情感故事：在爱情里为什么你总是付出的多得到的少？

　　nanrenxiangdafenshoupaodeyuanyinnenggouyouxuduo，kenengshiyinweibicisanguanbuhe，xianghujiandeganqingzhujianxiaoqian；yekenengshiyinweijiatinggongzuoyali、jinqianwentihuoshiweilaizhiyefazhanqifuzaochengaiqingshengshu；youshi，yifangduilingyifangdebuzhonghuopanbianyejiangchengweinanrenxunzhaofenshoudezhuyaoyuanyin。bulunshiliwaiyaosu，nanrenxuyaodafenshoupaotongchangshiduidaiganqingyuxingfudeyizhongwunaixuanze，qidaiwanchengziwojietuoyutanxungenghaodemingtian。

　　nanrenxianghebanlvfenshou，henyoukenengyouhenduozhongyuangu。xiabianjiangcaiquzheijigefangmianlaitaolunnanrenxiangdafenshoupaodeyuanyin，bangwomengenghaodilejiezheiyixianxiang。

　　1. 个别差异和彼此不适感

　　meiyigerendouyouzhezijidegexingyuyaoqiu，zheishizhengchangde。danshi，dangliangrendegebiechayifeichangda，huoshitadejiazhiguannian、gerenaihao、shenghuofangshidengshangcunzaijianrongwentiqingkuangshi，nanrenkenenggandaoyanfanhexiaochen。tamenkenengjuedeyubanlvbuaijiaoji，wufaxunzhaoxiangtongdian，jinertiaoxuanxunzhaofenshoudexingshi，yixunzhaogengshihezijishichangxuqiudeguanlian。

　　2. 爱情疲劳冷却期

　　zhangshijiangongchuherifuyirideshenghuosuosuikenenghuirangnanrengandaopijuanhesangshireqing。reqingyulangmanmanmanjiandi，beirichangsuosuihezhengzhisuoqudai。nanrenkenengzhujianzhiyizijishibushizhendehaixihuanlingyifang，huoshiduiyuweilaiganjuemimang。zaizheiyangdeqingkuangxia，tamenwangwanghuixuanzemingquetichufenshou，tansuoxindecijixingyuqingganreqing。

　　3. 压力金钱问题

　　nanrensuomianlindegongzuoyalishilaiziyushenghuoyuzhiyeleixing，zaizhengzhishangfuzerenkenengshiyixiangjianjurenwu。jiaruyiweinanrenjuedezijibunengmanzubanlvdeqidai，huoshijuedezijidejingjiqingkuangjiannan，tamenkenengjuedefenshoushichuliwentidebuerzhixuan。tamenxiwangyongjiechubangdinglaihuanjieyalibingzhiliyugongzuohuocaiwuweijidichuli。

　　4. 不忠和叛变

　　dangnanrenfaxianzijibanlvduitabuzhonghuopanbianshi，takenenghuijuedejiqidetongchufennu。takenenghuisangshiduibanlvderenkeheduiaiqingdezijintouru，congerxuanzeyubanlvfenshou。buzhonghepanbianzhenduinanrenlaishuoshiyizhongbijiaoyanzhongzaochengdeshanghai，zheikenengzaochengtamenwufachixubaochizheiduanganqing。

　　5. 进一步发展和个人提升

　　youshihou，nanrenkenengjuedetazaizheiduanganqingzhongyijingdadaoyigeduanban，meifajinyibufazhan。tamenyexuqidaiyongyougengduodekewanxingyukongjianquzhuixunxinzhongdemengxianghegerentisheng。zheihuishejidaoshiyefazhan、gerenxingquaihaodexiangwanghuoshirichangshenghuodebianhua。taxuanzefenshoudemudejiushiweilezhuixungenghaodemingtianjigerendadao。

　　nanrenxiangdafenshoupaodeyuanyin，zongeryanzhi，nanrenyaojinxingfenshoupaokenengshizaoshouduozhongduoyangtiaojiandexianzhi。gebiechayi、aiqingpibei、yalijinqianwenti、buzhonghepanbian，yugerenfazhandexuyaodouhuibianchengnanrentiaoxuanfenshoudezhuyaoyuanyin。zhangwozheixieyinsunengbangzhuwomengenghaodilejienanrendexintaiyuxingwei，tongshiyouliyuchuangjiangengjiajiankangzhangqiwendingzhijiandeguanxi。