第一次相亲要不要带小礼物呢

　　yidiliannvpengyouxiangfenshoulezenmeban，yingduiyidiliannvpengyoutichufenshoudejiongjing，womenxuyaolijiebinglingtingtaxiangfaheganshou。zaigoutongzhong，yaochengshibiaodazijideqinggan，shizhexunzhaojiejuewentidefangfa。jianlixinlaihewendingdegoutongdefangshi，weichijijidexintaihexianghufuchi，yekeyichangshizhidingyixiebicilingrenmanyiguizejijihua，yiweichilianxidepingwen。zuizhongyaodeshiyaoxianghuzhijianbaorongyulijie，jiejinquanlichuliwenti，erfeiqingyanfangqi。yidilianxuyaoshuangfangdefuchuhenuli，jinyouhuxiangzhaogu，caikeyikefukunnan，zaiciyitongzhuixunxingfu。

　　挽回感情坚持不懈的努力

　　yidiliannvpengyouxiangfenshoulezenmeban，zaiyidilianzhong，dangnvpengyoubiaoxianlefenkaidexiangfa，dajiabufangshizhekaizhanyineideqinfenlaiwanhuiganqing。zuixian，yaopingjingxialai，fangzhixinlixianxiangguoduo，zhongshitaqueding，queyebiaodazijideguandian。xiamian，jianliyouxiaodegoutongfangshi，tanchengdigoutongjiaoliuxinlidexiangfahetihui，yitongtanxunwentidebenzhihejiejuefangan。yucitongshi，jijizhudongzhanxianzijidefazhanziwogaibian，rangqikanjianniduiguanliandegaoduzhongshiyunuli。yucitongshi，jiduifangyixieziyoudekongjian，gulitazhuiqiuzijidexingquaihaoyumengxiang，rangqiganshoudaonidedalizhichihezhongshi。zuizhongyaodeshi，yongshijixingdongshuomingnideqingyihechengnuo，jitaguishugan，rangqixiangyaozaidutourudaolezheiduanganqingzhong。

　　建立信赖和互动

　　zaiyidilianzhong，xinlaishihenzhongyaodeyaosu，yinciwomenxuyaogengjianulidijianliheqianghuaxinlai。zuixian，yaojianlipingwendejiaoliuxiguanxing，weichimiqiedeguanxi，bulunshishouji、shipinliaotianhuoshiliaotian，douxuyaojingchangbaochihudongjiaoliu。gongxiangshenghuodangzhongkuaileyujiannan，nengrangduifangganshoudaonidepeibanheguanai。yucitongshi，yaoyichengxiangdai，buzheyanzishendewentihuoyihuo。chucizhiwai，jiandingduiyutadezhichihelijie，zhongshitadexuanzehequeding，bicijiyushijianyukongjianlaichengzhanghefazhan。

　　重构共同的目标

　　dangyidilianfashengkunjingshi，henkenengshiyinweibicishiqugongtongmubiaoyumubiao。yiner，zhongxinxunzhaogongtongmubiaoshizhongyaodeyibu。genjushuangfangdereqingyumengxiang，zhidingyigegongtongdezhengtiguihua，shezhiyixiegerenmubiaolaishixianta。zheiyangcainengrangbicigengyouxinxinheqianjindedaolu，bingqieyejiaqiangbicizhijiandeguanlianheyilai。chucizhiwai，jijikaizhantarendeshenghuo，zairichangzhongweichigongxiangheguanai，tishengbicizhijiandeqinmigan。

　　维持积极的心态

　　dangmianduiyidilianfenshoutiaozhanshi，weichilianghaodexintaishishifenzhongyaode。jianxinzijigenduifangdeganqing，jianxinjianchifuchudejiazhi。buyaoqingyanfangqi，fanershixiangzheruhegaijinhetishengziji，ruheyouxiaodalizhichiheaixilingyifang。yucitongshi，zhongshizijineixinfazhan，tongguoyuedu、xuexiyufazhanxingquaihaolaitigaozijidefengcaiyuzixin。zuizhongyaodeshi，yaojizhuyuanzehedixianherennaidu，ruguoyizhitouruquemeiyouhuibao，yeyaoxuehuifangshou，xunzhaogengzhidezhenxiderensheng。

　　寻求专业协助

　　yidiliannvpengyouxiangfenshoulezenmeban，ruguoyishangjianchibuxiedenuliyiranwufamibuyidilianguanlian，neiyangbufangkaolvxunqiuzhuanyexiezhu。keyikaolvhelianaizixunshihuoxinlixuezhuanjiagoutongjiaoliu，xunzhaotadezhuanyejianyiheyindao。tamenyexuhuibangzhunigenghaodilejieyidiliandekaoyan，bingtigongyixiehelidefangfalaijiejuenanti。ciwai，keyihehaopengyou、qinrenjinxingjiaoliu，zhengqiutamendeyijianjianyi，zaichuyubeidongwanliudeyucitongshi，yeyaodongdejieshouxianshi，zuochuzhengquedejuece，tiaoxuanzijideaiqing。 zuizhong，buguanjiejuruhe，yidingyaoxuehuijiena，chengzhangyuqianxing。richangshenghuozhongyouhenduomeihaoshiwudengdaiwomenqutanxunbingxiangshou，zhongshizijidelequ，zhenxizijidexingfukuailecaishizhongyaode。