如何挽回男人的心

 zaiqingganwentishang，nanrentongchangdoushi“yigenzhichangzitongdaodi”，meiyounvrenneimeduodexiangfa，danshiyaoxiangzhuazhunanrendexinkejiubuneimejiandanle，ruhewanhuinanrendexinchenglewenti。youqishineigenanrenyijingsiguoyicixinzhihou，yinweinanrenyidanjuedingyaofangshoule，neimetadexinjibenjiusile。danshi wanhuinanren dexinyebushibukenengde，zhiyaoninengzhuazhubenzhi，congshencengjiejuewenti，neimenanrenchizaohuizaicibaidaozainideshiliuqunxia。ruhewanhuinanrenni？

一、给男人一点空间

 ruhewanhuinanren？buguannineixinyouduokewangyutafuhe，yidingyaojinanrenzugoudechuanqideshijianhekongjian。biejitadadianhua、faduanxin，rangtaxianlengjingyixia，zaizheiduanshijianli，niyekeyixiangqingchu，nidaodishibushizhendexianghetazaiyiqi，haishiyinweitaiyilai，zaineizhiqian，xiandengdengba。ruhewanhuiyigenanren?

 rangzijichenjinzaizijideaihaoshang，meishijianzuodeshi，yongzheigeshijianlaizuoba。ruguoniqiannanyoulianxinile，jiushiwanhuitadehaoshijilaile。

zhuomobudingduifangxinlidaodizaixiangshenme?

二、有错就改

 xiangyaomibuyigecuowu，diyibujiushiyaozhidaonicuozainali，ranhouqugaizhengcuowu。fenxiyixianimendeganqing，xiangxiangshenmeshihounimendeganqingkaishixiahua、maodunshiheshichanshengde、niyouzuocuoleshenme……ranhouwenwenzijiyuanbuyuanyiquwanhuizheifenganqing。ruguonixiangchenggong，jizhu，nidedongdetuoxiehegaibian。

 rangnanrenxinruan，nikendingyounidebanfa，bijingnilejieneigenanren，sajiaodahun、yuqinguzongdengdeng，youyidianxuyaozhuyi，ruguonanrenduinidemouzhongxingweichanshengyanjuan，yidingyaojianjixingshi，diandaoweizhi。

三、保持乐观积极的心态

 ruhewanhuinanrendexin？jizijiyidianxinxin，yexutahaishihenxihuanni，danaiyugezhongqingkuangtameinengtachudiyibu。wulunshidadianhuashi，haishihetashuoxieshenme，douyaobaochijijidetaidu，sheiyebuxiangheyigejuewangderenzaiyiqi，tebieshidangnimenfenshoutaijiushi。xianzaibushitaolunnimenfenshoutongkudeshihou。ruguonimenlianggekaishibiandeganga，neimezhaogejiekoulikaiba。nihetazaiyiqideshijianyuezhang，zaochengdeshanghaijiuyueda。jinguannixianzaiyoujihuihetafuhe，niyaozuodehaiyouhenduonei。

四、对男人给予肯定

 ruhewanhuiyigenanren？dangnimenzhijiandeguanxishaoweiyouxiehuizhuanzhihou，niyaozuodejiushinengzhenzhengliuzhutadexin，dedaonanrendeyilaihenzhongyao。nanrenxihuanbaxiangfazangzaizijixinli，danshitongshiyoukewangtasuozuosuoxiangnengyinqibierendegongming，youqishiduitalaishuozuizhongyaoderen。ruhewanhuinanrendexin？wulungongzuo、yundonghaishiqitaxingquaihao，qingwutiaojiandizhichita，jishinibutaidonghuozhenibingbuganxingqu，zheixiedounengrangtajizaixinli，bingqiemeicihuiyiqidouxinshengnuanyi。nanrenxuyaodebushiwusuobunengdenvjingang，ershikeyizaizijishenhoumomozhichizijidexiaonvren，taxuyaodebushiniweitazuoduoshao，ershininengzaitaxuyaodeshihoujitaanweihexinxin。nisuoyouzhichitadebujingyidexiaojudongduinanrenlaishuodoushimodadeguwu。

 ruhewanhuinanrendexin？womensuoyourenjiguanxidehudongdouhuiyouqifendecunzai，wulunshiduiqinpenghaoyou，jiaren，huolingyiban。erdangwomenheduifangdehudonggaibiandeshihou，shenmayehuigenzhegaibian？neijiushiqifen。huanjuhuashuo，nizhiyaonenggougaibianqifen，womenjiunenggaibianheduifangdeguanxi。zheishihoujiuhuiyouyigekunnanchuxian，neijiushicong“yaoruhecainenggaibianqifen？”。danjuedaduoshudenvrenbuzhidaozenmazuodeqishibingbushibuzhidaoruhegaibian，xiangfande，ershi“xiangyicijiurangqifenwanquangaibian”。huanjuhuashuo，yikaishixiwangbiandefeichangtianmi，yikaishijiuxiwangzhongxinxiangrelianyiyang，yikaishijiuxiangranglianggerenzaifenxiangneixindeshiwu；danzheidouheyikaishixiangyaopanyanzhumulangmafengyiyang，bushibukeneng，ershiduiwuquefajingyandereneryanhuizhixingkunnan。

 suoyilejie “zhuanleidian” zhenzhengdeyisijiushi，xuexirangzijikeyi?ruhewanhuiyigenanren？“yibuyibuqiezhashidelajinshuangfangdeguanxi”，neizuihoubirannenggoudaodanisuoxiwangdaodademude，rangtazaibuzhibujuedeqingkuangxia，shilianggerendeganqingzhongxinfuhebingwanhuichenggong。