脱单困惑：如何吸引带剪子特质的男生？

　　dangyigenanrenzhujianliulianyuyouhuodeshenyuan，yucitongshixinliyunzangzhezaodongbuanhedadongdechongdong，tajiuchengleyigedengdaichuguidenanren。yanqianzheigenanrenyexuzaibiaomianshangyiranbaochizheyiyoudeguanlian，danneixinquexianqilebolan。tabuxiaodeshifounengdikangdezhuyouhuo，yebuzhishifounengshouweihaozijifuwuchengnuo。neijiuyumangranjiaocuo，tajiukaishitansuozhezijineixindejiexian，changshizhaodaoyizhongjunheng。zaidengdaiwaiyudewoxuanzhong，yanqianzheigenanrenkenengmianlinyigequeding，buguanxuanzeshenmeyangde，tadeshenghuoyejiangbuhuizaihaosiguoqu，jiusuanjinjinzhishineixindefanzazaoyizugougaibianyiqie。

　　尘世迷茫

　　meiyigerenneixindoushiyouyizuomigong，erdengdaichuguidenanrendeneixinzegengweifuzaduobian。tahuoxuyongyouyigewenxindejia，yigeduitahaoyidiandelaopo，danshiyingduiwaibudeyouhuo，tajinbuzhuzhujianchanshengleyixieruoyinruoxianhuanxiang。taxianshizaiyinanchuguancha、momodisisuo，changshixunzhaoneixindezhenshiyaoqiu。tadeneixinzaiwushengdengdaizhongjinqingzhanfangweiruoliehuo，jianjiandidiaoxiezhezijimuqiandezhigu。

　　分歧与愧疚

　　suizheshijiantuiyi，dengdaichuguidenanrendeneixinkaishibiandefenqixiaqu。tadeyuwangyiwuqianchezheziji，bukeyitasuibianxiajuexin。tajiukaishichiyi、tongchu，changshizaineixindejiazhiguanjiujiezhongzhaodaoyizhongjunhengdian。kuijiuqingxuchixujiashen，duilaopo、duijiarendeneijiuganyingmianerlai，haoxiangyibajianruixiaodaogetongzhetashengming。danshi，tahaishiwufacongneixinzuishenchusheqidiaoneisimeifamomiedexiangwang。

　　探索与诱惑

　　dengdaichuguidenanrenchangshitansuozishenneixindejiexian，changshixunzhaozuizhenshideziji。tayexuhuijijiyuyouhuocashenerguo，yuqitanvrentanxunyizhongcijixingkuaigan。zheiyiguochengmimanzheyuwangdehuohuahexinlingshenchudekunjing。tayishibeiyouhuoshehun，yishiyebeikuijiulakai。danbuguanshidadaomanzuhuoshirenshoutongku，taxinlizonghuiyouyisiduixianzhuangbumandeqingxu，shitazhujianbikaiyuanxiandeshenghuoyundongguiji。

　　挣脱与确定

　　zaidengdaiwaiyudewoxuanzhong，nanshengzhongjiuhuiyinglaiyigeguanjianxingdequeding。taxuyaozaineixindejiujiezhongjuedingzijidezhengquefangxiang。jiushixuanzeshouweifuwuchengnuoyujiating，fujianheqizijiandehunyinguanxi，haishixuanzhuiqiuneixindechongdong，yihuanquneixindeningjinghuocijixing？zheigexuanzejiangchudongtaweilaidemingyun。buguanzenyang，tadeshenghuoyejiangbuhuizairucongqian，buguanxuanlenazhonglumian，wulunzenyangdewaiyuhuoweichizhongshi，doujianghuiduitadejiatinggenzijidaozhibukeguliangchanshengdeyingxiang。

　　人生的转折

　　dangdengdaichuguidenanrenzuochujuedinghou，tadeshenghuojiangyinglaiyigedazhuanzhe。buguantaxuanzenaxie，tayejiangyibubudiqumianduiheyingduiquanbutiaoxuansuozaochengdehouguo。tayexugaiguozixin，zaicitourudaolejiatingli，qinfenxiubuyindengdaiwaiyueryinqidesunhai；yihuoshitayexutiaoxuanxunmineixindechongdong，kaoyanhejieshouwaijieyouhuodeyouhuo。buguanzenyang，zheiyizhuanzhedianjiangshenshenjuedingzherenshengdeguijiyutaneixindefazhan。

　　不管怎样的变化

　　dengdaichuguidenanrenshijinleyiduandiedangqifulvcheng。buguanzuihoutashibushiwaiyu，zheiyiduanlvtuyejiangyinqitaneixinqianghandezhuanxing。tahuirenshidaozijideyuwangrenxingdefuzaxing。tahuigaoqingchudandanghesuixinsuoyudechuantongyiyi。erzheixiejingli，huiyongyuanchengweilechengzhangyuyouzhihuideyibufen。

　　buguanxuanyongnazhonglumian，dengdaichuguidenanrenshibihuizaodaoneixindejiujiehechongjixing。danshi，zheishitachupengzishen、lejiezhenshijiyu。weiyoutongguoyingduineixindemimanghedouzheng，tacainengzuodaozhenzhengchengzhangyuzhaodaozijidejiandingfangxiang。