怎么挽回分手的恋人？做到8点就足够了

 henduolianrennaofenshoushichaodebukekaijiao，danshizhenzhengfenkailequeyouhouhuifenshoule。neimefenshouhouhaineng wanhuilianren ma？daodizenmewanhuifenshoudelianrenni？ruguoninenggouzuodaoxiamianzhei8dian，xiangxinnenggouwanhuishiqudeaiqing。

zenmewanhuifenshoudelianren？zuodao8dianjiuzugoule

01找到问题的症结所在

 xiangfuhe，xianzhaochuzijidewenti。lianaizhongchuliqingxudefangshijiduan、duiairendetaiduchadengdouyoukenengshidaozhifenshoudeyuanyin。fansizijishenshangdewentibingnuligaidiaomaobing，shifuhedediyibu。

02不要死缠烂打

 genduifangfenshouhou，buyaozhudongqulianxita，gengbuyaoyizhizhanzheduifang。wozhidaonihaihenaita，danshimuqianlaikantaduinideqingganbingbuduo。gentabaochiyidingdejuli，huanyizhongfangshiqujiechu，biruyongpengyoudeshenfenlianxi。

03改变自我之丰富生活

 zhongxinsuzaoziji，dazaoyigezixindeziji。wulunnimenfenshoudeyuanyinshishenme，youyidianshibixudechengrende：nibugouyouxiu，ruguonizugouyouxiudehua，duifangbiranshebudelinierqu。

suoyi，wanhuiaiqingqian，changshirangzijideshenghuoduocaiqilai，zhongxinsuzaoyigezixindeziji，rangnibiandegengjuyoumeiliba。

04度过冷处理期

 zhengyinweinihaiaizheduifang，suoyifenshouhouhenbunengbaduifangdedianhuadabao，yiqiudefuhe。ranerduifangzhixiangjingyijing，zheishinijiuyaocaiqulengchulidefangshi，rangnimenzanshipoliedeganqingyoudiaozhengdejihui。

 ruguoqingganwentijiaoyanzhong，zheiduanshiqiyexuhuihenzhang，zhangdaonixinlijiaocui、shiquxinxin。suoyiyaodiaojiexintai，neixinyaozugoujianding，zheiyangcainengaoguomanzhangdelengchuliqi。

05主动道歉

 buguanshifoushinidecuo，zhiyaonihaixianghetazaiyiqi，jiuyidingyaozhudongrencuo。zhiyourencuozhihounvfangcaihuiyoubijiaopingjingdetaidu，dengtahuanhetaiduhou，shuomingtazaijinijihui，zheishihounichengshengzhuiji，zaimanmangonghuitadexin。

06让对方认识全新的自己

 fenshouhoudelengchuliqibuyaozhiguzheshangchunbeiqiu，jinkenengzheshou“wanshan”ziji。fuhedeguochengshijishangjiushi“ercixiyin”，fenshoudeyuanyinshuodaodijiushixiyinlibuzu。

suoyizaifuhezhong，zuizhongyaodejiushitigaozijidexiyinli，guohaodangxiadeshenghuo，rangqianrenzhongxinkandaonishenshangdeshanguangdian。

07回忆甜蜜时光

 jirannimennengchengweilianren，shuomingnimenzhiqianshiyouhenduomeihaohuiyide。meigenvrendoushiyigelianjiuderen，zhiyaotahainenghenijiaotan，neimenijiuhaiyouxiwang。nikeyibanimenyiqianjinglideyixieshiqingmanmandezaihetahuiyiyibian，yinqitaduiyiqiandehuainian。

08保持积极乐观的心态

 yigerenchengshoufuhedeshiluoheyali，zhenggewanhuiqiduiyunilaijiangkendingshitongkunanaode。zheishihoubaochileguandexintaiyouweizhongyao，diaojiezijideqingxudetongshi，yerangduifangganshoudaonidewennuan。

nijitadaiqudequanshizhengnengliang，erbushiwuzhijindeqingganheidong。zheiyanggengyouliyuganqingdefuhe。