fenshouduanlianhounanrendexinlixuezhideshizaiqinglvguanxizhong,dangnanrenzaoyufenshouqiebunengzhudonglianxiduixiangshi,qixintaihexingweifangshisuochengxianchudetexingheguilv。zheileishehuixinlixuezhuyaoweiraozhenanrenzaiqingganshangdewaishangzhongjingliguodetongkuhedanyou,yijitadangmianduifenlihouruhediaozhengziji、tanxunxuanxiehezhihaodefangshi。congxinhan、caiyidaozhujianjiena、ziwochengzhang,nanrenzaifenshouduanlianhoudexinlibianhuatansuozhezijiduiaiqingdelijiehegerentishengdegailv。
xinlixuezhuanjiajuede,fenshouduanlianhounanrendexinlixueshiyigefuzaerdutedexingye,shenrufenxinanrenzaishiquairenhoujingliguodeqingxuyugerenxingweizhuanbian。congxinhan、tongkudaozhujianjiena、ziwochengzhang,nanrenzaifenshouhouzaoshouzheyiduanguanyuhunyinheziworenshidezhongsuquanguocheng。
1. 躲避与防范意识:
fenshouduanlianzhihoudenanrentongchanghuigandaojusang、shiwanghefushang,tamenyexuchangshiduobihuobimianmianduizheiyangdexiaojiqingxu。zheileiduobigerenxingweichangbiaoxianweizhuixungongzuozhongshangdechenggong,chenniyuxiuxianhuodonghuoguoliangyundongyifensanzhuyili,yiqiufangfanyishibinghuanjieneixinshenchudetongku。
2. 消极悲观与愧疚:
zaifenshouyihou,nanrentongchanghuizhujianzhiyizijijiazhiyuyouhuoli,zaijingshenshangxiaojibeiguan。takenenghuiguoduopouxicongqiandegerenxingwei,tanxunzijishifouyouyouwuguocuo,naizhimaiyuanzijizaochenglebuchenggongdeqinglvguanxi。
3. 损害与恼怒释放出来:
dangnanrenzhenqieganshoudaoshiquairendeshanghaishi,fennudeqingxutongchanghuifuxianzaiyanqian。takenenghuigandaofennu、jiduhezenghen,duiairenzaochengdishi,bingshituyongxuanxieqingxulaijianqingneixinshenchudetongku,danshizheizhongxuanxietongchangbingbuweisheng。
4. 接纳和成长:
suizheshijiantuiyi,nanrenmanmanjienafenshoudeshiji,bingkaishixunqiuziwochengzhangyufazhan。takenenghuishenshizijibuzhengque,bingchangshicongbuchenggongdeganqingshizhongjiqujiaoxun,jijizhudonggaishanzishen。zheiyijieduandoushinanrengaibianziworenzhinengli、zaiduzhaodaoxingfudeliangji。
5. 寻找社交媒体适用:
zaifenshouduanlianhou,nanrenyibanhuijixujiejuebierendelingtingyuzhichi。tamenxiangyaonenggoujiezhuqinpenghaoyoudelijiejili,yihuanjiejingshenshangdeyali。genjuyutarenfenxiangqingxu、dedaojingshencengmiandeshiyong,nanrenkeyigenghaodiyingduifenshoudechongji,bingzhujianhuifuzhengchangdeshenghuozhuangtai。
6. 复建个人价值:
fenshouduanlianhou,nanrentongchangxuyaozhongxinsikaohezhongjianzishenzizunxinyuzixin。takenenghuijijizhudongzhuixungerentishenghegerenaihao,nulitishengzijideziwojiazhiganhexinxin。zaizheigeguochengzhong,nanrennenggouzhongxinzuohuiziji,zhongxindingyizijideshenfenxingfudelaiyuan。
7. 寻求专业协助:
youyixienanrenzaiduidaifenshouzhihoudeqinggankunraoshi,kenengmianlinjiannan,meifazixingdiaozheng。zheishihou,xunqiuzhuanyexinlizhichichengweiyigehaodexuanze。xinlixuezixunshihuokangfushikeyitigongyouzhidezhidaohezhichi,xiezhunanrennenggougenghaodijiejueqingganwenti,jiqigerenqianneng,baituoqingxujiongjing。
zaifenxifenshouduanlianhounanrendexinlixueshi,zhangwonanrenjingshencengmiandetongkuhedanyou,yijitaxintaibianhuadeguiji,duiyunanxingziwochengzhangyuxingfudegaizaoyouweizhongyao。genjurenshihelijiezheiyixinlizhuangtai,nanrennenggougenghaodiyingduifenshoudechongji,maixianggengjiankang、jijizhudonggengjiachengshuderenshengguiji。
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