筛选好男人：好男人的三个标准

　　guimidelaogongchuguilezenmekaidaota，guimishishengmingzhongzuiyaohaodepengyou，danshidangtazaoyuguimidelaogongwaiyushi，taxuyaodajiadezhichihekuanwei。zaizheilijinyaoguantou，womenyaojiyutajiandingdexinnian，gentashuotabingbugudu。genjulingtingtaqingtu，womenkeyilejietaneixinsuonengchengshoudetongchu，bingzhongshiduifangdeganshou。yucitongshi，womenyaogulitayingyongjieshouxianshi，zhongshizijidexingfuyuzixin。genjuzhengxiangyindaohejijizhudongdetiyi，womenkeyibangtajianjiandizouchuyinying，fujianxingfukuailedeshenghuo。

　　初见痛苦：解开创口的一瞬间

　　guimidelaogongchuguilezenmekaidaota，danghaoguimihuozhizijidezhangfuwaiyudexinxi，takenenggandaojingya、naonu、fennuhebengkui。zheiyijulietengtongdeshishihaoxianghuakailetadexin，taxuyaowomenzijidepeibanyuzhichi。zuixian，womenyaojitazugoudeshijianheshijianhejinglishifangqingxu，qingtuneixindekuchu。womenkeyizuodaoshenbian，jingjingdilingtingtabeishangyufannao，rangqitihuidaotabingbugudu，tayouzhehaopengyoupeibanzaishenpang。

　　承担冲击性：平稳她内心

　　zaitachuzaishiwanghezaluandeshishikeke，womenyaopingwentaneixin，jiyutamanmandeanquangan。womenkeyixiangqiquebao，buguanfashengshenmeshier，dajiahuiyizhipeibanzaitashenpang。rangqigaoqingchu，zheiyishijieshangzhendeyouxuduoguanhuaitaderen，haiyouhenduoxingfukuailedejiyu。yucitongshi，womenyaoxiangqichuansongjijizhudongnengliang，gentashuoneizhishishenghuodeyigecuobai，keshitayidingyoushilizhenzuoqilai。

　　聆听倾吐：了解她内心全球

　　zaizheiguochengzhong，bujinyaozuoyigeqingtingzhe，gengyaozuoyigelejiezhe。womenyaozhongshiduifangdeganshou，jiyutazugoudeshijianbiaodazijineixin。genjuqingtu，tanengshifangchulaineixindexiaojiqingxu，huanjiexinlizhuangtaideyali。womenyinggaixixinqingting，buqieduantadefayan，buhuizhudongjitatichujianyi，jinjinjiandingbuyidepeibanzaitashenpang，rangqitihuidaowomenzijideshiyong。

　　正向引导：复建她自信和幸福快乐

　　dangtajianjiandibaituobeishangdeheiyingshi，womenyaogulitayingyongjieshouxianshi，zhongshizijidexingfuyuzixin。womenkeyipeizhetayiqicanjiayixieyouhaochudezhutihuodong，bangtajianlixindechongshikuaileshenghuo。yucitongshi，genjujijidesikaohezhengxiangdezhengqueyindao，womenkeyibangtayingzaolianghaodexintai，xunzhaofujianxingfukuailedeluxian。womenkeyigentafenxiangyixiezhengnengliangdewenzhanghuoshuben，zhengqueyindaotajijizhudongmianduitiaozhan。

　　默默关心：陪伴她迈向一个新的生活

　　zuizhong，womenyaojilao，peibanshizuimeideliwu。wuluntatiaoxuanshenmeyangdedaolu，womendouhuijingjingdiwutiaojianzhichi，jiyutabixudezhichi。womenkeyihetagongtongshangdingzongtimubiao，bangtazhanshengkunnan，yiqifenxiangtazhongshixingfudeguocheng。tongguowomenpeibanyuzhichi，rangqitihuidaoyouqingdenengliang，zaicixunzhaoshenghuodexiwanghedanliang。

　　复建幸福快乐：友情的能量是很大的

　　guimidelaogongchuguilezenmekaidaota，guimidelaogongchuguishiyicitongkudejingli，danshiyeshiyouqingdepulushi。zaitazuicuiruodeshike，womenyaoyongzhenzhideqingganhewusidepeiban，shudaoheanweita。tongguowomenshiyong，rangqizhongshineixindezhizhehekuaile，fujianxingfukuailedeshenghuo。youqingdenengliangshihendade，shiwomenxiangbanxiangsui，yitongmaixiangxindemingtian。