挽回老公：女性被出轨后的几种常见心态

　　fenshouhouhaichaojia，fenshouhou，lianggerenyuanyiweihuichedifangxia，danquezaizhengchaohoupanghuang。qinggandejiuchanyunanpingdeenchou，rangtamenwufabicizhijiansheqi。bulunshiweilenengneixinqiangliebumanhaishiweilexiangaixiangsha，tamenchangchangzaibuzhibujuezhongzhongxindianranyiqiandezhengzhi。yexushiqinggandejiaocuo，yexushinanyishihuaideqingyi，tamenshizhongbaituobulezheiyimeiwanmeiledexunhuanxitong。zaichaojiadeguochengdangzhong，tamenyexuhuilixingdirenkefenshoudezhongyaoxing，danqingxudebodongshitamenwufazhenzhengshifangchulaibicizhijiandeqinggan，bixuyaozaichaojiazhongxunzhaoduanzanxuanxie。fenshouhou，tamenhaishibeichaojiasuofu。

　　矛盾不仅，分手后的矛盾漩涡

　　fenshouhouhaichaojia，bansuizheaiqingdeliekai，dangliangrentiaoxuanfenshouhou，bengailixingdimaixianggeziderensheng，zhaodaoxindezhujian。danshi，youyixielianrenquexianruleyizhongqiyidexunhuanxitong，fenshouhourengranlvlvfashengzhengchaohemaodun。

　　zaiaiqingdejiaodiezhong，dajiawufafouren，fenshouzishenzeyiweizhecunzaiyidingdemaodunhebufuhe。danzheixiebufuhetongchangbingmeibansuizhefenshoudechanshengerhuaweiwuyou，fandaozaiyixiexiweimojieshangjinyibujiashen。biru，caichanqiefen、jiuge、qinpenghaoyouguanliandengzhuduowentidoukenengchengweizhengyidejiaodian。zheizhonglingsuidemaodunrangfenshouhoudeshuangfangwufazhenzhengjiejuecongqiandeqingganenyuan，youhenyinweimaodundechuxian，zhengzhibukebimianzaicibaofa。

　　执着的盘绕，情感不能自拔

　　yifanghuoshuangfangzaifenshouhoudechaojiatongchangbujinjinshimingmianshangdenanti，gengshencengcideyuanyinshiqinggandezhizhe。fenshouhou，suiranbicihuoxuyijinggaoqingchubicizhijianbushiyi，dantamenquenanyigesheqinggandeenyuan，zhizherengranchanraozaixinzhong。zheileiqinggandejiangchiqushicushilianggerenzaichaojiazhongshikebaochizheyizhongmangliudeguanlian，tajiangzhengzhizuoweiweihubaoyangneixindefangshi，shituyongyancidejiliejiaozhanlaizhengmingzijidejianjiehelinian。yiner，jibianfenshouzaoyichengweishishi，tamenrengranbaituobulechaojianengliangxunhuan。

　　提示与伤害，情绪宣泄场

　　zaifenshouhoudechaojiazhong，youshiqingxuxuanxiechengweileyizhongkeyidifangshi。chaojianenggouchengweibicibicizhijiandetishi，tixingduifangyiqiandaozhiguosunhai，yegaojiezijiyiqiandedaoguosunhai。zheileitishiyushanghainengliangxunhuan，cushibicixianruyizhongzenghenyunaonudezhuangtaixia，tamenshituyongchaojialaiweihuzijideqingxuhezizunxin，biaodachuzijidebumanhebufuqi。danshi，zaizheizhongchangjingxia，chaojiajinjinqingxuxuanxie，meifaconggenbenshangjiejuefenshouhouwenti，zhinengrangbicigengshendixianrumaodundangzhong。

　　悲伤的循环系统，探寻真正的解脱

　　fenshouhoudechaojiaxunhuanbuduan，cushishuangfangxianruleyizhongbeishangdexunhuanxitongdangzhong。tamenyexuxiwangyongchaojiaquwanhuishiqudedongxiaiqing，huozhexuyaojiecijihuibiaodazijibumanhesunhai。danshi，chaojiabingbunengzhenzhengchuliwenti，tazhishiyizhongbuzhenshideqingganxuanxie，meiyoujifenshouhoudeshuangfangchanshengzhenzhengdejietuo。

　　fenshouhouhaichaojia，yaodapozheigexunhuanxitong，bicibixugengjiashenrusikaoyufenxifenshouhoudemaodunhechongtu。renzhihejieshoubicizhijiandefenshouqueding，tanxuncongchaojiazhongjietuodexingshi，yexushiweiyidechulu。jinyouzaizhenzhengdesikaoyuchengzhangguochengzhong，cainengfaxianfenshouhoudehepingyubaorong，maixianggenghaodemingtian。