爱我的人我不爱，我爱的人不爱我，我该怎么办？

　　faxianlaogonghemamachuguilezenmeban，ruguonifaxianlezhangfuhemamachuguideshishishi，shibihuidailaihendadexinlizhuangtaichongjiyihuo。yudaozheiyangdeqingkuang，nixuyaopingjingxialai，zhenchengdihebicigoutongjiaoliu，zhangwoshencengyuanyinhedongyin。yucitongshi，xunqiugengzhuanyedezixunjishiyongdoushizhiguanzhongyaode，zheijianghuibangzhuzijijiejuefanzadetiyanheqinggan。zuihou，tiaoxuanzenmemianduizheiyixianshixuqiugenjuzijidezhuangkuangzuochujuece，danhuanjiezhonghebujiezhujiarenpengyoudedalizhichijishijiuzheng，jiqibaohuzijiliyihemeihao。faxianzhangfuhemamachuguidejushibingfeiyijie，danxiwangtongguoyongxinjiejue，ninengxuanzeshihezijidejiejuefangfa。

　　冲击性与疑惑：发现丈夫与妈妈叛变

　　faxianlaogonghemamachuguilezenmeban，faxianzijidelaogongyuzijidemuqinchugui，zheishiyizhongbunengchengshoudecitenghexinlingshenchudesunhai。zaizheiyangdeqingkuangxia，niyexuhuiyucitongshitihuidaonaonu、youshang、fennuhebengkui。zheigeshijiehaoxiangyixiazibengtale，niyexuhuishenxianbeishangdegudi。danshi，duiyuzheiyangdekeguanshishi，nixuyaojinkuaidihuifulixingheyongqi。

　　理智与会话：运行艰苦的会话

　　zaiyuwangyiqian，pingjingxialaibingzhaodaoyunidelaogonghemamazhenchengliaotiandejiyuzhiguanzhongyao。jinguanhuihuakenengshifenjiannanyijijuyouquweixing，danshiqueshixunqiurenzhihechuliwentidehexin。jiangnideqingxuhedanyoubiaoxianchulai，tongshihaiyaolingtingtadebiaoshuhexingwei。neiyangdeduitanhenyoukenengxuyaoyiduanshijiannaixin，danshiqueshijiejuewentidiyibu。

　　寻求技术专业适用：聆听技术专业提议

　　dangmianduiqingganshangdejingtaohailangyujingshendekunraoshi，xunqiugengzhuanyedezixunjishiyongshizhiguanzhongyaode。jishuzhuanyexinlixuezixunshikeyibangzhunishulixinxu，jiejuefuzadeganqingheqingxubianhua，tongshitigongkeguantiyiheyindao。tamenkeyibangzhunizaizheigejiannandeguochengdangzhongbaochilixinghewanqiang，tongshitigongnixuyaodedalizhichi。

　　调节保护：重构个人幸福

　　zaizheiguochengzhong，nixuyaoshenzhongkaolvzijideaiqingzijideliyi。zheikenenghaixuyaozhongxinshenshiniaiqinghehunyinguanlian，bingjichuhenyoukenengdebianhua。baohuzijiliyishihenzhongyaode，baohanzichan、liyiyujingshenjiankang。zheihuishejidaoyulvsuoshangyi，tanxunhunyindiaojie，shenzhiliangdifenjuhuoliyi。

　　信任和复建：向前推进

　　faxianlaogonghemuqinchuguideshishihuiyongyuangaibianyigerenduiyutamendexinlai，dantongshiyeyaoqueding，nibingbuyingdangjuxianzaishiwanghekunanzhong。zhongjianxinrenshiyigemanzhangjiankudequanguocheng，bixubicizhijiandefuchuhenuli。yeguidingnizaicijianlizixinhezizunxin，yucitongshitanxundalizhichiheaixilaicongtoukaishizijideshenghuo。

　　结束语

　　faxianlaogonghemamachuguilezenmeban，faxianlaogonghemuqinchuguideqingkuangshiyizhonglingrenchijinghebeishangdexinlizhuangtaichongjixing。danshi，zaiduiyuzheiyangdekaoyanshi，lizhihuihua，bingxunqiujishuzhuanyeshiyongzhiguanzhongyao。diaojiezishendeliyi，baohuzijixingfu，bingzhubuzhongjianxinren，shibaituozheizhongkunnandeguanjianyinsu。biewangji，nimenbushigudude，yourenyuanyizhichihegulini，weiniderenshengchuangzaoyigeyuelaiyuemeihaofangxiang。