男人不负责任的七宗罪

　　dangnanrenchuguihou，yixieguaiyidexinlitezhengzhujianxianxianchulai。takaishitaobiheraokaiyuqizideqinmijiechu，weixiaodejiechuhexiangyongbianchengmoshengshier。zheixiebianhuabudanlingqizijuedeshiwangyutongku，yebiaodachuhunyinlidebuquedingyinsu。nanrenchuguihoubuxiangpenglaopo，shenhouyunzangzhefuzadeqinggan、maodunheneixindeyuwangdanxin。zheizhongzuofatixianlenanrenneixinshenchudezhengtuoyuduihunyindemangran，bixushencengcidesikaoyugoutongjiaoliuqujiejuezheiyijiongjing。

　　丧失触及的婚姻：男人出轨后冷淡

　　zaiyiduanhunyinzhong，qinmijiechushiweichifuqiganqingdeqiaoliang。danshi，dangnanrenchuguihou，yizhonglengdandezhuangkuangkaishixianxian。tasihuguibileyuqizideshentijiechu，buhuizaixiangyaogentaqinmiwujiandijiechu。“nanrenchuguihoubuxiangpenglaopo”zheiyixianxiang，yinqilezhuduowentihecaixiang，ershenhouyinzangyuanguhenzhideshenrufenxi。

　　冲动的困扰：外遇的诱惑

　　nanrenchuguidezhuyaoyuanyinbujinxiangtong，danqizhongyigepubiandeyuanyinshiyinweiwaiyudeyouhuo。dangtamenchenniyuxindelianaiguanlianlishi，jingchanghuirangbenlaihunyinlideqinmiwujianjiechuzaochengpaichi。duiyutameneryan，qinmideguanxishentijiechukenenghuizaochengneixinshenchudewentineijiugan，yinweineidaibiaozheduiqizidepanbian。yiner，taxuanzeraokaizheileichupeng，changshiqingchuneixinshenchudefuzuigan。

　　情感上的裂缝：婚姻里的不满意和困惑

　　nanrenchuguihoubuxiangpenglaopo，yeyoukenengtixianlehunyincunzaidewentihebumanyi。hunyinlidezhengzhi、goutongbudaowei、qianquenongnongdeaiyianshizhedeng，douyoukenengdaozhitamenduiyuqizizaochengbumanqingxu。zaitamenchuguizhihou，zheileipaichikenengchixucunzai，shitamenbuyuanzaiyuqizichanshengqinmijiechu。zheizhongjushibixufuqiliangrengongtongfendouquzhaodaowentidebenzhi，zaicigoujianqiqinmiwujianherenke。

　　自身掩盖的心态：推卸责任与疑惑

　　youyixienanrenchuguihoubuxiangpenglaopodelengkugerenxingwei，yeyoukenengshichuziyuyizhongbaohuyishihetuixiezerendexintai。tamenyexujuedeneixinshenchudeyihuoshenghuozhongdemaodun，buzhidaogairuheyingduihunyinzhongcunzaidewentihebuliangyingxiang。buyaoheqiziqinmijiechu，nenggouweiqitigongyizhongyangaiheduobidexingshi，wuxuyingduiqizidezhiyiyutongku。danshi，zheizhongzuofajinjinduanzanxingdeduobi，meifazhenzhenzhengzhengchuliwenti，fanerhuiranghunyinmaixianggengweiliekaibianyuan。

　　创建交流和重建信任：修补破损的婚姻

　　yingduinanrenchuguihoubuxiangpenglaopowenti，fuqiliangrenbixunuliquchuangjianyouxiaogoutongfangshi。lingtingduifangdexinshengyuxuqiu，lejiebicizhijiandeyihuoyutongku，cainengfaxianjiejuewentidebanfa。yucitongshi，zhongjianxinrendoushihunyinxiubudeguanjiansuozai。genjuxianghuzhijiantigongzhichihetiexin，fujianqihunyinlideqinmiwujianhewennuan，caikeyirangnanrenzaicixiangyaoyuqizichanshengqinmijiechu，chuangzaoyigegengweiwendinghexingfukuailedehunyinguanlian。

　　buguannanrenweishenmewaiyu，chuguizhihoubuyuanpenglaopodeqingkuangquanshihunyinlideyidaonanti。ruoxiangjiejuezheixiewenti，dajiaxuyaogengduolejie、baorongyuxixin，bingtongguogoutongjiaoliuherenkedegaizao，weihunyinzhuruxindehuoliyuqinmiwujian。weiyouruci，cainengzhenzhengdezaicizhaohuishiqudejiechu，weihunyinchanshengmeihaodemingtian。