情感测试：你希望和什么样的人在一起

　　nanrenweishenmehuizhaochulianqingrenchugui，weihenanrenhuichugui，xuanzeyuchulianqingrenjiuchanbuqing？yifangmian，chulianqingrenzhenduinanreneryanjubeiteshumeiliqingganjiyili。chulianshitamenmeihaodeqingchundaibiao，daibiaozhetianzhen、xingfuyujiqing。zaicichupengchulianqingrenhaoxiangnenggouqibeisuiyueyanmaigandongyujiqing。lingyifangmian，chulianqingrenkenenghuiduinanrenzaochengdutedeyingxiangli，tamenkenenghuizairongmao、xingqing、zhuiyidengfangmianyuzaizhigeyoubutong，zaochengnanrenchanshengqidaihezhuiqiu。danshi，zheileichuguigerenxingweiyebaoluchunanrenduihunyinhuohunyinguanxicunzaidebuzu，gengjiaxuyaoshenrudeyanjiuhejiaoliuchuli。

　　1. 人性的复杂性

　　nanrenweishenmehuizhaochulianqingrenchugui，weihenanrendouhuixuanzechugui，zhaodaochulianqingren？zheiyixianxiangbeihou，dajiajinbuzhuyaokaolvrenxingdefuzaxing。dazhongdeqingganhechongdongbingbushidanyi，fanershigegefangmianjiaocuochengde。dangyigenanrenjindaohunyinhou，tadexinlikenengchanshengzhuduogaibianhekunhuo，zheileikunhuoyexuhuiyinqiduichulianqingrendemeihaohuiyiyuzhuiqiu。

　　2. 情感的失调

　　jiehunhoudeshenghuohehunyinjingchanghuiyinweirichangsuosuiyuzerenyalizhujianbiandepingdanfawei。ciwai，chulianqingrennaishiyiduanmimanzhereqinghelangmandehuiyi。nanrenyizhizaixunzhaochulianqingrendeguochengdangzhong，yexuqiahaoshizhuixunqinggandeshidiao。chulianqingrensuodaibiaodeneiyiduanxingfushiguang，yuxianshizhongjingliguodejudadeyaligouchenglejiongranbutong，jinerjiqitamenneixindekewangyuchongjing。

　　3. 身份认同与真实自我使用价值

　　nanrenzaiqingchunfayuqiyuchulianqingrenduguohenduomeihaoshishikeke，zheixiejinglizaitamendechengzhangdedaolushangzhanjulezhongyaodediwei。danshi，suizheshijiantuiyi，nanrendeziwogainianyuziwodingweihenyoukenengfashenggaibian。tamenqipanjijiyuchulianqingrendeguanlianzhongshiyiwangdeneizai，yirenzhengzishenjiazhiheyouhuoli。

　　4. 对快乐时光的纪念

　　chulianqingrenyizhidaibiaozhenianshaowuzhidehuiyi，shinanrenqingchunnianshaoqingchundexiangzheng。yezhengshizheiyiduankuaileshiguang，rangnanrenduichulianqingrenxingchengleteshuqingganlianjie。nanrenbujinshiduichulianqingrensinianzhiqing，yeshiduinianqingshihouhemeihaojiyidehuiyi。yiner，dangtamenzaiciyuchulianqingrenxiangyushi，jiufangfozhishenyuyiwang，keyizaicitihuidaocengjingdeqingchunyujiqing。

　　5. 积累的情感难题

　　chuguigerenxingweiyoukenengshinanrenxinlingshenchujileixialaideqingganwentijutibiaoxian。zaihunyinzhong，jiarutameinengzaiqingganfangmianhuodemanzu，xinlingshenchudekumenheqipanhenyoukenengyehuibiandenanyirenshou。chulianqingrendemeihaohuiyibianchenglechuliqinggannantideyizhongfangshi，suiranzheizhongfangfabingbushiqiadang，danshiduiyuyibufennanreneryan，shitamentanxunqingganjunhengdeyizhongfangshi。

　　nanrenweishenmehuizhaochulianqingrenchugui，zongeryanzhi，zainanrenchuguizhaodaochulianqingrenzheiyixianxiangshenhou，shejideyinsujiushiduozhongduoyangerfanzade。zhenduihunyinzhongchuxianzheiyangdeqingkuangdefufueryan，bixugengduoguanzhuyulijie。hunyinshijianlizaixianghulijie、zhenchenghejiaoliudeqiantixia，weiyoutongguogenghaodegoutonghexianghufuchi，caikeyijiangdichuguidechansheng，chuangjiangengjialaoguhexingfukuailedehunyinguanlian。