如何面对一再伤害自己的父母？

　　laogongmanzubulechuguinengbeiyuanliangma，zairichangshenghuozhong，yigechangjiandexianxiangshidanglaogongbunengmanzuhunyinzhongdeyixieyaoqiushi，nengfouyuanliangchuguixingwei。zheiyinqilezhuduoyiyiyusikao。zaizheigewentizhong，henduorenhuiweiraojiazhiguannian、aiqingniudaijiqiduilingyibandeqidaijinxingsikaoyutantao。danshi，nengfouyuanliangchuguixingweizaiyugerendesanguanyuduihunyinderenzhi，zheiyeshidezheigewentibingmeiyoumingquedehuida。

　　hunyinshiyiduanbixuweichiyujingyingzhijiandeguanxi，erwaiyunantitongchangshihunyinzuijuyoupohuaixingshiqingzhiyi。danshi，danglaogongbunengmanzuhunyinzhongdeyixieyaoqiushi，nengfouyuanliangchuguixingweiyechengweitantaoguanzhudejiaodian。zheigewentiqianshedaozhuduofanzadeyaosu，baohanjiazhiguannian、qingxuniudai、xunqiudadao、renshengjiazhiguandeng。zaimianduizheigewentishi，renmentongchangyoubutongdekanfahexingwei。

　　针对人生价值观冲击

　　laogongmanzubulechuguinengbeiyuanliangma，bulunshinanshihaishinvsheng，zhongchengshihunyindezhongyaoqianti，erchuguixingweizebijiaoyanzhongweifanlezheigeguilv。duiyuyixiereneryan，zhongshihechengshishouxinshiweichihunyindebukequeshaodeyaosu，erqietamenjuedechuguixingweishihennanyuanliangdepanbian。eryouderenzeyoukenengjuede，ruguonanfangbunengmanzuhunyinzhongdeyixieyaoqiu，tamenyexuhuixunqiubiedefangshilaihuoquchengjiugan。zheileibutongleixingderenshengjiazhiguanqujueyudajiazhenduiyuanliangchuguixingweinengliyuyixiang。

　　情绪纽带韧性与薄厚

　　hunyinlideqingxuniudaishiliangrengoujianqiderenke、qinmiwujianhechuanqizhifuchengxu。danglaogongbunengmanzuyixieyaoqiushi，zheileiqingxuniudaihenrongyishoudaobijiaoyanzhongchongji。youderenkenenghuidaowaiyuzhongxunqiudadao，erlingyixierenzeyoukenengtiaoxuangenjugoutongyutanxunjiejuefangfalaiweichihunyin。hunyinzhongqingxuniudaiderenxinghebohoubudanzaiyugerendexinliyaoqiu，qujueyubiciyuanbuyuanyigongtongfendoulaixiubuliekaizhijiandeguanxi。

　　寻求达到与婚姻义务

　　yigechenggongdehunyinbixubicizhijiandenuliyufangqi。dangyigerenbunengconglingyibanneilihuodedadaoshi，tamenkenengmianlinzhexunqiumanzuyinyou。zheishihou，yingduichuguixingweinengbunengbeiyuanliang，bixuhenglianggerendebenxinghehunyindezhize。zaizheigewentishang，youderenwangwanghuixuanzexiaochuhunyinguanlian，erlingyixierenzeyoukenengtiaoxuanxunqiuhunyinzixunguwenjizhuanyexinlizixunshidezhichi，laixunqiuzuiheshidejiejuefangfa。

　　重新思考婚姻理念和期待

　　zhenduichuguixingweinengbunengbeiyuanliang，zuizhuyaodehuoxushizhongxinsikaohunyindesixiangheqidai。meiyigehunyinzhongdoucunzaibutongdexuqiuheqidai，danshibingbuyiweizheyidingyaotongguochuguixingweilaixunqiudadao。zhongxinshenshihejiaoliuhunyindexuqiu，nenggoubangzhubicigenghaodilejielingyifangdeqidai，bingtanxungengjiankangdejiejuefangfa。

　　laogongmanzubulechuguinengbeiyuanliangma，yiner，zhenduizhangfumeifamanzuyaoqiuerchuxianchuguixingweikeyuanliangxing，meifajiandandejichuyigetongyidehuida。meiyigerenqingkuangjichulifangfadouyousuobutong，bixuchongfenkaolvduozhongyinsu，baohanrenshengjiazhiguan、qingxuniudai、xunqiudadaohehunyinyiwudeng。dangmianduizheigewentishi，tiyibicijinxingzhenchengdejiaoliu，xunqiujishuzhuanyexiezhu，bingqiezailizhiheqingganshangzuochumingzhidexuanzeguanlijuece，yibaozhanghunyinxingfuzhangqiwending。