相亲对象着急结婚 感觉聊不下去怎么办

 xiangqinduixiangshitongguotongshijieshaode，panduanshizhinan，juedemeicigentaliaotiandoushuoqiongkuzhileide，qidiandiyaobibierennuli，bingqiehenzheji，jiuganjuehaoxiangzhuayigenvdejiuyaojiehunle，ganjueliaobuxiaquzenmeban。

youguanzhulelengdakuaiyinian，meiyitiandouzaikan，shouyifeiqian。xiwangkeyichoudaowo，bangwojiedayixiayihuo。

 nv，29sui，daxuebenke，zhiyekefu，feidufeichu，yueshourushuihou4dao5k，nan，33 sui，211zhongdianbenke，zizhuchuangye，feiduchu，shourubuxiang。xiangqinduixiangshitongguotongshijieshaode，panduanshizhinan，buguoshihennuliyoushangjinde，danganjueyoudianzibeibingyiqianyoubeipianwanguodejingli，suoyitaxinlihaipazaicishoudaoshanghai。

 yigonggentaliaole4tian，zaijialeweixindediertianjiutichuyaoqiufaweixinshangbanxiabangenqibaodao，wojujuele。ranhoujiujuedemeicigentaliaotiandoushuoqiongkuzhileide，qidiandiyaobibierennuli，bingqiehenzheji，jiuganjuehaoxiangzhuayigenvdejiuyaojiehunle， ganjueliaobuxiaquzenmeban 。

 tamubiaohenmingque，jiushizhaoduixiangyaojiehun，ganjuebushitazijiyaozhao，shizaiweileyinweibamacuijile，suoyicaizhaoxifu，womeicidouhuigenqishuoxianjiechumanmanlejieyixia，bijingshiyaoyibeizideshi，woyeshizhenxinxianggentajiechuqulejieta，danshimeicitajiangdeyixiehuaquerangwowangerquebu。bingqietazongshibiaoxianhenzheji，tacongguowaihuilaijiuyaoqingdiyicijianmianbingqieshuoyaoxiexiejieshaodeneigetongshi，shuoshiwomenyaoaazhi，dannianwonianjixiaokeyibuyongwofu。

 mianhaimeiyoujianguojiuyaoxiexiemeiren，wojuedeyoudianbutuo，zaitaneiliganjueshidingxialaile，danshiwohaimeiyoujinruzhuangtai，tazongshishuozijiwanbuqi，nianjidashitadexianshiruodian，gentaliaotianganjuezongshiduanzhe。

wodesuqiuzheigerenzhibuzhidegentajixuliaohuojianmianjiechuxiaqu。pandedaolengdadehuifu，xiexie。

花镇情感导师 回答：

 zuoweiyigenvren，zuizhongyaodeshiyaoxianxuehuizunzhongzijideganshou。nizaigenxiangqinduixiangdeliaotianjiludangzhongdezuihouyixingtidao“woquxizaole”。nizaijiangzheijuhuashishizenyangyizhongganshouni?nideganshoushi，genbenbuxiangzaiheduifangliaoxiaqule。danshiwokeyiduanding，zainishuowan”woquxizaole”zhihou，qishinibingmeiyoumashangquxizao。

 henkenengnizhishidakailelingwaiyigeruanjian，huozhehelingwaiyigehuozheduogerenshuo“nizhidaoma?wozuijinyudaoleyigenande，jianzhijiushiyigeqipa”。shenzhikenengnidoubuhuizaiquheqitarenliao，ershixinggaocailiedidakaiweixingongzhonghaokanjipianwenzhang，daoxiaohongshufanyixia，youhuozheshishuashuadouyin。zongzhi，nizhisuoyihuizheiyangshuo，shiyinweinizhidaozheigetianniliaobuxiaqule。

至于为何无法继续聊下去，重点有三个：

1、duifangkongzhiyuhenqiang，shenzhikeyishuodaolecaokongdedibu。

tashuo“zainishangbanqian，(jiwo)fa5zhangzhaopianzaishangban，xiabandiyijianshijiwohuixinxi，keyima?”

 guniang，xianzaidoushijiangwenmingguanlideshidaile，nulizhuhenulidoubuganzheiyangshuo，tashitaipingyangdejingchama，guandezheiyangkuan?nihetaxianzaihaibushinannvpengyou，gengbushifuqiguanxi，ruguonihezheiyangderenzouruhunyin，neiyihoujiubushimeitianzaishangbanqianfawuzhangzhaopian、xiabanhoudiyishijianfaxinxideshiqingle，ershiniderenshengjiangbeiduifangquanfangweijieguandewenti。shengerweiren，yinggaixiangwangziyou，ernizheizhongzitouluowangquzuolao，youshitushenmeni?

2、jishitadenaohuiluzhendeyouwentibuhuiliaotian，dantadexuqiuduyeshiguogaode。

 biru，tashuo“ruguoyunxu，wodoukeyijieshou‘fengjie’le”。dangran，wogerenhenzunzhongfengjie，danshi，nikeyicongtayuyanlimanmandeyouyueganzhongkanchu，taxiangyaobiaodade“wozheimeyouxiudeyigenandedouzhejile，shenmenvdewodoukeyijieshou。napanihefengjieyiyang，woyekeyijieshou”yisi。

 taxianzaishichuzaijizibeiyouziao，jixuyaoduifangyoubiandiduifangdezheiyangyizhonghenjiujiedeqingkuangdangzhong。ruguonihezheiyangderenzaiyiqi，neimetakendinghuibazheiyangdeqingxuchuandijini。taxianzaishihenbudezhiyaokeyizhaodaoyigeren，zhiyaoshigemudejiuxing，zheizhongqingkuangziranhenzaogao。

3、jibianqianmianliangxiangdoubucunzai，danshitatidaoqingrenchifanzheijianshishiyeshihenrangrenbushufu。

 tashuo“wokankanhoutianchoushijianjiaoshangxxiaojie/jieshaorenyiqichifan!shunbianganxietayixia!”wotian，zheinanrenyetaijizeile，taqingnichifanjiuqingnichifan，haicheshenme“choukongjiaoshangzheigejieshaorenyiqichifanshunbianganxie”，qiezheigeganxiehaiyaonimenaa。shuwozhiyan，woyaoshijitazuojieshaoderen，zhidaolezheishierdouhuibengkui。

 zongzhi，liaotianjiluzhongtachengxianchudegezhongzhuangtai，douhenzhibaidibatahenjizeideyimianzhanshilechulai。nishuotashigechuangyenan，duibuqi，tayijingwuruchuangyenanle，tajiushigejizeinan。

zongshangsuoshu，wohenbukanhaozheiduanguanxi。