沈城小伙买婚房送惊喜 女友却气得要分手

 shenchengyiduiqinglvqianyitianhaichuyutanhunlunjiadejieduan，danshi5yue22riqueyinweichoubeihunliwentierfenshou。qishi“hunqianshuofenshou”xianzaibingbuxiqi，youhunlianshujudiaochaxianshi， hunyinwenti zhongzhunfuqifenshoudebilidayuezhansancheng。henduorenzaichoubeihunlihechouhuaweilaishenghuoshijiuhuiyinweigezhongmaodunerfenshou。

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买房子送惊喜却换来“不结了”

 zhanghua（huaming）heliqiang（huaming）xiangshijinyinian，ganqingfeichanghao，bingqiexiangshibannianjiurendingduifangshicishengyaodengderen，yushilianggerenguoqiletongjushenghuo。youyunanfangjiazhuwaidi，nvhaigennanhaishuoxiwangtazaishenyangnengmaifang。

 nanhaiweilemanzunvhaideyuanwang，chulegongzuozhiwaihaizijichuangye，jiuxiwangjinkuainengmanzunvhaideyuanwang。jinnian5yue21ridangtian，liqiangsongnvyouyidashuxianhua，bingqielimianfangleyifenshenmiliwu——yibayaochi。

 liqianggaosunvyou，zheishitayizhixiangyaodefangzi。zhanghuagangkaishixianshijingxi，danshiyiwenfangzidedidianhemianji，zhanghualejieyueduoyueshengqi：xinfangjulitadedanweixuyaoyigexiaoshichecheng，julizijimajiayetebieyuan，erqiefangzimianjiyebuda，“yihouyaoshiyouhaizi，fumuyaolaibangmangzhaogu，zheixiewentidouzenmejiejue？”zhanghuayueshuoyueshengqi，tashuluoliqiangkaolvbuzhou，haishuotaziyiweishi，mingxianshiduizijibuzunzhong。

 benyiweishitianmixingfudeshi，beinvyouyishuo，liqiangyelailepiqi，tajuedezijixinkupinbojiuweilemanzuta，ketabudanmeishuoyijutiexinhua，fandaoshuoleyiduitadebushi。

 zheijianshichengledaohuosuo，lianggerenyoufanchuzhongzhongyiqianweijiejuedemaodun。lianggerenshangxindidouxiangdaolefenshouzheiyibu。suiranchaojiashangxin，danshibijingliangrendeganqinghaizai，yushi，26rilianggerenjuedingzhaojiahunlianjigoukankanzhuanjiaruhejiejue。

3成受访“准夫妻”未能走进婚姻

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jingguoyigeduoxiaoshidediaojie，shuangfangjuedingxianxiangchuxiaqu，yexianxuezheruheaiduifang。

 mouxintaizixunzhongxinjieshoudejin300lifuqihuozheqinglvlaifangzhong，“zhunfuqi”yinchuxiangezhongmaodunerzuizhongdaozhifenshoudebilizaizhengtihunlianwentizhongyuezhan3cheng。daozhifenshoudeyuanyinzhuyaoyou：nvfangrenweinanfangmeiyouzerengan；nanfangkongzhiyutaiqiang；shuangfangtiaoguozhongyaobuzhouzhijielianaide；yinweibicishenghuoxisu、xiguanbutongerjieshoubuleduifangdengdeng。

 caifangzhongjizhelejiedao，qinglvmendefenshouyuanyingezhonggeyang，danruguoshuangfangnenggoushenrulejieduifangdejiazhiguan，huozheshihaohaobiaoda，wanquandoukeyizoudaoyiqi。

shiminchennvshizhijinxiangqizijidechulianrenggandaohouhui，zhiyindangshibunengjieshoutadejiatingxisu，yiduqitifenshou。

 chennvshishuo，qiannanyoushidaxuetongxue，tadelaojiashinanfangyigexiaozhen，zaitanhunlunjiadeshihou，tagennanhaizhunbeihuilaojia。zaijizhungongpozhunbeijianmianlishi，nanfangtichuanlaojianeibianxisuyeyaoqukanwangtadeguyiniangjiu，aijiadouyaozou。

chennvshishuo，zijidangshitebiebugaoxing，danyegennanyouhuilelaojia。

 keshizaizoufangqinqishi，nanyoutongyangyaojizheixieqinqimaifenhouli，tatebiebulijie，erqienanfanghaigaosutayihoumeiniandouyaohuilaiaijiatanwang。chennvshishuo，xiangdaoweilaidouyaohuijiakanyiduiqinqi，erqienanfangjianchishuozheishixisu，zijidangshishoubulejiutichulefenshou。chennvshirujinxiangqilaidoujuedexinsuan，“shizaimeiyoubanfajieshouzheige”。

最重要是包容理解 认同彼此价值观

 hunlianzhuanjiashuo，“zhunfuqi”tongchanghaichuyulianaijieduan，dangzoujinhunyinshijiaosejiuhuifashenggaibian，zheigeshihouxintaiyeyinggaigaibian。yaorenqingzijideshenfen，nvhaishiqizi、nver、weilaidemama，nanhaishizhangfu、erzi、weilaidebaba，fuzizhijianshipingdengde，yinggaixianghufuxie，xianghuzunzhong。guoletianmiqi，fuqizhijianchuxianyidiankepenghenzhengchang，zhiyoujinglitongganku、gonghuannandeganqingcaizhangzhangjiujiu，fuqizhijianyinggaibujijiao，xuyaobaorongxin。

 lingwai，yaorentongbicidejiazhiguan，yinweimeigerendechengzhangjinglibutong，danglejieduifangdejiazhiguanshi，jiubuhuineimeziwoweizhongxindifapiqifalaosao，qingxidibiaodazijideyiyuan，zhijieshuochuganshou，zheiyangduifangcainengjieshou，fuqizhijiandejiaoliugoutongcainengjinxingxiaqu。

 lianggerenchengjiayihou，meitiandoubenbolaokugezichengshoubutongdedanzi，fuqijianyaoxianghuwenhou，lijieduifang，yaozhudongzuojiawuweibicifendan，zhangfuyaozunzhongqizidexuanze，qiziyaozhaoguzhangfudezizunxin。