情感故事：因为爱自己，所以我想自私一点

　　nanrentichufenshouhaihuifuchuzhenaima，zheizhongqingkuangbudandaozhileguangfantantao，yeshejilerenmenduinanrenzaifenshoushishibushiyiranbaocunzhezhenaidekunhuo。dangyigenanrentichufenshou，shifouyiweizhetaduiairenbuhuizaiyouzhenzhideganqing？yexu，nanrentichufenshouzhiyinweitamenyishidaolexianghuzhijiandeyouwenti，danshibingbufourentamenzhiqianzhenxinxiangdaideshishi。xiamianwomenjiutaolunnanrenfenshouhoushibushihaihuifuchuzhenai，naixinjiedazheiyibaoshouzhengyiwenti。

　　nanrendejuece，zhenxinshiyihuoxuqingjiayi？

　　nanrentichufenshouhaihuifuchuzhenaima，jianshu：

　　zaiaiqingshijieli，nanrentichufenshoudaozhilerenmenduitashifouyiranbaocunzhezhenaidekunhuo。zheiyibaoshouzhengyiwentichudongzhuduorendexin。danshi，nengfoujiandandepanduannanrenfenshouhoushibushihaihuifuchuzhenaini？womenyinggaishenrufenxi，conggegeshijiaolailejienanrendejueceshenhoudongjiyuzhenshiaiqing。

　　一、背驰即是叛变？

　　nanrentichufenshoubingbuyidingjiubiaomingtamenbuhuizaiyouzhenai。aiqingdeduoyuanxingyuduobianxing，cushiyiduanguanxidebaochibingbuzhishizaiyuai。yexu，nanrentichufenshouzhiyinweitamenyishidaolexianghuzhijiandeyouwenti，huoyinwaibudeyalizhuanbian。yebingbufourentamenzhiqianzhenxinxiangdaizheiyiduanganqingkeguanshishi。

　　二、发展和自我启迪

　　youshihou，nanrentichufenshoubingfuchuzhenai，jiushiweileduizishenheduibicidefazhanchengdan。yiduanbuheshiguanlianhenyoukenenghuiganraogerenfazhan，congershilianggerendoumeifahuodegenghaodezishen。weilenengranglingyifangdedaoxunzhaogengshihederen，nanrenhenyoukenengxuanzefangshou，suiranzheijiuyiweizhewomenbixufangqizijideaiqing。

　　对爱的理解：

　　zhenaibudandanshijianchibuxiezaiyiqi，qishishiweilelingyifangxingfuerfangkaishou。nanrentichufenshouhenyoukenenglaiyuanyutamenduidaiaiqingdelingyizhonglejie：zhenzhengdeaiqingshiweiduifangdelequ，buguanzheijiuyiweizhefenlihuoshizaiyiqi。tamenguanxindeshilingyifang，bingfeizishendeliyi。

　　向往自由与单独：

　　nanrenfenshouyeyoukenengshijiyuduisuiyidulidexiangwang。tamenyexuzaoyijuedejushuyuyali，huozhezhuixundaliangbenrenfazhandekongjian。suiranzheikanqilaihaoxiangyuzhenaibenmodaozhi，danzheiyeshiyizhongduizishenheduibicidechengdanfangfa。dangtamenyishidaobicizhijiandexuyaomeifahuodemanzushi，tamenxuanlefenshou，yixunzhaoxingfudeshenghuo。

　　时间的洗礼：

　　nanrenfenshouhou，yiranbaocunzhenai，queyezaoshoushijiandexili。aiqingshixuyaoyiduanshijianlaijianyande，henduonanrenhenyoukenengxuyaojingguoyiduanshijiandeduju、sikaoyuzhongxinshenshi，yibaozhengtadequedingchuyuzhenaibingfeiyishichongdong。

　　yinzangzhenai：nanrentichufenshouhouyiranbaocunzhezhenai，zhibuguoshizaihenyoukenengbingbumingxiandexingshixia。tamenyexutiaoxuanmomodeguanzhu，xiezhulingyifang，huoshiyizhiqingxizheqiannvyoudexingfuyuanquanxing。

　　结果：

　　nanrentichufenshouhaihuifuchuzhenaima，nanrentichufenshoubingbuyidingyiweizhetamenbuhuizaifuchuzhenai。zhenshiaiqingshifuzaqieqianbianwanhuade，bunengyiweidiyongfenshoulaidingyi。nanrenhenyoukenengweilenengduizishengenduifangdefazhanchengdan、xiangwangziyouduli、zunzhaoduiaidegenggaoyixiejieding，huozhinengtongguoqitafangfajingjingdibaocunzhenai。fenshoubingbudengyunanrenbuzaiai，tazhishizaigezhongfangshixiachuandizhezhenxinshiyi。