情感测试:你身边有多少人在暗恋着你?

　　zhenduinanrenchuguidexinlifenxi，changchanghuiyougezhongyinsujiaozhizaiyiqi。zaiqizhong，xinliqiangliebuman、duigerenjiazhidecaiyi、duixinxiandecijidekewang，yijiduiyulianxidebuwendinggandengdouhuichengweicujinyaosu。nanxingchuguixingweitongchangshiqingganxuqiuhewaibufabingyuanyinxiangfuxiangchengdedaodejieguo，suiranzheigenbenwufaxiangqigerenxingweijiyujiuzaidemiaoshu。yiner，lejienanrenchuguidexintaidongjijiqixiangguanyinsuzhenduiweihubaoyanghunyinhezhongjianxinrenyouweizhongyao。genjushenrufenxinanrenchuguidexinlifenxi，womenkeyigenghaodelejiezheiyixianxiang，bingtanxunyouxiaodefangfalaibimianyuchulichuguishijian。

　　jiejuenanrenchuguidechayixinlizhangai ----- tanxunnanxingqingganxuqiu、shenfenrentongheguanlianxiangduiwendingdemaodun

　　1. 心里强烈不满和情感需求

　　nanrenchuguidexintaidongjijingchangyuxinliqiangliebumanheqingganxuqiuxiangguan。zaihunyinshenghuozhong，yixienanxinghenyoukenengjuedeshenghuozhongdepingdanwuweiheqingganshangdekuzaofawei。zheileibumanyihenyoukenenglaiyuanyufuqizhijianqianquegongtongdegerenaihao，goutongbudaoweihuozhefuqishenghuoriyipingpingdandan。chuguixingweiyoukenengbeishiweiyizhongtuolixianshihezhuiqiuxinxiandecijidexingshi，weixinliqiangliebumantigongleyizhongxuanxiechukou。

　　2. 身份认同的质疑和自我认可的渴望

　　nanrenchuguidelingyigexinlizhuangtaidongjiyinggaishigerenjiazhidecaiyiyuduiziworenkedexiangwang。duiyuyixienanxingeryan，chuguixingweihenyoukenengshiyizhongzhuixunziwohaowuyiwendexingshi，genjuyuqitanvshijiechulaitigaozijidezizunxinhezizungan。zheizhongzuofakenenghenanxingdeshenfenrentongyijiduiyubenshenyingxiangliheziwojiazhigandecaiyimiqiexiangguan。

　　3. 对关联相对稳定的不安全感

　　nanrenchuguidelingyigexinlizhangaiyinggaishiguanlianxiangduiwendingdebuanquangan。bulunshiduiganqingdezhangqixingshimingganhaishiduiyudanyilianxideyueshugan，nanxinghenyoukenengbeiganyalihebuan。zaimianduizheileibuanquanganshi，takenenghuixunzhaobiedelianxidecijihekuaile，yitaochuhunyinlidedandanghexianding。chuguixingweiyoukenengbeishiweiyizhongduobizerenxinhexunzhaokewanxingdexingshi。

　　4. 期盼新鲜的和刺激的心态推动

　　nanrenchuguidexintaidongjiyeheqipanxinxiandehecijixiangguan。yixienanxingkenenghuiduihunyinliderichangrichangshenghuojuedekuzao，qipanganshougengduocijihetanxian。chuguixingweikenengyutamentigongleyizhongxunzhaotanxianhelequdejiyu，dailaiyizhongyuhunyinlibutongleixingdecijiyujiqing。

　　nanrenchuguidexinlifenxishiyigefuzaqieduoweidudezhongyaowenti，shejidaoziwodeqingganxuqiu、shenfenrentong、guanlianpingwenyijiduiyuxinxiandecijidekewang。lejiezheizhongbenzhidongjiduiyuyufangyuchulichuguishijianyouweizhongyao。fuqijiandeyouxiaogoutong、gengshencengcidegoutongjiaoliuheyiqitansuoxinxianqinshenjinglihenyoukenengyouliyuqingchunanxingwaiyudeyalidongji。chucizhiwai，fuqilianggerenxianghuxinren、jieshouhegoujianpingwenerchongshikuailefuqiguanxidoushifangzhichuguixingweidezhongyaotujing。tongguoqianghuaxinlizhuangtaiyuganqingzhongdelianjie，nanshengkeyichongfenmanzubenshenqingganxuqiu，congerjiangdiwaiyudefabingyuanyin。zuihou，chuangjianyuweihuyigejiankang、pinghenghexiangduiwendingdefuqiguanxishikongzhiyuchulinanrenchuguideguanjiansuozai。