导致夫妻离婚的不是第三者，而是这个！

　　weishenmenanrenchuguiyoudiyicijiuyoudierci？zheizhongqingkuangtansuozhenanshichuguiqibeihoudegenbenyuanyin。congshehuiwenhuahuanjingyali、benrenyuwangdeposhi、qingganquebudadao，zaicongrenxingdeyoudian，zhongzhongyinsuxiangfuxiangcheng，xingchenglenanrenchuguidefuzaxinlijingxiang。diyicidewaiyutongchangshiyicicuowudejueding，danshiquechudongleyizhongwuxingzhongzhongyaoxiansuo，jilizhezijizaidufancuowu。yinci，dangdiyicichuguibeijieduweiweisuoyuweideliyoushi，nanrenzaicichuguihaoxiangbianchenglemouleibiding。

　　nanrenchuguidexianxiangyigefuzaqiebaoshouzhengyitaolundehuati，gegeshilidoushiyoudutedezhuangkuangbeijing。danshi，weishenmenanrenchuguiyoudiyicijiuyoudiercizheiyixianxiang，nenggoucongbutongjiaodushenrusikaohejieshi。

　　家庭与社会工作压力：

　　jiatingyushehuigongzuoyalinenggoujinanrenchanshenghendadeyaliheyali，qushizheixierenzairichangrichangshenghuozhongxunzhaoyizhongduobidexingshi。diyicichuguikenengshitamenduigongzuoyalidehuifu，yizhongshenxinfangsongbaituodebanfa。danshi，zheileiduobidejudongkenengchanshengyizhongxiguan，chanshengyanzhonghouguo。zaihunyinshenghuozhong，sangshireqinghehunyinguanxi，yejianghuichengweinanrenchuguidefabingyuanyin。jinguandiyicichuguikenengshiyishichongdong，dandierciwaiyukenengshixunzhaoyuhunyinliqianquedehunyinguanxi。

　　本人欲望和奢靡之风：

　　nanrenchuguidelingyigezhuyaoyuanyinshibenrenyuwangheshemizhifengdeposhi。diyicichuguikenengshiweilenengmanzuzijiyuwangbingxiangshoushenmigan。yidanmanzuzheileiyuwang，takenenghuiduizheiyangdecijixingweishangyin，gandaoyishidedadao，dansuihouyouzhujiansangshichengjiugan。yinci，tamenzaicixunzhaogengduotanxianhefangsong，zaochengdiercihuozhegengduociwaiyu。

　　情感却不达到：

　　qingganquebudadaodoushinanrenchuguideyigezhongyaoyuanyin。hunyinshenghuohuoqinglvguanxilideqianqueqingganzhijiandehudongbingmanzu，kenenghuishinanrenjuedebunengmanzu。diyicichuguitongchangshiduizheiyangdeqingganquefadefanying，tamenqipandedaogengduoguanzhuyuai。danshi，dangdiyicichuguibeiyuanlianghuojienahou，tamenkenengjuedenenggoushunlijinxingxiangsidegerenxingweiqiebujieshouchengfa，congerchanshengledierciwaiyudexiangfa。

　　人性的优点：

　　zuizhong，nanrenchuguiyoudiyicijiuhuiyoudiercideqingkuanghaikeyiguinaweirenxingdeyoudian。renmenyoushihuixianruyinyou，nanyikangjuwaibudeyinyou。diyicichuguishi，tamenyinggaimeiyoujiangudaobuliangyingxiang，danyidanchangdaoweifandaodeciji，nanyizhongzhi。yiner，diyicichuguibianchengletamenduiyouhuodakai，nanyizibadeexunhuan。

　　weishenmenanrenchuguiyoudiyicijiuyoudierci，zongdelaishuo，nanrenchuguiyoudiyicijiuhuiyoudiercideqingkuangnengcongjiatingyushehuigongzuoyali、benrenyuwangheshemizhifeng、qingganquebudadaojiqirenxingdeyoudiandenggegefangmianzuochujieshi。zhangwozheixieyinsunengbangzhuwomengenghaodilejienanrenchuguidexinlidongji，bingxunzhaofangfanhejiejuedebanfa，jinerdajiangengchijiuyujiankangdehunlianguanxi。