女人决定和男人结婚之前要考虑清楚4件事

 nvrendouxiwangzhaodaoyigeheshiderenjiehun，danzheibushiyijianrongyideshiqing。zaijuedingheduifangjiehunzhiqian，nixuyaohuadaliangdeshijianhejingliqulejieta。yibanlaishuo，dangnvrenjuedinghenanren jiehunzhiqian ，nixuyaoxiangqingchuyixia4jianshi。

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01结婚之前需要考虑你们三观是否一致

 dangnijuedingheyigenanrenjiehunqian，nixuyaoxiangqingchutahenidesanguanshifouyizhi。zhiyoudangnimensanguanyizhi，nimendehunyincaihuigengjiaxingfuhechijiu。

 ruguonimensanguanbuyizhi，jishinimenmianqiangzaiyiqiyebuhuiguodezhenzhengxingfuhekuaile。yinweinimensanguanbuyizhi，suoyinimenhuiduitongyigewentichanshengbutongdefenqi。ruguonimenzongshizhenfengxiangdui，wanquanliaobudaoyikuai，neimenimenzaiganqingzhong，huichanshenggezhonggeyangdewentiyumaodun。

 zhiyoudangnimendesanguanjibenyizhi，nimencaihuichanshenggengduodegongtonghuati，nimencaihuizhenzhengxinwangyichuxiang，liwangyichushi。nimenhunyindelunchuan，cainengzaishenghuodewangyangzhongpingwenyunxing，buhuiqingyipaomao，yebuhuibeishenghuodefenglangqingyijikua。

02如果结婚了你们能否忍受平淡的生活

 dangnijuedingheyigenanrenjiehunzhiqian，niyaoxiangqingchushifounenggourenshoupingdandeshenghuo。hunyinshenghuozhudingchongmanlesuosuiyupingdan。ruguoniduihunyinchongmanlebuqieshijidelangmanhuanxiang，neimenibuyaoqingyijiehun。ruguoyigenanrenbunengrenshoushenghuodepingdan，neimetahenkenenghuiqingyibeipanzheiduanganqing。

 suoyidangnijuedingheyigenanrenjiehunzhiqian，nixuyaorenqingkaolvdeyigewentijiushi，nimennengbunengjieshoushijiandekaoyan，jingshoushenghuodepingdanliunian。ruguonimenwufarongrenshenghuodepingdanyuwuqu，neimenimenkenengbutaishihejiehun。yinweihunyinbujinjinshikaoaiqingzhicheng，tongshihaixuyaokaoqinqingheyouqingzhicheng。

 hunyinbujinjinshilianggerendeshiqing，haixuyaokaolvfangfangmianmiandeyinsu，baokuoshuangfangdefumuhejiaren。ruguonimenwufamianduihunyinzhongdeyidijimao，neimenimenzanshibuyaojiyuburuhunyindemenjian。

03你们结婚以后能否包容彼此一切

 dangnijuedingheyigenanrenjiehunzhiqian，niyaokaolvqingchu，nimenshifounenggouzhenzhengbaorongbicideyiqie。ruguonizhinengjieshouduifangdeyoudianhezhangchu，wufarongrenduifangdequedianhebuzu，neimenikenengbushiheyuduifangjiehun。tongyangdi，ruguonanrenduinichongmanletiaoti，yidannidemouxiexingweihuobiaoxianrangtajuedebushuang，tajiuduinidafaleiting，neimeshuomingtakenengbingbushiheyunijiehun。

 hunyinxuyaobicichongfenbaorongherenrang。dangnimenjuedingburuhunyin，yejiuyiweizhenimenxuyaobicimohe，nimenyaoxuehuishidangdixishengzijidemouxiebufen。nibukenengzaihunhou，yiranwusuogujidizuoniziji。

 dangnijuedingheyigenanrenjiehun，nijiubiranyaozuochushidangderangbuhuotuoxie。ruguonimenzaiganqingzhonghubuxiangrang，gezhijijian，neimenimendeganqinghennanzhangjiu，nimenyebushihejiehun。

04婚后你们是否愿意主动关心和帮助彼此

dangnijuedingheyigenanrenjiehunzhiqian，niyaorenzhenxiangqingchuyigewenti，nimenshifouyuanyizhudongguanxinhebangzhubici。

 dangnifaxianbanlvxianrukunjing，xuyaonidebangzhushi，nishifouyuanyidiyishijianxiangbanlvshenchuyuanshou。tongyangdi，dangnixuyaobanlvdebangzhushi，banlvshibushiyetongyangyuanyiwusidibangzhuni。ruguodaanshifoudingde，neimeshuomingnimenbingbushihejiehun。

 hunyinzhisuoyinenggouzhangjiudicunzaixiaqu，shiyinweifuqizhijianbiciyikao，bicifuchi，bicixuyao。ruguonimenzaihunyinzhongrutongyipansansha，haowuningjuli，yebudongdexianghuguanxinhezhichi，neimenimendehunyinzhudingwufazhangjiu。

 suoyi，zaihunqiannixuyaorenzhenkaolvqingchu，nishibushiyuanyiwusidibangzhunidebanlv，tongshidangniyexuyaobanlvdebangzhushi，banlvshibushiyetongyangyuanyiduinikangkaijienang。

 suoyouzheixiehunqianwenti，nidouyaorenzhendizhuomoshenrudisikao。yidanzheixiewentidebudaotuoshandejiejue，neimenimenbuyaoqingyijiehun。zhiyoudangnimenshensishulv，bazheixiewentidouxiangqingchu，bingqienenggouzhudongchengdanqihunyindezerenheyiwu，buguanjianglaiyudaozenyangdewentihuokunnan，nimendounenggouxieshougongtongduguonanguan，nimencaishihejiehun。