挽回老公咨询：夫妻总是吵架，这段婚姻怎么维持下去？

　　fenshouhoujiuchanbuqingdeyihunnanrenxin，jingchangxianruyigejinanshouyounanyizibadeqingxuwoxuan。zheixierenzaixianghuzhijianpanghuang，yihuierqidaizhongxindianranqianren，shierhuihencongqiandetiaoxuan。wulunshichuyuduiguoqudelianlianbushe，huoshiduiweilaiyoulv，tamennanyigesheduiyuganqingdeyilaixing。zheizhongxintaidanxinshidetamenxianruyizhongkunhuodeqingkuang，buzhidaoruhejiejueziyidehunyinyuqinggan。tamenchengshouleneixinshenchudejiujiehegongzuoyali，bingqieyeshanghaidaozijiyuzhouweirendexingfukuaile。

　　已婚男人的爱恨纠葛

　　fenshouhoujiuchanbuqingdeyihunnanrenxin，qingxujiuchanshiyizhongchangjianderenjijiaowangnandian，danduiyuyihunnanreneryan，fenshouhoudejiuchanquexiandegengfuzaqiedichen。zheizhongnanrenjingchangshenchuanhunyindeshufu，quenanyiwangjicengjingneiyiduanmirendeganqing，tamenduiguoqudeairengranqianyinzhetadexin，yinfachuyixiliedeaihenjiuge。

　　旧爱的回忆与吸引住

　　fenkaiduiyurenherenlaishuodoushiyizhongsunhai，danduiyuyihunnanreneryan，fenkaidaibiaozhewomenbixudiudiaoneiyiduanbeiweifandehunyinchengnuo，bingyingduicengjingaiguoderencihouchengweitamendeyiwang。danshi，jiuaidehuiyiyiranzaifenshouhouruyingsuixingdiyingxiangzhetamen。bulunshiwangrilangmandeyishunjian，huoshishenkeqinshenjingli，douchengweiletamenxinlinanyimomieyinji。zheizhongzhuiyishitamennanyidikang，shitamenxianruduiguoqudeyikaohekewangdangzhong。

　　对未来忧虑与迟疑

　　zaiyihunnanrendexinlingshenchu，duiweilaiyoulvchangchangliaoraoshanwu。tamengaoqingchu，zaicichengshoujiuchanwangwangyiweizhehuihuaihunyinhejiatingdepingwen。danshi，tadeneixinquehaowufalvfaguifuzheileidanxin。tamenhaipagudan，buganmianduiyipiankumen，danxinyusuoaizhirenwanquanfenlichulai，kenenghuidaozhitamenyouyubuding，wufazuochuxuanze。zheileixinlidouzhengyihuozheziji，shitamenxianrulewujidepanghuangdangzhong。

　　诸多原因与自我麻醉

　　yihunnanrenbuduanxunzhaozheziwomazuidefangshiqujiejuezheileijiuchan。tamenziquqirudixunzhaogezhongjiekouhetuocilaihelizishendexingjing。youxienanrenyaoshuo，tamenshouweihunyinjinjinshiweileyigejiatingdewanzhenghehaizidejianglai；youxienanrenzezichengwei，tamenyuqizizhibuguoshibaochizhehunyinbiaomianfangshi，bicizhijianmeiyouaiqing；yeyoudenanrenhuiduizijishuo，tazhishiqingxushouli，xuyaoyiduanshijiandebianhua。zheizhongyuanyinzhishitaweileanfuxinliheyangaizishenxingweierbianzhichude，tamenshenzhi，zheizhongzhishiduizijiziquqiru。

　　纠缠与自我解脱的分歧

　　yihunnanrenzaizheiyangdejiuchanzhongjixiangjietuo，youbuyuanyisheqi。tamengaoqingchujiuchanbuqingchuzhihuirangniheshenbianderengengweifushang，dantamenquenanyikangjuzheizhongqinggandeqianyindai。chennizaijiuchanzhong，tamenyuelaiyueyoulizailianggeshijiezhijian，bingmeiyouzhaodaoyigejunhengdechurukou。tamenjihuailiancengjingdeaiqing，youduizishendehunyinchengdanshiminggan，zheileineixinshenchudefenqirangtamenxianrulemimanghewukenaihededibu。

　　自我提升与心灵摆脱的关键所在

　　fenshouhoujiuchanbuqingdeyihunnanrenxin，ruoxiangbaituozheileifenshouhoujiuchanbuqingchudejiongjing，yihunnanrenbixujingliyigeziwotishenghexinlingbaituodeyigeguocheng。taxuyaoshenshizijideyiwang，lejiejiuchandeshizhi，bingbingzhezhenxinshiyi、shanyihefuzedetaiduduidaini、duidaitaren。tamenyidingyaozhaodaoyizhongjunheng，jizunzhongyuaixicengjingdeaiqing，youdanfuqihunyinzerenyuyiwu。jinyoutongguogezhongziwuyuchengzhang，tamencainengzuodaozhenzhengbaituoneixin，xunzhaozijizhenzhenzhengzhenglixiangdeaiqinghejijingdeguichu。