrenzhengqianshiyixiangzhongdadezhongxinrenwu。

 daolexiandai，suishuoyuelaiyueduodenvxingjingjishidulide，danzongtilaishuo，zaijiatingjingjizhong，nanxingyibanchengdanzhegengdadezeren。 qianzhendehenzhongyao! “qiansuiranbushiwannengde，danshijueduibunengmeiyouqian! ’tashuo

 suiranxianzaidabufendenvhaizidoubuxunqiuduifangdecaichan，danshijibendecaiwujichuhaishixuyaode。lingwai，xianzaibuyidingyouqian。 zaikeyiyuliaodejianglai，jikeyiyigaoxingnengzhuanqian，yekeyizhuangaoqian。

 nanren，niweishenmexihuanmeinv? nvrenweishenmexihuanshuaige。 zheigeshiyiyangde。 yigerenmeitiankandaozijidezhangfu(qizi)zheimemeiliyoushuaiqi，meitiandouhenkaixinni。 congzhangyuanlaikan，shoumingkeyiyanzhangjinian。

danyeyourenshuo，buxiangwomenzheimegui，bufuyou，bushuai，bushiyibeizidoudanshenma?

 ziguyilaifushuaijiuyoukunjing，zhenzhengdefushuaiyidingshizhenguidedongwu，renrendouxihuan，danbingfeirenrendounengbaochi。 guominfurenwangsicongxiansheng，zheijiushigaofushuaiba。 tabianchenglejigenvpengyou? ruguotanengnuliduohaoni

 haiyou，nvhaibinanhaizaiganqingshangzaoshu，congming，dongdezheixiedaoli。 suoyi，bushigaofushuaishenmedoumeiyou。 daduoshurenbushigaofushuai，bushimeigenvhaidouzaizhaogaofushuai。

 chulezaiwaimianbeichengwei“gaofushuai”zhiwai，nvhaizihaishiyaokanlimiande。 tamenxiwangzijidenanpengyoushineihanxingde! genjuchaju，zainvxingyanzhongnanxingdepinzhishichengshi、zhongcheng、zixin、titie、tigao、zhihui、qinfen、caifu。

suoyi，kancaifudebushishangweiderene。