情感心态咨询：婚姻相处之道经典语录

　　fenshouhouhubudarao，zaifenshouhou，youderenkeyibicilakaijuli，buhuizaibiciganyubicizhijiandeshenghuo，yidadaohubudaraozhuangtai。tamenbuzaitongguoweixin、duanxinhuoshejiaowangluolailianxita，doubuhuichangshilejieduifangdezhuangkuanghexingji。zheileihubudaraodexingshikenengshiweilefangzhikaiqitongkuhuoshiweilegenghaodekaishixindeshenghuo。wulunshichuyuwanshandeguanlijuecehuoshilijieduifangdetiaoxuan，fenshouzhihoudehubudaraopinghenglebiciqingxu，shibicizhijiannengdulidimianxiangweilai。

　　重构自立自强：分离出来爱恨纠葛

　　fenshoushiyiduanganqinglianxidejieshu，danduiyudaduoshurenlaishuo，fenshoubingbudengyuchedifangxiayiwang。danshi，ruokeyizuodaofenshouhouhubudarao，shuangfangdoukeyihuodeyiduanzhenguidedandushizhang，youliyugaibianziwo，jiechuqingganshangdeenyuan。

　　彻底改变私人空间：拉开距离的需求

　　fenshouhouhubudaraokenengshishourenxuchedigaibiansirenkongjiandedaodejieguo。2geyiqianqinmiwujianxiangbanren，xuyaoyiduanshijianqushiyingqueshao，jiqizaicizhaohuizijidezijuexing。lakaijulidejuecebingbushibiaominglengdan，fanershibicizhijianxinlingshenchudeweihu，yeshiweilegenghaodebaoyangbenshen。

　　重视管理决策：彼此之间挑选尊重

　　hubudaraoshibicizhijiansuoxuanzedeyizhongzhongshi。fenshoujuefeiyishi，danzaizuochujuedingdeguochengdangzhong，shuangfangdoufuchulenuliyusikao。dangfenshoubianchenglezuiheshidexuanzehou，hubudaraodaibiaozhelingyifangjiangbuzaishiwomenshenghuolidejujiaodian，fanershinengrangduifangmaichuzishendejiaobu、tanxunzijideaiqing。

　　减轻痛楚：防止开启痛苦

　　fenshouchanshengdeshangtongtongchangbukehushi，tebieshizaigangfenshoushi。hubudaraodejuecekeyifangzhikaiqitongkudehuiyiyuqinggan，jiyubicizhijianyiduanlizhisikaodeshijian。zaizheiguochengzhong，shuangfangdoukeyiyiyizhonggengjiachengshu、gengjianqiangdetaiduqumianduiguoqu，tongshiweijianglaidailaixindeqidai。

　　完毕悲伤的循环系统：找到新的逐渐

　　hubudaraorangbicihaiyoujihuiwanbijiyoudetongchuxunhuanxitong，xianggengjiajiankang、gengjijidefangxiangmaijin。zheizhongguanlijuececushibicibuhuizaiyouyuguoqudeyinying，buhuizaichenzuiyutongkuzhizhong，ershinenggouzhiliyuziwotishenghezhaodaoxindezhujian。

　　自由而完善：掌握自己的生活

　　fenshouhouhubudaraoshiyizhongsuiyiyuchengshudeyizhongtixian。shuangfangdouhaiyoujihuizhongxinshenshizijideshenghuo，zhangwozijidemingyun。nengdulidishenghuo、jiejueqinggankunhuo，zhanxianchuneixindewanqiangyuchengshu，zheizhongfenshoubingbushiyizhongbuchenggong，ershiyizhongbijingzhiludechengzhangguocheng。

　　zaifenshouhou，hubudaraocushibicinengdulitanrandimianduizijideqingxuyushenghuo。zheiyangdejuedingmodadeyongqigengjiachengshu，dandailailelianggerendoukeyimaixianggenghaodemingtian，zhongxinzhaodaoshuyuzijidexingfu。