如何判断男友是不是尸化了？还有挽回的必要吗？

　　nanrenduilaopotebiehaoweishahaichugui，zaihunyinguanxili，henduorendouhuiyudaoyigelingrenkunhuodezhuangkuang：weiheyixienanrenzaiduidaizijiqizishifenwaihao，queyiranhuichugui？zheizhongqingkuangkunraozhehenduoren，yinqileduihunyinmanyidudetansuo。yexu，zheizhongqingkuangshencengyuanyinbingburongyi。yexu，nanrenduiqizidetebiehao，zhishiyizhongzhegaibenshenxinlibumanyidefangfa。hunyinlideyixiliewenti，bulunshigoutongbudaoweihuoshifuqishenghuodejiandan，douhuibianchengnanrenbuzhongdedaohuoxian。xijiuzheiyixianxiangbixuzonghexinggezhongyinsulaizhankaifenxiyusikao，congergenghaodimingbaiweishenmenanrenduilaopotebiehaoquehaishihuichugui。

　　爱和内心的欲望纠缠不清

　　nanrenduilaopotebiehaoweishahaichugui，zairenmenguanxili，hunyinshiyizhongteshudeqingganniudai，daibiaolelianggerenfuwuchengnuoyuzeren。danshi，jibiannanrenduizishendeqizihehubeizhiheguanhuai，yiranyouyixierenbukedidangyouhuo，panbianhunyin。zheizhongqingkuangrangrenkunhuo：weihenanrenduiqizitebiehao，quehaishihuichugui？yexuhuidaqianzangzaiaiheneixindeyuwangjiuchanbuqingdangzhong。

　　hunyinrichangshenghuotongguoshijiandetuiyi，yibandouhuixianruyizhongwendingxinghepingdanderizili，bicijianjianxiguanlebicizhijiandecunyou。zheileiwendingganhepingpingdandancushinanrenduiqizitebiehaodongjibeicongqiandereqingsuoxiaochu。wenwan、guanaihetiexinkanqilaijiyuqizinongnongdeaiyi，danxinzhongdeyuwanghuoxuhaimeiyouwanquandedaomanzu。

　　内心对随心所欲的期盼

　　jibiannanrenduiqizitebiehao，tamenyoudulizizhudejingshenshijiehexiangwangziyoudexiangwang。hunyinduiyuyixierendaibiaozhedandanghejushu，tamenduiyuziyoutantaodekewangkenenghuizaimouyishikechaoguoduihunyinchengnuo。zheizhongnanrenyexuhuitansuoxindedecijitanxian，zhiqiudadaoneixinshenchudewuqiongchongdong。

　　jiehunhoushenghuozhongdeyaliyuzerenyeyoukenengrangnanrenjuedeyayipibei。tamenyexiwangnengtuolixianshi，tanxunyizhongzhongshixinxindenengliang。chuguiyexujitayizhongjietuogan，yizhongtaochujushudexingshi，buguozheizhongfangshiweidaoyishangshicuowude。

　　身份认同的实践探索

　　suirannanrenduiqizitebiehao，danyixierenmenzaihunyinzhonghuishiquleshenfenrentongheyouyuegan。tajiangzhongxindianchedifangdaoqizideshenshang，xiangqitouruquanbuxiangfa。danshi，zheileiguoduguanxinkenenghuizhishizijineixinbeihushiheyayigan。zaizheiyangdeqingkuangxia，takenenghuizhudonghuobuyouzizhudexunzhaowaibuhaowuyiwenjili，genjuchuguilaizhaohuizijizhenshidecunzaigan。

　　欠缺婚姻沟通与夫妻生活的难题

　　hunyinlidegoutongyuxingshenghuoshiweichifuqiganqingdeguanjianyinsu。jibiannanrenduiqizitebiehao，ruzaihunyinshangcunzaigoutongbudaoweihuofuqishenghuodejiandannanti，yejianghuichengweichuguidefabingyuanyin。goutongbudaoweikenengzaochengxianghuzhijianjiedihewuhui，erfuqishenghuodejiandanhenyoukenengbunengmanzunanrendexinlingchongdong。gezhongwentikenenghuiyinqinanrenzaixunzhaodadaohoudechuguigerenxingwei。

　　外界引诱和人性的弱点

　　jibiannanrenduiqizitebiehao，tamenjiuhuishoudaowaijieyouhuoyinyou。ouyuyigelingtamenxinyideren，kuaguolehunyindejiexian，chengweiwomendidangbuzhuyouhuo。renxingdeyoudiancushiyixienanrenmeifadidangwaibuyinyouyuduilequdeqipan。

　　nanrenduilaopotebiehaoweishahaichugui，zongdelaishuo，nanrenduiqizitebiehaoquehaishichuguideqingkuang，budanlaiyuanyuhunyinshenghuozhongdepingpingdandanyuxinlichongdongzhemo，haiheshenfenrentongdeshijiantansuo、qianquehunyingoutongyufuqishenghuodenanti，jiqiwaijieyinyouherenxingderuodianxixixiangguan。lejiezheiyixianxiang，bixuduihunyinganqingzhongdehaojigeyaosukaizhanshendusikaoyufenxi，jinerxiufuhunyindeliefeng，chuangzaogengwendingdehunyinguanxi。