相亲与自由恋爱的区别

　　yidilianruhefenshoubushanghaiduifang，zaiyidilianzhongfenshoushiyizhongjiannandexuanze，danshiruhezaijieshuhoubushanghaitarenchengweiguanjian。bixudejiaoliuhezhenchengshizuiguanjiande，womenkeyiyongpinghedeyudiaohejingpeidetaidubiaodazijideganshou，yucitongshilejiebierendeganshou。fangzhizeguaihezhengzhi，jiyubicizhijianshijianhekongjianlaimianduifenlideshiji。yitongxunzhaoyizhongxianghufuchiheyoushanfenkaidefangfa，yiweichibicizhijiandezunzhongyushenshendiganqingniudai。

　　以友好而坦诚的态度表述分手意向

　　yidilianruhefenshoubushanghaiduifang，zaiyidilianzhong，yaofenshoubingbushiyijianrongyideshiqing，keshiyaobaochiyouhaohetanchengdetaiducaishiguanjian。wulunshitongguoshouji、shipintonghuahuoshilingjuligoutongjiaoliu，xuanzeyigelianghaodehuanjinglaizhujianzheizhonghuihua。xianyongzhenshideganshouweidaoxiang，yongrouhedekouqibiaodaguandianhequeding。gaosutamenniduiyuganqingdegaoduzhongshijiqineixinshenchudefenqi，yejiduifangzhengmingnidequedingbingzuochuchongzudemiaoshu。zhongyaodeshiyaozhanshichuduibicidezunzhongyuaixi，nengrangduifangkanjiannidezhenxinshiyi。

　　重视对方的感受和反应

　　fenshouzhenduirenheyifanglaishuodoushiyizhongtongkudejingli，yineryaozuohaozhunbei，duilingyibankenengfashengdexintaitiqianzuohaozhunbei。bulunshinaonu、nanguohuoshixinhan，bixuyirenzhihenaixinditaiduhuifu。yidingbuyaoqingyidihuibierendeganshou，yebiezhenglunhuobianbo。jiyulingyifangchongpeideshijianhekongjianquchulizijidexinqing，nengrangduifangtihuidaoniduitadeguanxinzhichi。

　　防止批评和争执，探寻共通的解决方案

　　zaifenshoudeguochengdangzhong，yingjinliangbimianhuxiangzhizehuoshenxianzhengzhi。bajiaodianfangzaitanxungongtongdejiejuefanganshang，keyicushibicinenggougenghaodigoutongyulejie。shenrutantaonenggoucaiqucuoshi，biruchuangjianyoushandefenshoufangfa、shangyihenqingchudefenshoushixiangjiqizenyangbaochiyouqing。dangbicidouyishidaozheiyeshizuihaodejieguoshi，xunzhaoyitongjiejuefanganjiangyouzhuyujianqingfenshouzaochengdeshanghai。

　　给予彼此之间时间和空间

　　fenshouduibicilaishuodouxuyaoshijianlaixiufuheyouhua。lijieduifangdexuqiu，jiyubicizhijianchongpeideshijianhekongjianlaimianduifenlideshiji。zheijiuyiweizhebuyaopinfanlianxita，bubitantingduifangxiankuang，yebiezaishejiaopingtaishangdingzhulingyifangdongtaihua。jiyulingyifangdujuheyuhedejiyu，tongshiyeweizishenjihuiqujiejuezijidexinqinghejieshouzheizhongbianhua。tongguozheiyangdefangshi，shuangfangkeyijinkuaishiyingxindeshenghuofangshi，bingweijianglaideyouqingdiandingjichu。

　　yidilianruhefenshoubushanghaiduifang，buguanzenyang，fenshoushiyizhongtongkudeguocheng，danyiyouhao、zunzhongyutanchengdetaidulaimiandui，nengjianqinglingyifangzaochengdeshanghai。zhongyaodeshiyaojilao，fenshoubingbudengyulianggerendeganqingjiangdi，ershiyizhongzouxiangchengshuzhenxiduifangdexingshi。genjupinghedegoutongyulejie，shuangfangkeyizaifenshouhouweichiyizhongteshudeguanlian，bingxiangqiantuijin。