老公性无能同意我偷情

　　nvpengyoufenshouwanhuidezuijiashijian，nvyoufenshouhou，wanliudezuijiashijianshiyigeyouweizhongyaodekaoliang。zaizheiyangyigejinyaoguantou，womenyinggailengjingfenxiyuxingwei，quzhongxinjianlilianxi、xiufupoliedeguanlian。bulunshizaifenshouzhihoudediyitianhuoshiguoqulejigexingqi，xuanzezhengquedeshijiandianyouweizhongyao。chuqikenengchongchizhexintai，erguoduwanyeyoukenengrangjianjuyuelayueyuan。xunzhaojunheng，xuanzeheshideshiji，qunaixinqingting、goutongyubiaodazijizhenxinshiyi，jiunenghuifuhenvyouzhijiandexinren，zhongxinkaiqimeihaoguanlian。

　　1. 分手之后的情绪变化

　　nvpengyoufenshouwanhuidezuijiashijian，fenshoushiyiduanganqingzhongzuitongkudeshishikekezhiyi，bulunshichuyushenme，douhuirangrenshenxianqingxudebodongdangzhong。henvpengyoufenshouhou，niyexuhuiqinshenjinglinaonu、nanguo、shiwangdengfuzadeganqing。zaizheiyangdeqingkuangxia，zuilixiangdeshizhangshiyaoxianhuifuzijidexinqing，shizijifanhuiqingxingdeqingkuang，cainengyoujihuiwanliuduifangdexin。

　　2. 了解自己的问题

　　wanhuinvyoudediyibushilejiezijidewenti。yaofanshengzijizaiganqinglishiyandejiaose，zhaochuzijidecunzaidebuzu。zheiyangkeyibangzhunigenghaodilejieweihefenshouchuxianle，bingxunqiujiejuefangan。danshijizhu，zheigeguochengxuyaoshizhang，buyaojigongjinli。

　　3. 再次建立联系

　　ruguonizaoyipingjingxialai，erqieyishidaozijideguoshihou，jiukeyixuanzezaicijianlilianxile。dantanxunzaicijianlilianxidezuijiashijianyeshihenguanjiande。zaiyiduanshijianneibaochishidangdejianjushifeichangbiyaode，buyaojizhetaohuilingyifang。jiaruniguoduxinji，henyoukenengnengrangduifangganshoudaonidequefazixinhuoshijiaolvqingxu，congershizhuangkuangyuelaiyuegengjiazaogao。

　　4. 选择合适的方式

　　wanhuinvyoubixuxuanzeheshidefangshi。wulunshitongguojiaoliugoutong、shouji、duanxiaoxihaishiqitafangshi，nidoudexuanzezuishihenihenvpengyouzhijiandejiaoliufangfa。danjizhu，bubituranzhijianchuxianzailetaderenshengzhong，jitataidayali。jianjinshidejiaoliufangshikenenghuigengheli，rangrenjuedeninizhengrenzhenwanchengzheiduanganqing。

　　5. 发展趋势自我发展

　　zaiwanhuinvyoudeguochengdangzhong，buyaohushiyigerendechengzhang。huafeishijianguanxingerenxingquaihao，tishenggerennengliyumeili。buguanzuihoudejieguozenyang，doukeyirangzijichengweigenghaoderen。zheiyangbujinnengtishengzijideyouhuoli，yenengjilingyifangkanjiannidediaozhenghefazhan。

　　6. 理解对方的决策

　　buguanniruhenuli，yexuyaolijieduifangdejuece。youshi，fenshouqishishiweilebicizhangyuanfazhan。zhiyaoduifangzaoyizuochulejueding，jiuxuyaozhongshitaxuanze，bingzhangwotadeganshou。lingyifangxingfuyeshifeichangzhongyaode，bubiguoyuzhizhewanliuerzoushanghaitaren。

　　nvpengyoufenshouwanhuidezuijiashijian，zaiwanhuinvyoudeguochengdangzhong，xuanzeheshideshijiyouweizhongyao。zaijijiqingxuhou，lejiebenshencuowu，zhujianjianlilianxi，bingtongguoshidangdefangfajinxingjiaoliu，tongshiguanzhugerentisheng，erqielijieduifangdejuece。jinyouzaiheshideshijian，yongzhengquedefangfaquwanliu，cainengweibicizhijianyigejihui，zaicixiufuguanlian，binggongtongmianxiangweilai。jilao，shizhangbushiweiyidezhongyao，ershizhengquedeshijianzuozhengquedeshi。