男友心里还有前任，如何正确后撤挽回他？

 wofaxiannanyouheqianrenhaiyoulianxi，woyaoqiutaduanlelianxidanshitabuyuanyi。woduiganqingzhuanyi，woshoubuletaxinlihaiyoubieren，tongkudeyiduxianghetatifenshou。qingwenwogairuhehouche wanhuinanyou ？

nanyouxinlihaiyouqianren，ruhezhengquehouchewanhuita？

网友 情感咨询

 wo26sui，155/45，dufeichu，ziyouzhiye；ta30sui，173/80，feidufeichu，mouliansuocanyingongsichushizhang。womenshizaiwoqudianliyingpinshi，tashuotaduiwoyijianzhongqing，ranhoujiuzhuiqiuwode。

 qianqiwoyoudianpaichita，yinweitadewaibiaobushiwoxihuandeleixing，dantayoumo，shiwujuxiduiwohehuyoujia，henzaihuwo，suoyibudaoyigeyuewojiutongyilebingfashengguanxi。tazhuiwodeshihouwojiuzhidaotayizhidoushiyijiehunweimude。tayijingjianguowofumu，yedasuannianhoudaiwoqutalaojiajiantafumu。

 qijianwofaxiantahetadeqianrenhaiyoulianxi，woyaoqiutaduanlianxi，tashuotazhongganqingfenshouhaishipengyou，wojiutifenshou。tawanliushuorangwobuyaozuanniujiaojian，tazhishiguoqu，woyeshebudefen，jiujitashijianrangtachuli。kewoganjuetahaishimeiyouchulihao，shenzhiwomenzaiyiqishitaqianrendouhuidadianhuaguolai。

 womenzaiyiqishiganqingnongduhengao，danyinweitaqianrendeyuanyin，woyigerendeshihoujiuhuixiangtaiduo，tongkudaoliulei，wozongganjuetafangbuxiaqianren，duiwozhishixiangjiehun，kewoyijingaishangtayexianghetajiehun，danwoduiganqingzhuanyi，woshoubuletaxinlihaiyoubieren，tongkudeyiduxianghetatifenshou。wodaodishijixuzhuangzuohetaruowuqishidezaiyiqihaishicaiqushenmexingdonglaijiejuezheigewentini？

花镇 情感咨询师回复：

houcheyidingyaoguoduangancui，zunxun“sangemingque”deyuanze：

diyi，jichudezhilinghejiexianyaomingque；

dier，liujiduifangdechuliqixianyaomingque；

disan，weifanyuedingdehouguoyeyidingyaomingque。

wanbukexiangnizheiyang，yibianbuqingbuchudibiaodabuman，yibianyoutuotuolaladirengranheduifangzaiyiqiruowuqishidixiangchu。

 houchedemude，bujinzaiyujiejueganqingzhongmianduidegezhongwenti，yezaiyukaochaduifangdechengyihejuexin。ruguonizhiqiannenggouanzhaozhengquefangshishixinghouche，kunraonidewentihenkenengyijingbeichenggongjiejue。tuiyiwanbujiang，jishizheiduanguanxiyinweiduifangdebujiandingerzhijiejieshu，yewanquanbuhuibianchengxianzaizheiyangyibianlangfeinideshijianjingli，yibianyourangniyouyuweinandezaogaojumian。

 congnanyoumuqiandebiaoxianlaikan，ruguorangtazainiheqianrenzhijianjinxingxuanze，tahenyoukenenghuiguoduanfangqini。bijingtazaichuliwentishibingmeiyougujinidexiangfa，meiyounachupofuchenzhouyunizaiyiqidejuexin。

 zongshangsuoshu，nibufangzainanyouqianrenzaiyicikunraonishi，anzhaozhengquedefangshizhongxinhoucheyici，ruguoduifangwufadadaonideyaoqiu，jiujishizhisunguoduanfenshou。