男友的前任骚扰不断，我该如何挽回爱情？

　　benwenjiangtaolunchuguinanrendewujushihua，jielutamenyanzangzaishijimianjuxiadeneixinxiangfayuqinggan。genjuquelibiaoshuchuguinanrendeneixinwentitiaoxuan，womenjiangyaoshenrufenxitamenduiaiqingdetaidu、zerenxindequefa，yijiduiyubanlvyujiatingzaochengdeshanghai。tongguozheigezhenhuadelijie，womenjiangyaodedaoyigegengqingchudelejie，jiqiyingduizheiyixianxianghoudesikaoyuhuifu。

　　1. 内心的繁杂与挣脱

　　chuguinanrendeneixinjingchangchongmanzhefanzahezhengtuo。benlaianwendeshenghuoyuqingganfanbeiyizhongdidangbuzhuyouhuosuojinshi，rangtamenjuedewujikeshi。zheizhongnanshengyexurenweizhuiqiuyigexindecijixingnengmibuneixindekumen，danshijiezhongerlaihouhuimojihekuijiuyewufamomie。tamenmingbaiziyidebeipangerenxingweishibuzhengquede，danshiquebaituobulezheileimitudejiongjing，yinweitamenjingshenshangdefanzahejingshencengmiandezhengtuo。

　　2. 对伴侣的蒙骗与背叛

　　chuguinanrendeshuangzhongshenghuojingchangrangtamenmengpianzijidebanlv。zaibanlvmianqian，tamenyexubiaoxianchulezhongshihezhenchengdexintai，yuqishuogongtongdazaoxingfumeimandejiating。danshi，zaibeipangerenxingweichuxianhou，tamenhaishikaolvzaibanlvbeihouandilizhuiqiucijibingmanzu。zheileimengpianhebeipanjibanlvdailailejidadeshenglixinliqingxusunhai，rangzijidexinlaibeiwanquanhuihuai。

　　3. 不负责任的行为和不良影响

　　chuguinanrendebufuzerentongchangrangzheigejiatingshenxiancuoluan。haizidexingweibujinweihaizijiyubanlvzhijiandeguanxi，gengshangdaohaizichengzhanghemeihao。zheileibufuzerendetiaoxuanzengtianleyigejiatingdeliekaihetubengwajie，rangwuguzhefuchuguochenzhongdedaijia。chuguinanrenbixuyishidaole，haizidexingweibujinweihaizijideshenghuo，haiduitarendeshenghuozaochengzheshenkedeyingxiang。

　　4. 希望得到认知和宽容

　　chuguinanrenxinlijingchangwoxiwangninengdedaobanlvdelijiekuanrong，danshineiyangdeqidaibingfeiyishiwancheng。tamenmingbaizijidewenti，woxiwangninengwanliuzaoyiliekaizhijiandeguanxi，zaicigoujianqirentonghehemu。danshi，banlvyaomianduizishenneixindekuchuxingshanghai，zaicigoujianqishiqudedongxixinrenshiyiduanmanzhangjiankudequanguocheng。chuguinanrenbixumingbai，wanliuyiduanguanxijixuyaoyanyulidezhiqian，gengyaofuchujutidexingweilaizhongjianxinren。

　　5. 深层次思考与自我重塑

　　chuguinanrenbixuweizijidexingweijinxingquanfangweidesikao，jiqikaizhanziwozhongsu。taxuyaoyishidaozijiweifaxingweideyanzhongweihai，bingyicijiqujiaoxun。zheileisikaoyuziwozhongsuguochengshimanzhangbeishangde，danqueshifazhandeguanjian。chuguinanrenbixuchengdanqizijidezeren，zhongxinsikaozijidejiazhihexingweiguifan，caikeyizhongxinzhenzuoqilai，jienazijideyiwang，bingweilaizhanwanggengjiameihaodemingtian。

　　chuguinanrendewujushihuazhangxianletamenneixindezhengtuo、duibanlvdebeipan、bufuzerendejudongbuliangyingxiang、qipankuanronghelijiejiqishencengcisikaoyuziwozhongsudeyigeguocheng。zheiyixianxianggaojiewomen，rendebenxingyoushiyehuimitu，danshizhiyougenjurenqingziwogaibiancaikeyixiububeishanghaizhijiandeguanxi。