筛选好男人：为什么要跟成熟稳重的男人结婚？

　　nanrenchuguihouhaihuipengyuanpeima，zaixianshishenghuozhong，nanrenchuguizhihoushibushihaihuipengyuanpeichengweiyigeyinrenzhuyitaolundehuati。zheizhongqingkuangqianshedaonanrendepinxing、yuanpeidejieshouchengdu、jiatingfenweidengduogeyaosu。yixienanrenhenyoukenengtiaoxuanbeichiyuanpei，tansuoxindeguanlian，erlingyixiezetiaoxuanfanhuiyuanpeishenpang，kaizhansikaoyuwanliu。buguanjieguoruhe，zaizheijianshiqingshang，meiyigenanrenyouzhebutongdexuanzeyuqueding，nvshengmenyexuzaiyudaozheiyangdeqingkuangshi，zuochuziyidexuanze。

　　jianshu：nanrenchuguizhihoudetiaoxuan：shibushizaicixunzhaojiechuyuanpei？

　　探索心理状态：外遇所导致的心理冲突

　　nanrenchuguihouhaihuipengyuanpeima，nanrenchuguizhihou，xinlijingchanghuixianrumaodunyuchongtu。yifangmian，tamenyexuduiyuanpeizaochengneijiugan，qidaiwanliuyuanxiandeguanlian；lingyifangmian，waiyuyerangdajiajuedexinxiandecijixing，guanyuxinguanlianchanshengyilai。zheileineixinzhengzhacushinanrenzaizaijuedingshifouzaicijiechuyuanpeishikunhuobuyi。

　　原配的接受程度：接受与抗拒的两难选择

　　yuanpeidangfaxiannanrenchuguizhihou，henyoukenengyouzhebutongdefanying。youyixieyuanpeitiaoxuanlikeliqu，zhanduanyiqieguanlian；erlingyixieyuanpeizenenggoujieshounanrendezhiqianziwogaibian。buguanyuanpeixuanzeshenmeyangdefangfa，dounengjinanrenzaicijiechuyuanpeichanshenghendadeyalihemocazuli。

　　引诱与后悔莫及：外遇代价思索

　　nanrenquyuzaicijiechuyuanpeiyiqian，kenengqinshenjingliyiduanshijiandesikao。tamenkaishikaolvwaiyudailaideshanghai、sunhaiyuchengben。zaiyouhuoyanqian，nanrenhenyoukenenghouhuimojiyiqianpanbianyuanpei，qipanzaicixiubuyuyuanpeizhijiandeguanxi。

　　挽留与信任：怎样复建关联

　　xuyaozhongxinjiechuyuanpei，nanrenbixuzuochuzhenzhengdegaibianyunuli，yizhengmingzijichengxinhexiangyaofuhedexinxin。zhongjianxinrenshiyigejiankudequanguocheng，xuyaoyiduanshijian、reqinghebicizhijiandegongtongfendou。weiyoutongguozhenzhengdegaibianhexiufuxinlai，nanrencaiyoukenengzaicijiechuyuyuanpeijianlilianxi。

　　做出挑选：再次接触与自由选择的权力

　　zuihou，nanrenshibushizaicijiechuyuanpeizaiyutamenziyidequeding。zheigexuanzeyingdangdoushijiyuduizijiderenzhi、duiyuanpeidezunzhong、duilianxidezhenxiheduiweilaidesikao。meiyigenanrendouyingshensishulv，kaolvdaobenshendexinyuanhexianshishenghuodezhuangkuang，zuochuduizishenheyuanpeiyouliangjuece。

　　nanrenchuguihouhaihuipengyuanpeima，zainanrenchuguizhihoushibushizaicijiechuyuanpeizheijianshishang，meiyoudaan。meiyigezhuangkuangquanshiyuzhongbutongde，zaiyunanrendexinling、yuanpeidejieshouduhebiciyuanbuyuanyiweifujianguanlianqinfen。zuihou，jinyounanrenmenqujienazijidetiaoxuan，bingweitamenchengdanhouguo。