丈夫出轨妻子怎么办？是要离婚还是挽回？

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zhangfuchuguiqizizenmeban？shiyaolihunhaishiwanhui？

一、了解丈夫出轨的原因

zhangfuchuguiyoukenengshibeidongde，yeyoukenengshizhudongde。zhudongchuguiqueshihenkee，zheiyangdenanrenyaohuitouyeshihennandele。

 danshiruguozhangfuchuguizhihouhuixiangnitanbaibingqiuniyuanliang，shuomingtazhendeyouhuigaizhiyi，yexutachuguizhishiyishichongdong，bingfeichuyuzhudongyishiquchugui，ershibeizhoubianhuanjingyinyoucaichuguide。zheizhongqingkuangxiabufangjidajiayicijihui，kankanshifouyoubanfawanhuizhangfudexin。

二、看看丈夫出轨之后的态度

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三、丈夫出轨后果的严重性

 ruguobudanchuguilehaigenqingrenyoulezijidehaizi，neimezheijianshijiubiandejishoule。niyemeiyouquanliyinweizijidexingfuerhuidiaoyigewugudeshengming，yemeibanfayinciershiquwanzhengdejiating。

 zheishihouxuyaogengjialixingdichulizheijianshi，nixuyaozhengqiusanfangdeyijian，kankanzheigehaiziruhechuli，kankanzhangfudexiangfashizenyangde。zheishihouniyidingyaozhangfujiyigedafujiziji，bunenggoumolengliangkeshanghailelianggerendexin。

四、给自己一个决定的期限

 wozhidaoyudaozheiyangdeshiqingdoubuhaozuojueding，danshizheijianshiqingtuojiuleduisheidoumeiyouhaochu。niyoubiyaojizijishedingyigeqixian，yesuanshijizhangfudekaoyanqiba！

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