挽回男友技巧之逆向合理化

　　nanrenruguoxiangfenshousahuangzijihuizuolao，dangnanrenzaiyiduanganqingzhongxuyaofenshou，youderenkenengkeyitongguosahuanglaituixiezerenyutongku。danshi，zheihuatixingzhedajia：ruguoyigenanrenyimengpiandexingshiwanbiyiduanguanxi，takenengmianlingengduodefalvyudaodelidebuliangyingxiang。sahuangbudanpohuaixinren，haikenenghuiyinqishanghainanguo。bulunshihunlianguanxihuoshisuoyouqitaqingjing，zhenchenghetanchengshiweihurenjijiaowangdezhongyaoqianti。yiner，nanrenyinggaizhidao，huibiwentibingbushiduice，chengxinhemianduizijidexiangfacaikeyimaijingenghaodemingtian。

　　限定与不良影响：撒谎引起深入不良影响

　　nanrenruguoxiangfenshousahuangzijihuizuolao，zheiyichutigaojiewomen，yingyonghuanghuakandaifenshounantiyaomianlinfalvyudaodelideyanzhongweihai。danshi，zheizhongqingkuangbudandanshifalvyiju，tadailaichanshengdeyingxiangyuanyuanchaoguolewomendexiangxiang。

　　信任的裂开：损害彼此之间的重要前提

　　zaiyiduanganqingzhong，xinrenshiguanlianweichidezhongyaoqianti。nanrentiaoxuansahuangzuojieyiduanguanxi，jiangshoudaopohuailingyifangduiyutadexinren。yidanxinrenshoudaopohuai，xiubutabiandeshifenjiannan，wulunshiduiyufenshoufangyiranbeisahuangfangdoudailaiwufawanhuizaochengdeshanghai。

　　伤害悲伤的蔓延：一次谎话带来无穷痛苦

　　fenshoubenshenyijingdailailechongzudetongkuyusunhai，nanrendehuanghuajinyibujiajulezheizhongtong。beirenqipiandeyifangbudanyaomianduishiquleairentongku，yeyaochengdanyinhuanghuaerdailaideshenshendiciteng。zheileitongkumeifaxunsuxiaotui，kenengduishoushanghaizhedaozhizhangqixingxinlichuangshang。

　　诚信的必要性：解决问题主要流程

　　fenshouzaisuoyoudeganqinglidoushiyigejiannandequeding，danchengxinhetanchengshijiejuewentidiyibu。nanrenyingdangyingyongmianduizijidexiangfa，bingyuairenkaizhanduiwaikaifangerchengxindeduitan。suiranfenshouzishenhuidailaitongchu，danshiyichengxinyuzunzhongkandailingyifang，nenggouweilianggerenguapingqianjindelu，jianshaobubiyaodesunhai。

　　面对自身：英勇迈进更好的明天

　　nanrenzaimianduifenshoushi，yingdangjiandingdimianduizijineixinyaoqiuhetihui。huibiwentibingbunengchuliyiqiekunnan，fanguolai，sahuanghuizaizijineixinzhongxiayixiliewentiyutongku。renqingzijidexiangfa，bingyuairenkaizhanzhenchengdeduitan，jiangyouliyucujingerentishenghetanxungenghaodemingtian。

　　复建信任：艰辛而必不可少

　　jiarunanrengenjuchengxinyuzunzhongzuojieyiduanguanxi，suirantongchuhenyoukenengyirancunzai，danshitaweifujianxinrendaxiajichu。fuzerendetiaoxuanxianxianchuduibicidezunzhongyuguanzhu，weiyihouhenyoukenengdeyouqinghuoxiezuokaichuanglegailv。sahuangquezhinengwanquanhuihuaixinren，zheikenenghuigenggailiangrendeguanxi，naizhisunhaiyufenshouyouguandebieren。

　　境况充斥着可变性：以真正面对做出的选择

　　zaimianduifenshoushi，nanrenyingdangyishidaozijidegerenxingweizhijiejuedinglejianglaidemaixiang。sahuangsuirankeyizhegaiyishidejiannan，danshitagenbenwufachuliwenti，fandaohuidailaigengduobuliangyingxiang。mianduizuochudexuanze，nanrenyingdangkeshouchengxinherenyidejibenyuanze，bingjizijichuangzaoyigegengzhunque、gengyouxiaolvyugengyoujihuidejianglai。

　　nanrenruguoxiangfenshousahuangzijihuizuolao，zheiyichutizhenqieditixingdajia，qinglaojichengxin、zunzhongyuyiwuzaiweichirenjijiaowangzhongdezuoyong。bulunshizaiganqinglihaishiqitachangjingxia，womendouyaoyizhenzhengmianduizuochudexuanze，yijijizhudongdefangshijiejuenanti，bingqieweichuangjianshenxinjiankang、laoguzhijiandeguanxierfendou。zheizhongtiaoxuanyeweidajiadailaigengmeihaodemingtian。