解决根本矛盾，才是挽回男友的关键

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　　zenyangweichihunyindelaogu，rangwomendeaiqingdedaozhangqi？yixiashuyuyixiefangfa，nenggoubangzhufufuchuangjiangengjiankangxiangduiwendingdehunyinguanlian，jiangdizhangfuchuguidegailv。

　　提高夫妻间的沟通与理解

　　zenmeranglaogongbuchugui，fuqijiandeyouxiaodegoutongshijianliguanxideqianti。lingtinglingyifangdeyaoqiuhetihui，yuqishuofenxiangzijineixinshenchu。goutongjiaoliubujinjinshikoukoushengshengdegoutongjiaoliu，haibaohanshentiyuyanyuqingganbiaodafangshi。genjulejieduifang，womennengchongfenmanzubicizhijiandexuyao，jiazhongfuqijiandeqingxuxianghulianjie。

　　共同商定任务和规划人生

　　yougongtongdemubiaoheguihuarenshengdefufubijiaorongyiweichimiqielianxi。tamenkeyiyiqizhidingyishixianjiazhong、shiyefazhangerenguihua。gongtongfendouzhuixunyitongdexinyuan，bujinjinshijiyudajiayiqinulifangxiang，yezengqianglefuqijiandexiezuohepeihemoqi。

　　塑造一同个人爱好

　　gongtongdegerenaihaonengzengjiafuqijiandeyouhaodu。xunzhaoshuangfangyouxingqudezhutihuodong，yiqicanyu、gongxiangbicizhijiandekuailehemanzugan。zheibujinfengfulefuqixingshenghuo，yetigonglegengduogongtongyuyanhejiechudejihui，jiangdiwaibudeyingxiang。

　　保持身体健康

　　yucitongshizhuyizijideshenglihexinlishenxinjiankang，shikongzhizhangfuchuguidezhongyaoyihuan。weichishidangdeduanlian、junhengyinshihechongpeidexiexi，nengzengqiangrentidedikangnengli，tishengzixinxin，rangwomengengweijuyoujiejueyalijiannandeshuiping，baochijijileguandexintai。

　　创建信任和彼此尊重

　　xinrenhezunzhongshihunyinzhongbibukeshaodezhongyaoqianti。chuangjianlaogudexinrenjiben，shifuqijianshouhuaiqingdeguanjiansuozai。baozhengyanxingyizhi，lvxingxieyi，binggoutongjiaoliuzhenduizhongshihemanyidudeqidai。xianghulijieduifanggerenyinsihesirenkongjian，meiyoujinxingjieruxingdiaochafenxihuojianguan，shiweichihunyindezhongyaobiaozhunzhiyi。

　　创造和谐的家庭环境

　　jiatinghuanjingduifuqiganqingyingxianghenda。yingzaoyigehemu、hexiedejiatingqifen，tigongyigeshuxindejiazhongshineikongjian，nengrangfuqijiangengjiadeyourentongganheguishugan。xianghuxinren、zunzhongyulijie，chuliwentishibaochilixing，yiqifenxiangjiatingyalihejiawuhuoyali，quanshiweichihunyindezhongyaozuchengbufen。

　　寻找技术专业协助

　　jiarufuqiganqingchuxianyanzhongkunnan，meifaduziyirenchulidehua，xunzhaogengzhuanyedehunyinzhidaohuohunyinyizhiyeshiyigezhengquedexuanze。zhuanyerenyuannenggoutigongzhuanyonggongjuyujiqiao，xiezhufufufujianhunyinguanxihexinren。

　　zenmeranglaogongbuchugui，weichihunyindewendingxinghexingfujiushimeiyigeshuangfanggongtongdexinyuan。genjugaijingoutongjiaoliu，zhidinggongtongdemubiao，suzaogongtongdegerenaihao，baochishentijiankang，chuangjianxinrenhebicizunzhong，chuangzaohexiedejiatinghuanjingjiqixunzhaojishuzhuanyexiezhu，dajianenggoujianshaozhangfuchuguidegailv，wanchengzhangqixingfukuailedehunyin。