大男子主义男生的表现

　　nanrenduojiuyanjuanchuguiduixiang，zheishiyigeyinrenzhuyitaolundehuati。dajiadouzhidao，nanrenzaihunyinshenghuohuoqinglvguanxizhongchangchangfashengchuguidexianxiang。danshi，tamenduichuguiduixiangyouyouduojiudebuduanxingquaihaoni？zheishiyigeshenrufenxinanshigerenxingweixinlishangdenanti。genjuduinanrenshenglixue、xinlizhuangtaijiqishehuihuanjingyinsudequanmianfenxi，yexunenggenghaodilejienanrenzaigoutongjiaoliulidedongyinhexingwei。yiner，tansuonanrenduojiuyanjuanchuguiduixiangzhenduilejienanrenxinliheweihushehuiwendingdejiatingguanxijuyouzhongyaodeshijiyiyi。

　　男人的出轨：从新鲜的到疲倦

　　nanrenduojiuyanjuanchuguiduixiang，zheiyihuatiyinqirenmenduinanshigerenxingweixinlishangdetaolun。chuguigerenxingweizhenduiairenyujiatingdailaideshanghaixianeryijian，yinerlejienanrenchuguidongjiheyanxushijianyouliyufangfanheweihushehuiwendingdejiatingguanxi。congshehuixinlixue、shehuixinlixueheshengwuxueshijiao，nenggoujielunanrenchuguideyuanyinjishijiandebianhua。

　　追求刺激：乐趣的引诱

　　yikaishi，nanrenzhenduichuguiduixiangchongmanzheshenmigan。zheileiqiteyucijideyouxirongherangtamengandaomanyibingmanzu。zaiganqinghuolianghaogoutongzhong，richangshenghuoyuelaiyuepingdanfawei，erwaibudeyinyourangtamenrenbuzhuyaozhaodaoxindecijixing。zheishihou，nanrenzhenduichuguiduixiangchongmanhaoqixinxinyuxingquaihao，tongchangwufakangju。

　　自尊心的达到：追寻外在美认同

　　mouxieqingkuangxia，nanrenchuguiqishishiweilemanzuzijiaimuxurong。genjuyuqitayouxiyinlideduixiangzaiyiqi，tamenkeyihuodewaibuderentonghekuazan。zheileiwaizaihaowuyiwenzhenduinanreneryanjuyouyidingdexiyinli，shitamengengyuanyichixuzhaodaoxindechuguiduixianglaimanzuzijixurongxin。

　　满意度的降低：对情感上的疲倦

　　danshi，suizheshijiantuiyi，nanrenzhenduichuguiduixiangdereqingtongchanghuimanmanpijuan。qianqixinxianganxiaoshizhihou，tamenyijingyishidaochuguigerenxingweisuozaochengdehouguohejiatingguanxidesunhai。yesuizhierlaineixinshenchudewentiduizishenweifaxingweidesikao，zheishidetademanyiduzhujianxiajiang。

　　情感上的变化：重返相对稳定的冲动

　　suizheshijiantuiyi，nanrenzhenduichuguiduixiangdeyanjuanganzhubujiazhong。tamenyijingyishidaojiatingdezhongyaoxingjiqiyuairensuochuangjiandeqingganniudai。zheishihou，tamenqipanfanhuixiangduiwendingdehunlianguanxizhong，zaicitanxunwennuanyuguishugan。xinlidegaibianposhitamenshenzhongkaolvtamendexingwei，zaicitourudaolebaoguidehunyinshenghuohuoqinglvguanxizhong。

　　怎样改变：沟通交流与信任的改造

　　zhenduinanrenduojiuyanjuanchuguiduixiangwenti，bingmeiyougudingshijianshihesuoyouren。danshi，womentongguoxietongpeiheherenkelaijiangdichuguidegailv。fufuhuoairenzhongjianxuyaobaochiyouxiaodegoutong，lijibiaoshubicizhijiandeyaoqiuheguanzhu。chucizhiwai，chuangjianzhashidexinlaijiben，tishenghuxiangjiandelijieyuzhichi，yekeyiyouxiaofangzhichuguiweifaxingweidechansheng。

　　zaifenxi，nanrenduojiuyanjuanchuguiduixiangshiyigefuzawenti，qianshedaoxinlizhuangtai、shehuifazhanshengwuhehuaxuehaojigefangmiandeyaosu。zhangwonanrenchuguidongjiheyanxushijian，zhenduiweihushehuiwendingdejiatingguanxiyouweizhongyao。genjuxietongpeihe、lajinguanxihouzhongxintourudaolehunlianguanxizhong，nanrenyoukenenghuixunzhaopingwenbingmanzu，congerjiangdichuguifengxian。