陪伴，爱情不老的真谛 (2)

　　nanpengyounabuchucailiyaohewofenshou，nanyouhewolianaihenduonian，ranertabunengmanzujiazhongduicailidexuqiu，jinerdaozhiliangrendeguanxizouxiangzhongdian。zheiyinantijiqianshelehuijifangmian，youshejidaolewenhuasixiangdemaodun。jinguanwomencengxianghuzhijianshenaizhe，danshiwomenbukeyiweilecailierxishengziwogenduifangxingfu。cicifenshoushiwozhenqiedisikaolehunyinlinianhejiazhiguanniandebiyaoxing。xiwangkeyicongzhongdedaoqifa，jiwojianglaidehunyinguanlianzuochuzhengquedexuanze。

　　彩礼难点：婚姻与金钱的交叉式

　　nanpengyounabuchucailiyaohewofenshou，zaidangjinshehui，hunyinzuoweirenshengdaoluzhongyaodeyihuan，jingchangbansuigezhonggeyangtiaozhandanxin。zaiqizhong，cailiwentizaihenduowenhualishiyigebaoshouzhengyiguanzhudejiaodian。erduiyuyixieliangxingguanxieryan，nanfangmeifafukuancailijianghuichengweifenshoudedaohuoxian。

　　真情、爱情和彩礼间的争夺

　　cailizuoweizhonghuachuantonghunyinfengsuxiguanbukehuoquedeyibufen，sulaibeichengzuodajiazuzhijiandeyizhong“guojiajiayouxi”defangshi。danshi，suizhexiandaidegaibianhedazhongdejiazhiguanmanmanduoyanghua，cailidejiazhiyechanshenglejudadezhuanbian。duiyuyixierenlaishuo，cailibuzaijuxianyujinqiandebiaozhi，zhishiduiaiqingheqinqingdetiaozhan。

　　彩礼的分歧：很尴尬的挑选

　　nanfangmeifafukuancailidexianxiang，jingchangrangliangrenxianrujuejingheyouyuzhong。yifangmian，nvfangjiazhongchengshouleminzuchuantongwenhuaheshehuiqidaiyali，qidainanfangnengchengdanqizheiyiyiwu；lingyifangmian，nanfangjiangmianlinzijinkunnan，huozheshiduicailifengsuxiguanhuaiyouzhiyi。zheileifenqishiliangrenzaiqingxuyuxianshizhongjianjiannanjueze。

　　彩礼身后人际交往关系和压力

　　cailinantibujinshejidaoliangrenzhijiandedanxin，yeshejidaozhejiazhongjiandeboyi。cailijinedezhengzhikenenghuiyinqiduihunyinguanlianjixiewendingxingdecaiyi，zaochengbicijiazhongguandiandemenglieduizhan。zheileimaodunbudandanshilianggerenrenmaiguanxi，gengjiashichudonggengdafanweiqinpenghaoyouheshejiaomeiti。

　　婚姻里的选择：金钱和幸福

　　zaicailitimuzhong，womenyinggaisiweidebingbuzhishijinqianwenti，gengjiashiguanyuhunyinyuxingfudetiaoxuan。hunyindezhongyaoqiantishiqingganshangdebicilijieyuzhichi，erbushizhiyincailibuzuerdushanglianggerendexingfu。womenyinggaizhongxinsikaozhonghuachuantongwenhuaheshehuisixiangzhenduihunyinguanlianchanshengdeyingxiang，ruhegenghaodizaishunxiwanbiandexianshishenghuozhongzhaodaozhenzhengdeguishuyuzijideaiqing。

　　扩展思索：处理彩礼难题的路线

　　zuoweiyigeyanjundexianshinanti，cailikunraozhehenduoren。dangqianshedaocailiwentishi，womennengsisuoyixiebuyiyangdichulitujing，ruxiangguanbumendegansheyuguankong、fentancailichengdandetichang、zhonggouhunyinyishideng，douyoukenengweilejiejuezheishehuinandiantigongyixieqifa。

　　结束语

　　nanpengyounabuchucailiyaohewofenshou，cailinantisuiranrangbushaorenshenxiandanxinhefenshou，dancailibenzhishangshiyigefanyingshehuiwenhuahuanjingherenjiguanxifanzanandian。dangmianduizheiyiwentideshihou，dajiabufanggengweilizhiduiwaikaifangdikandaihunyinlinianhejinqiannanti，tanxunrangshuangfangkeyishouhuoxingfudejiejuefangan。