别急着说分手！分手前想清楚3个问题

 youshihounvshenghenanyoushuo fenshou kenengzhishinaozhewande，bingfeizhendexianghenanyoufenshou。danshinanshengruguoshuofenshou，duobanshirenzhende，suoyinvshengbuyaoqingyijiushuochufenshouzheilianggezi。nvshengjuedingfenshouzhiqianxuyaoxiangqingchuxiamianzhei3jianshi。

biejizheshuofenshou！fenshouqianxiangqingchu3gewenti

1、想清楚你是否还深爱着他。

 dangnvrenjuedingheyigenanrenfenshouzhiqian，xianxiangqingchunishifouhaishenaizheta。ruguonifaxianzijiyiranshenaizheta，neimewojianyinibaochilengjing，buyaoqingyihenanrenfenshou。

 fenshourongyi，fuhehennan。meidangniduinanrentiyicifenshou，nanrenjiuhuiyincixinsuiyici。dangnitidefenshoucishutaiduo，nanrenhuichuxianliangzhongqingkuang，yizhongshitazaoyimamu，duinitifenshouzheijianshiqingyijingjianguaibuguai，buhuizhendewangxinliqu。lingyizhongshitahuirenwukeren，henichedifenshou。

 suoyi，dangnvrenjuedingheyigenanrenfenshouzhiqian，niyidingyaoxianxiangqingchu，nishibushizhenxinxianghetafenshou。nishibushiyijingchediyanjuanleta。ruguozhishiyishidechongdong，jianyinixianrangzijilengjingxialai，buyaobeiyishidefennuchonghuntounao，congerzaochengwufawanhuidejumian。

2、想清楚你能否承担分手的后果。

 dangnvrenjuedingheyigenanrenfenshouzhiqian，xianxiangqingchunishifounengchengdanfenshoudehouguo。yejiushishuo，ruguoniwufachengdanfenshoudehouguo，birufenshouhoudegudan，fenshouhoudesinian，fenshouhoudeyulunyali，dengdeng，neimejianyinizanshibuyaoqingyiduinanrentifenshou。

 nvrenjuedingheyigenanrenfenshouzhiqian，yinggaixiangqingchu，nilikainanrenzhihou，shibushiyirankeyihuodehenhao。ninengbunengchengshoufenshoudedaji。niruguohenanrenfenshouzhihou，yirankeyihuodehenhao，erqieniyequedingzijiyijingbuaitale，neimenikeyixuanzehenanrenfenshou。

 nvrenyinggaiweizijideyanxingfuze。jirannijuedingyaoheyigenanrenfenshou，neimenijiuyaozhudongchengdanfenshoudehouguo。jiranshinizijixuanzeyaohenanrenfenshou，neimenijiubuyaozaihouhui，yebuyaozhengtianyileiximian，wufazhongxinkaishizhengchangdeshenghuo。fouze，jiudebuchangshile。

3、想清楚这段感情还有没有挽回的余地。

 dangnvrenjuedingheyigenanrenfenshouzhiqian，xianxiangqingchunimendezheiduanganqinghaiyoumeiyouwanhuideyudi。huanjuhuashuo，dangnijuedingheyigenanrenfenshouzhiqian，niyaoxiangqingchu，nimendeganqingshibushizhendeyijingdaolewukejiuyaodedibu。nimenshibushifeidefenshoubuke。

 ruguonimenzhijiandeganqingbingmeiyoupoliedaofeifenshoubukededibu，neimeshuomingnimendeganqinghaiyoujiu。jirannimendeganqinghaiyouwanhuideyudi，neimewojianyinimenbuyaoqingyifenshou。

 henduoshihou，womendeganqingzhisuoyilaiqucongmang，zhuyaoshiyinweiwomenbudongdezhenxibicideganqing。womentairongyiba“fenshou”zheilianggezituokouerchu，quewangjiledangchuzaiyiqishibicixiaoxinyiyiweixizheiduanganqingdejianxinyufuchu。

 ruguonimendeganqinghaiyouwanhuideyudi，neimenimenxianbubijiyufenshou。nimenburuduohuishouguoquxiangaidediandisuiyuehemeihaoshiguang。yexu，neixiewennuandehuiyi，huirangnimenchedidaxiaofenshoudeniantou。（zuozhe：baiyiwutong）