花镇情感咨询：夫妻感情破裂的十四种情形

　　fenshouhoujiuchandaomeiyouzunyanderen，dangliangrenjingliguofenshouhou，youshihuiyouyifangnanyishihuai，huijuefangkaishou。zheiyirenyaojiuchanlingyifang，buguzishendezunyanzizunxin，guoyuzhizhezhongxindedaolingyifangdeaiyuguanxin。tahuotakenenghuijingchangjibicitongdianhua，saoraoduifangshejiaowangluo，naizhibuguyiqiedizhaodaolingyifangbingbiaodazijiwuqiongzhuiqiu。zheileijiuchandaomeiyouzunyanderentongchangxianruleyizhongexunhuan，youyuhaizidexingweizhinengzaochenglingyifanggengduodeyanfanhebieryuanzhi。zheileibuzhengchangdegerenxingweibudanshanghaidaozhuiqiuduixiang，yeshanghaidaozishen，zhinengjinyibujiashenzishendeshangtonghewuligan。

　　（小标题：迷途于分手后的纠缠）

　　fenshouduiyurenhereneryandoushiyiduantongkuerrangrenwufawanghuaidezaoyu。danshi，youderenzaifenshouzhihouyejieshoubuleshiji，xianrulejiuchandezhaozezhong，shiquleziyidezizun。zheiqunrenyixinxiangyaoshiqiyiwangdeaiqing，buguantouruduodachengben。rangwomenyiqitanxunyixiazheixiefenshouhoujiuchanderenshizenyangmishifangxiang，hulvezizunxinde。

　　并没有成本特别大的挽留

　　zaifenshouyihou，yixierenbeichimihehuiyisuoqushi，bazijiwanquantourudaolezhuiqiuqiannanyoudeguochengdangzhong。tamenhaobuyouyudedingzheyiqiedaijia，baohanfangqizijidezizun。takenenghuijingchangtongdianhua、faxinxi，qiangzhijianmianqiannanyou，naizhitongguoshejiaomeitidazhangqiguqiuai。buguanbugubierendeganshouyuzunzhong，zaileishuidixiadeyikemishileziji。

　　封闭式于过去的回忆

　　zheizhongjiuchanderenchenniyucengjingdetianmiyishunjian，jieshoubulefenshoudeshiji。tabayiwangdemeihaojiyibianda，guoyuzhizheyiduanganqingdeyinhen。zheileizhizheshidetamenmeifaxiangqiantuijin，yuelaiyuemangmudechimiyiwang，hushileshijishenghuozhongdejihuiyuhenyoukeneng。tamenxinzhixianrujiongjing，baituobulegongtonghuiyideqianban。

　　纠缠里的自身缺失

　　zheizhongfenshouhoujiuchanderenweilenengwanhuiganqing，ganyuansheqizizunyudaodedixian。tamenyuelaiyueguoduyilailingyifangdeguanzhuhuifu，naizhiquzundixiatoudijieshouduifangdechaoxiaohesunhai。tamenzhuiqiudebuzaishibicihuxiangyouhaogandeaiqing，fanershidanfangmianzhizhehebuzixin。yiner，tamenzhujiansangshilezishen，jiangduifangfangdaozijidezhenggequanqiu。

　　无尽的悲伤和循环

　　zheileiwuzizunxindejiuchanzhinengdailaigengduotongkuyusunhai。lingyifangkenenghuiyinweiyanfanhebumanerbiandeshengshu，naizhichanshengfangan。erjiuchanderenwangwanghuiyulaiyuxiaochenhetongku，quenanyibaituozishen。zheileiexunhuanhuibuduanshenhuabicideshangtong，rangtamenxianruyigezhengbutuodeqingxuwoxuan。

　　从纠缠中获取摆脱

　　yaowanchengzheileijiuchan，neixiebeimituderenbixuyishidaolefangkaishouweilezijihao，bingbushiweilenengrangduifanghouhuimoji。tayinggaizaicizhaodaoshuyuzijideshiyongjiazhihezunyan，zhongxinsikaobenshenduixingfudedingyi，jizhonghuajinglifangzaiziyidechengzhangyufazhanzhong。weiyouruci，tamencainengbaituojiuchandewoxuan，yinglaishuyuzijixindepianzhang。

　　fenshouhoujiuchandaomeiyouzunyanderen，shiyigexianrukunjingderenwujiaose。danshi，weiyoutongguoyishidaozishenwentibingcaiqujijierjiankangxingdong，cainengzhongxinzhonghuoziyou。shifangchulaiyiwang，guanxinyigerendechengzhanghexingfu，cainengfaxianzhenzhenzhengzhengshuyuzijidexingfuyuzizun。