挽回攻略：挽回老公需要懂得这四个道理

　　nanrenshengqilemeishuofenshoujiushibufenshouma，dangnanrenzaixinlizhongzaoyucuozhehebukuaishi，youshihoubiaoxianchuqifenqingxu，danzheibingbuyiweizhetamenmashangyaofenshou。nanrenqifenquebingweijiangchufenshoudeniantou，kenengyiweizhetahaiduiganqinghuaiyouyisixiwang，huoshitahaizaikaolvdaozenmejiejuewenti。zheishihou，nvrenbukeguoduzheji，ershiyinggailengjingfenxi，jiduifangyixieshijianyukongjiangoutongjiaoliu，yiqiukeyiyitonghuajiemaodun，zhaodaoganqingwendingyuhemu。

　　nanrenqingxufuza，jiejueganqingnantishichangchangbuqingyifangqi。zailianaiguanxizhong，dangnanrenshengqiledanquemeiyoumingquetichufenshoudehua，shibushizeyiweizhetabuzhunbeifenshouni？keneng，womenyaocongyixiajifangmianlaitaolun。

　　1. 暂时性的愤怒的情绪

　　nanrenshengqilemeishuofenshoujiushibufenshouma，nanrenshengqile，kenengjiushiyinweidedaolesunhai、xinhanhuoqitayuanyin。danshi，zheileifennudeqingxutongchangzhishizanshide，tamenxiwangyonggoutongyuchuliwentilaixiubuganqing。yiner，qifenbingbudengyumashangbianhuimingquetichufenshou，ershibiaodaganqingyihou，xiwanghuifuyuanlaideguanlian。

　　2. 考虑感情的必要性

　　nanrenyibanhuizixizhenzhuofenshoubicizhijianjiqiguanlianchanshengdeyingxiang。tamenbuqingyifangqiyiduanzaoyigoujiandeganqing，fanershixuehuisikaohaiyoumeiyoufuhedekongjian，zhibuzhichangshigaibianhehuifu。yiner，jibianshengqile，tamenyexuyiranjuedefenshoubingfeiweiyidejiejuefangan。

　　3. 与解决问题思索

　　dangnanrenqifenquebingmeiyoumingquetichufenshoushi，henyoukenengshikaishisikaogaizenmejiejuenanti。tamenyexuxuyaoyiduanshijianlailengjingfenxi，xunzhaohuajiemaodundebanfa。zheishitamenxiwangyonggoutongjiaoliulaigaibianganqing，bingjianshaobubiyaodemaodunhefenlichulai。

　　4. 保存一线希望

　　nanrenqifenquebushuofenshou，yeyoukenengshitamenyiranbaocunzheyixianxiwang。tamenkenengjuede，genjugoutongyuqinfen，nantinenggoubeichuli，rangganqingzaicihuiguizhenggui。yiner，taxuanzelinshirenshou，bingfeimashangsheqi。

　　5. 观查另一方反映

　　nanrenyoushiyehuiguanchanvrenduitamenqifendefanying。tamenxiangyaozixiguanchanvrenshibushizhongshiziji、shibushijijizhiqianhuochuliwenti，laipandingduifangshibushizhenzhenzhengzhengzaiyihegaoduzhongshizheiyiduanganqing。tamenliuyoujiyu，guanchabicizhijianshifoucunzaigongtongfendouyuchengzhangdexiangfa。

　　nanrenshengqilemeishuofenshoujiushibufenshouma，zongeryanzhi，nanrenshengqiledanquemeiyoumingquetichufenshou，bingbudengyutamenbuzhunbeifenshou。fanguolai，zheitongchangshitahaizaisisuo、xizhiguanchatanxunjiejuewentidebanfa。nvrenyeyingdanglejienanrenqingxu，jiduifangyixieshijianyukongjianlaichuliganqingnanti，gongtongfendougaijinguanlian，bingxunzhaodaoheshidejiaoliufangshi，jinerweichiheqianghuabicizhijiandeganqingqiaoliang。