分手复联以后 如何推进关系挽回男友

　　lihunbulijiadefuqizenmexiangchu，lihunbulijiadefuqizenmexiangchushiyigedangdaijiatingzhongpubiankaoyan。zaizheizhongqingkuangxia，taxuyaoyitongxunzhaopinghenghelijie，jianliyizhongyuzhongbutongdegoutongfangfa。congzunzhongyuhuanweisikaokaolv，jiejuemaodunhebaochihemubiandeyuelaiyueguanjian。jijikaizhanjiatinghuodong，gongtongyangyuxiaohai，suzaojinshendejiatinghuanjing，doukeyitishengjiazhongqiaoliang。yucitongshi，yaodongdehubuxiangguanhezunzhongduifangsirenkongjian，weichibicizhijiandedalizhichihelijie。genjujijizhudonggoutongyuhudong，lihunbulijiadefuqinenggoujianliyigehexie、pingwendejiatingfenwei。

　　一同迎接挑战——建立一个新的相处模式

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　　塑造换位思考——理解另一方的情绪与需求

　　zailihunzhihourengrangongtongshenghuodefuqi，shouxianyaojianliqixianghuzhijiandehuanweisikao。lijielingyifangdeqingxu、yaoqiuyutiaozhanshiweilegenghaoderongqiabicizhijiandexingweibiaoxianguanlijuece。genjulingtingyuzhichilingyifang，yijiangxinbixindexintailaichuliwenti，nenggouzuidaxiandudijianshaomaodunhemaodun。

　　合理安排义务——共同努力家务活与孩子的养育

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　　塑造和睦自然环境——一同创造和谐的家庭环境

　　lihunbulijiadefuqinenggouqinfenchuangzaohexiedejiatinghuanjing，jizijigenhaizichuangzaoyigewenxin、anwendeshenghuoziranhuanjing。genjugongtongshangdingjiatingguize、chengnuorichangxingweiguifan，xianghulijiebicizhijiandejiexianhesirenkongjian。yucitongshi，jilijiatingzhuyaochengyuanjijikaizhanjiatinghuodong，erqietichangxianghuxinren、lijie、guanzhuheganendejiatingjiazhiguan。

　　对外开放沟通——积极倾听语言的表达心里想法

　　lihunbulijiadefuqibixuyikaifangdexintaikaizhanjijizhudonggoutong。lingtingbierendexiangfahetihui，bingqiezaibiaodazijijianjieshibaochizunzhongyulijie。jianliyigeanquanxing、xianghufuchidegoutongziranhuanjing，shifuqibicikeyizhenchengdigoutongjiaoliumaodunhenanti，xiangtongtanxunjiejuefangfa，jinyibutigaofuqizhijiandeguanxi。

　　重建信任——建立长期相对稳定的关联

　　zailihunbulijiadefuqixiangchuguochengzhong，zhongjianxinrenshihenzhongyaode。genjuchengxin、baoronghechixubuduandeqinfen，fuqibicinenggoumanmanjianliqixinlaijiben。weichifuwuchengnuo、jiangxinyong，zairichangrichangshenghuochengxianduibicidezunjing，bingxianghuxinren，zaizhangqixiangduiwendingdefuqiguanxizhongjianlilaokaodezhongyaoqianti。

　　lihunbulijiadefuqizenmexiangchu，lihunbulijiadefuqizenmexiangchushiyixiangjianjurenwu，dantongguokexuefendanzeren、suzaohuanweisikao、tichanghemuziranhuanjing、duiwaikaifanggoutonghezhongjianxinren，tamennenggouyitongduguonanguan，jianliyigefenfaxiangshang、pinganwendingjiating。zheizhongqinfenbujinrangfuqiguanlianhuodejiaohaodeweichi，haijihaizitigongleyigeanquanxing、wanqiangdeshenghuohuanjing，rangdajiazailihunbulijiadefuqideyizhihehuxiajiankangchengzhang。