真的爱父母，切忌5不要

 xianzaidaduoshurenxianghaohaoaifumu，youshihouquekongzhibulezijideqingxuwuyijianshanghailefumu。baodafumu，aifumudeni，yaojidezhei5buyao。

一、不抱怨父母的无能

 meiyourenshiwannengde，yemeiyourenshiwanmeide！fumujilewomenshengming，feijinxinlibawomenyangyuchengren，yihenburongyi，womenyaoganenfumuxinkusheng、yanglewomen。

 buyaobaoyuanshuo“babayinggaishizenyangdebaba，mamayinggaishizenyangdemama”，yinggaizhenchengdishuo：“wojieshou，nimenjiushizheiyang；wojieshou，shiwoxuanzelenimen；woxiangshounimenjiyuwodeyiqie。”

二、不抱怨父母啰嗦

 fumubiwomenxianlaishishang，tamenxianxuequjingyan、zhaoguziji，zaidanshengwomen。dangwomenchusheng，yongzijiyushengdexinlilaizhaoguwomenchenglefumuziyuanxuanzedemingyun：zhuwomenchuanyi，jiaowomenchifan，panwomenpingan……zhiyouzhenainiderencaihuiquluosuoni，fumujuebuhuiquluosuoyigeyutamenwuguanderen。

三、不抱怨父母抱怨

 fumubaoyuanwomen，zhishibumanzuwomenxianzai。dangwomenzuodegouhaoshi，tamenkewangwomengenghao！tamenbushiweiziji，huoxutamenzaishenghuoshangyouhenduoburuyi，huoxutamenzaigongzuoshangfeichangxinku，keyoubunenghesheijiang，suoyitamenkewangwomengenghao，jibianbushiwangzichenglong、wangnvchengfeng，fumuyexiwangwomenqingchuyulan，buyaoxiangtamenyiyang。

四、不抱怨父母迟缓

 nianjidale，xingdongziranbubian，yongyuanbuyaoxianqifumuxingdongchihuan，yinweiwomenyongyuanxiangxiangbuchuwomenxiaodeshihoutamenshiruhenaixindijiaowomenzoulu。fumunianqingshi，kenengbiwomenhaiyiqifengfa！shiweiwomen，fumucaileiwanleyao。ruguoyouyitian，fumuyibianlao，tuijiaolisuobule，womenyaoqieji：kanfumujiushikanzijideweilai，xiaoshunyidingyaojishi。

五、不抱怨父母生病

 buguanfumuduomang，buguanbaitianheiye、xiayuguafeng，womenyishengbing，tamenmashanghuifangxiashoutoumangdebukekaijiaodeyiqie，ganjinzhewodaimenqukanbing，cheyebumiandiaihuwomen。

当父母生病了，我们不能抱怨父母，更要悉心照顾父母，给父母好的医疗条件，让父母身体早日康复才是我们孝顺、报答父母的体现。