冷爱：想用眼泪换取男人同情的女人最傻

　　nanrenjingshenchuguidehunyinhainengjixuma，nanrenjingshenwaiyudehunyinshibushihainengzaici，yizhishilingrenkunhuowenti。dangyigenanrenzaihunyinzhongcunzaixinlingshenchudepanbian，zheijifuqiguanlianzengtianlejudayingxiang。youderenrenweijingshenwaiyuzaoyipohuaixinlaijiben，hunyinwufamibu；erlingyixierenjuedefuqizhijiandegoutongyulijiejiushifujianhunyindeguanjiansuozai。buguanzenyang，yingduinanrenjingshenwaiyusuodailaideshanghai，fuqibiciyingdangshenzhongkaolv，lizhidipingding，quedingshifouyoubiyaohunyin。

　　nanrenjingshenwaiyuduihunyinyingxiangshiyigelingrensisuowenti。dangyigenanrenzaihunyinzhongcunzaijingshenwaiyu，jiduihunwaiyixingpengyouxingchengleaihenjiugehuobuzhengdangguanxi，kenengyinfafuqizhongjiandekunjing。zheileikunjingyoubieyuroutishangdewaiyu，yinweimeiyoushizhishangdegerenxingwei，tagengweiyinbibingqiejuyouqizhaxing。duiyuzheiyangdezhuangkuang，zhenduishoushangyifangeryan，shibushijixuzheiyiduanhunyinchengweileyigefuzaqiejiannandejueze。

　　婚姻舆论压力：复建或是舍弃？

　　nanrenjingshenchuguidehunyinhainengjixuma，hunyinshijianlizaixianghuzhijianxinrendeqiantishang，erjingshenwaiyudapozheiyixinlai。beichuguifangyaojuedepanbian、nanguo、naonu，kukusisuoshibushihainengjianxinlingyifang。tamenbuquedingxingduifangshibushizhenzhenzhengzhenghuigai，yedanyouweilaihuibuhuizaicichuxiantongyangdeshi。zheileixinlaideliekai，duihunyinzengtianlechenzhongdaji。zaifujianhunyindaolushang，zhongjianxinrenshishifenzhongyaodeyihuan。

　　复建婚姻的重要前提：沟通与理解

　　fujianhunyinbixufuqibicijinxingquanfangweidejiaoliu，lingtingduifangneixinxiangfahejianyi。beichuguifangbixubiaodazijishanghaibumanyi，erwaiyufangjiuxuyaozhenxinshiyihuigai、zhanxiangenggaijuexin。genjuzhenchengdegoutong，fuqinenggougenghaodilejielingyifangdeyaoqiuheniantou，tanxunjiejuewentidebanfa。yucitongshi，zhenduibeichuguifangeryan，yeyaoxuehuiyuanliang，chixuquanjuxingdimianduiguoqu，bingjiyujihuizhonggouhunyin。

　　外在因素：家中、好朋友以及社会危害

　　hunyinbingbushidulicunyou，tashiheshehuixianzhuangyijigezhongrenmaiguanxixiangfuxiangchengde。waibudeyaliduihunyindeguandianhuiyingxiangdaofuqibicizhenduizaicihunyindexintai。jiazhonghehaopengyoujianyi、dazhongduiwaiyudepinjian，dounengjihunyinzaochengfudan。zaizheiyangyigefanzadedahuanjingxia，fuqibicibixuqingchudiyishidao，taliangcaisuanshiquedinghunyinhequhecongdeshishizhe，erqiexuyaoyizijideaiqingweidaoxiangzuochujuece。

　　重新启动爱情：复建感情与热情

　　jingshenwaiyudehunyinkunjingshenhou，yunzangzhefuqizhongjianaiqingpianyiwenti。weilenengkeyijixuhunyin，fuqibicibixugongtongfendoufujianshiluodeaiqingyujiqing。zheinengtongguoyouhui、lvyou、shiqigongtongdegerenaihaodengxingshilaidadao。yucitongshi，fuqiyeyaodongdebiaodaaiyuguanhuai，tishengxianghuzhijiandeyouhaoduhexinlaigan。

　　技术专业指导：寻找第三方的协助

　　fujianhunyinbingfeiyijianrongyideshiqing，youshifuqijinkaozijidenenglinanyichuliwenti。zaizheigeshihou，xunzhaojishuzhuanyexinlizixunshihuohunyinzixunguwendezhichikenengshizhenggequanguochenggengshunli。zhuanyerenyuannenggouweifuqibicijiyuzhonglidejianjiehezhuanyetiyi，bangzhuqinenggougenghaodizhenglisilu，huajiemaodun，fujianhunyin。

　　nanrenjingshenchuguidehunyinhainengjixuma，zongdelaishuo，nanrenjingshenwaiyuduihunyinyingxiangshifuzaqiezhongdade。fuqibicixuyaojingguojiankudesikaoyugoutongjiaoliu，lejieduifangdexinlingyaoqiu，zaicilajinguanxi，bingzhonggoushiluodeaiqingyureqing。suiranzaoyuwaizaiyinsuyali，fuqiyingdangmingjizijideaiqingyujuedingquan。zaixuyaoshi，xunzhaojishuzhuanyezhidaodoushifujianhunyindeyizhongxingdetongfangshi。yiner，nanrenjingshenwaiyudehunyinzaitongguofuqigongtongdefuchuhenulixia，youkenenghuijianchixiaqubingzhongxinhuifuxingfukuaile。